【题目】 Why do parents have such a difficult time to communicate openly and honestly with their teens? For this, there are many reasons but most of them come from not being able to properly understand their teens. It is a dangerous gap because parents will have to communicate with their teens about a wide variety of issues(问题) during the most important years of their lives. Thus, parents must know how to communicate openly and honestly with their teens.
Here are a few tips to make communication easier between parents and teenagers.
1.Try not to look down upon your teens. Make them feel as if their views really matter, which not only helps your discussions with your teen but also brings you closer to him.
2.Imagine what it would be like to be a teen. Try to remember feelings you experienced as a teenager and apply it to your teen’s situation.
3. Never make negative(否定的) remarks to your teen about what he has said or done.
4.Remember how much courage it would have taken for your teen to come and talk to you about his personal issues. So listen respectfully.
5. Try to offer some help to your teen when they face some difficulties. For example, if your teen is unusually angry, it may be time to spend a bit of time with your teen to find out what is wrong and where it is coming from.
It is, therefore, necessary for parents to keep lines of communication open at all times with their teens. Try to remember what it was like to be a teenager and how weak you felt. Then you will be well on your way to help your teen communicate more openly and honestly.
Title: 【1】 to have a parents-children successful communication
【2】 | Parents have such a difficult time to communicate openly and honestly with their teens because they are 【3】 to understand the teens properly. |
【4】 | ●If you 【5】 highly of your teens, you can discuss with your teen easily and they will be closer to you. ●Imagine what it would be like to be a teen and 【6】your feelings you experienced as a teen. ●Try to listen to your teen 【7】 when he has courage to talk to you about his personal issues. ●Try to 【8】 your teen with help when they are in trouble. ●It may 【9】you a bit of time to find out what makes your teen angry. |
It’s 【10】for parents to keep lines of communication open at all times with their teens. | |
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