【题目】Empathy

Last year, researchers from the University of Michigan reported that empathy, the ability to understand other people, among college students had dropped sharply over the past 10 years. 【1】 Today, people spend more time along and are less likely to join groups and clubs.

Jennifer Freed, a co-director of a teen program, has another explanation. Turn on the TV, and youre showed with news and reality shows full of people fighting, competing, and generally treating one another with no respect. 【2】

There are good reasons not to follow those bad examples. Humans are socially related by nature. 【3】 Researchers have also found that empathetic teenagers are more likely to have high self-respect. Besides, empathy can be a cure for loneliness, sadness, anxiety, and fear.

Empathy is also an indication of a good leader. In fact, Freed says, many top companies report that empathy is one of the most important things they look for in new managers. 【4】 Academics are important. But if you dont have emotional(情感的)intelligence, you wont be as successful in work or in your love life, she says.

Whats the best way to up your EQ? For starters, let down your guard and really listen to others. 【5】

To really develop empathy, youd better volunteer at a nursing home or a hospital, join a club or a team that has a diverse membership, have a sharing circle with your family, or spend time caring for pets at an animal shelter.

Everyone is different, and levels of empathy differ from person to person.

That could be because so many people have replaced face time with screen time, the researchers said.

One doesnt develop empathy by having a lot of opinions and doing a lot of talking, Freed says.

Humans learn by exampleand most of the examples on it are anything but empathetic.

Empathy is a matter of learning how to understand someone elseboth what they think and how they feel.

Good social skillsincluding empathyare a kind of emotional intelligence that will help you succeed in many areas of life.

Having relationships with other people is an important part of being humanand having empathy is decisive to those relationship.

【题目】阅读下面的文字,完成下列小题。

韩六爷是睡神。

韩家庄的人都这样说,包括柳叶屋里的祖六奶奶。

祖六奶奶说韩六爷左脸上的疤就是睡出来的。每到过小年的时候,祖六奶奶就会告诉大家,有一年,他们家在炸麻花时,韩六爷一边炸,一边打瞌睡,那口水一不小心溅到了油里面,结果韩六爷的左脸就有了现在的疤。听的人,看着祖六奶奶那半认真的神情,心里难免会想起韩六爷家麻花那股子哈喇子味,再也不敢在他家留饭了。

于是,“睡神”越叫越响,而“韩六爷”倒让人给忘了,就连小朋友们也都有样学样地喊他“睡神”。每到这个时候,韩六爷都乐地应着,花眉毛还一抖一抖的。

可是,下棋的老支书却说韩六爷是大智若愚,大睡若醒。

据老支书说,韩六爷年轻时可是健旺得很,一人能干三人的活。

祖六奶奶也说:“死老头这睡病是后来得的,就是老大出生那年得的。”

“老大”名叫韩要武,属马,算起来都快五十岁了。

要武出生那年,年成还不错,队上竟然给每家分了五斗小麦子,韩六爷心里很是畅快。可是,乐极难免生悲,甘苦常常相幸。

韩六爷年轻时学过些昆曲小生的段子,在开批斗会时一不小心溜了嘴,被革命小将们逮了个正着。结果,被抓进村子里的小学审讯了半小时,又被小将们逼着扫了二十八家厕所——小将们还要他一边打扫,一边唱“良辰美景奈何天,赏心乐事谁家院”。后来,谁要是在韩六爷面前提起厕所,他就喷唾沫到别人的脸上。

幸好老支书搭了一句话,小将们的头头在韩六爷的屁股上踢了一脚,骂了一句:“滚!封建主义的走狗!”要不然,韩六爷恐怕要将整个村子一百五十户人家的厕所打扫一遍!

韩六爷感激老支书。

可是走支书第二天就犯了一个“天”字号的错误。

那天老支书倚着梯子在韩牛蛙家的外墙上画宣传画,一不留神他将标记位罝的符青标在了毛主席的画像上。结果,站在街边袖手晒太阳的副支书韩成训马上就大声喊了起来:“韩芥园,你毛主席他老人家画个日本太君胡,你是何居心!”

那晚,雪下得很急,批斗会开得很猛。在韩成训的动员下,大家一个接一个上台发言,深挖支书韩芥园的反动思想。会一直开到凌晨一点,还没有要结束的意思。

“韩芥园一贯思想反动,对毛主席他人家心怀不满。不信大家看看他脚上的鞋!他那双胶鞋的底子上印着一个‘毛’字图案,他是要将毛主席他老人家踩在脚下啊!”妇女主任郭彩娥大声控诉道。

韩六爷鄙夷地看了郭彩娥一眼,故意起哄说:“哎,彩娥,你咋知道支书鞋底的用案?你和支书是啥关系啊?”

大家哄堂大笑。

郭彩娥急红了脸,恨恨地了韩六爷一个白眼。

韩成训大声喊道:“严肃点!注意阶级立场!”

会继续往下开,韩芥园颤巍巍地戴着纸帽子,脸上挨了郭彩娥一口浓痰。

时间实在太晚了,大家有一声没一声地应和着热情的韩成训和郭彩娥。

郭彩娥为了活跃气氛,还重新做了一个纸帽,上面用浓墨写了一行字:油炸反革命分子韩芥园的狗头!”

韩六爷靠着炉子上的烟囱,炉子上有一盆热水。他冷眼看着郭彩娥的表演,心里很是厌恶。他于是闭上了眼睛,炉子上水盆里冒出来的水汽环绕着他。

“油炸反革命分子韩芥园的狗头!”郭彩娥高喊了一声口号。

站在郭彩娥身后的韩六爷被这猛一激灵,肩膀没靠稳,身子向前一扑,打翻了炉子上的热水盆,一下子全溅在郭彩娥的大腿上去了。

郭彩娥大哭大闹起来,脏话全向着韩六爷飚了出来,韩六爷也趁机乱飚脏话,泼妇、下贱之类的字眼全放了出来。批斗会一下子笑了场,闹得韩成训不得不宣布散会。

那晚,韩六爷觉得郭彩娥的脏话听起来好舒服。

那晚,韩芥园在出会场时感激地看了韩六爷一眼。

那晚,韩六爷得了个“睡神”的雅号并且,他也从此上了睡觉。

再后来,韩六爷一开批斗会就睡觉,再没人要站在他旁边,也再没人逼着他发言了。

韩六爷觉得心里畅快得紧。

再后来,已经进入了没有批斗会的时代了,可韩六爷这开会就睡觉的毛病再也改不过来了。

如今,祖六奶奶常常对人叹口气说:“他是睡神……”

(1)下列对小说相关内容和艺术特色的分析鉴赏,正确的一项是( )

A.老支书说韩六爷是大智若愚,大睡若醒,由此可见,他明白当年批斗会上韩六爷和郭彩娥的对骂是为了救人而故意为之的。

B.文中“雪下得很急”,暗示了韩六爷内心的焦躁;而“炉子上水盆里冒出来的水汽环绕着他”,则暗示了韩六爷内心的平和。

C.韩成训指责老支书对毛主席心怀不满,这反映出他是一个卑贱无耻,下流龌龊,只想通过斗争他人往上爬的政治投机分子。

D.为了将韩六爷塑造成一个特殊年代里的平凡而不失善良的小人物形象,小说共用了动作、外貌和心理描写三种描写手法。

(2)作品主人公韩六爷有什么样的性格特点?请简要分析。

(3)小说以“睡神”为标题,有什么妙处?请简析。

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