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13．Building Trust in a Relationship Again
Trust is a learned behavior that we gain from past experiences．（36）B  Trust is a risk．But you can't be successful when there's a lack of trust in a relationship that results from an action where the wrongdoer takes no responsibility to fix the mistake．
Unfortunately，we've all been victims of betrayal．Whether we've been stolen from，lied to，misled，or cheated on，there are different levels of losing trust．Sometimes people simply can't trust anymore．（37）E  It's understandable，but if you're willing to build trust in a relationship again，we have some steps you can take to get you there．
●（38）A  Having confidence in yourself will help you make better choices because you can see what the best outcome would be for your well-being．
●（39）CIf you've been betrayed，you are the victim of your circumstance．But there's a difference between being a victim and living with a"victim mentality"．At some point in all of our lives，we'll have our trust tested or violated．
●You didn't lose"everything"．Once trust is lost，what is left？Instead of looking at the situation from this hopeless angle，look at everything you still have and be thankful for all of the good in your life．（40）G Instead，it's a healthy way to work through the experience to allow room for positive growth and forgiveness．

A．Learn to really trust yourself．
B．It is putting confidence in someone．
C．Stop regarding yourself as the victim．
D．Remember that you can expect the best in return．
E．They've been too badly hurt and they can't bear to let it happen again．
F．This knowledge carries over in their attitude toward their future relationships．
G．Seeing the positive side of things doesn't mean you're ignoring what happened．

12．Many people admit that they aren't prepared financially for life's unexpected challenges and emergencies．If your New Year's decision is to become more financially prepared for a"rainy day"the following tips are helpful for you to save，
*Start saving now．
Set specific savings goals and break them down to a set dollar amount to save each paycheck．（36）DSave at least a small portion of each paycheck and remain committed to saving，and then look for ways each month to increase the amount．
*（37）AOne of the simplest ways to find money to put toward your rainy day fund is to keep a close eye on where your money is being spent．For two or three months，try keeping track of every expense，including small ones．Once you have a better idea of where your money is going，make a budget that includes a spending and savings plan．（38）F
*Make saving automatic．
（39）EIf your goal is to save﹩5，000this year，calculate the amount you'll need to save from each paycheck，then arrange to have it automatically saved into your savings account each time you get paid．Visit your bank branch and ask a banker if you can set up automatic transfers into your savings account．
*Go on a spending diet．
Avoid spending any money on non-essentials for 30days and challenge yourself to save as much as you can to put toward your rainy day fund．（40）GThen make a list and determine not to spend on these items for one month，

A．Track your spending．
B．Put your savings to work．
C．Do remember：Actions always speak louder than words．
D．The important thing is to start saving now，no matter how little．
E．Treat your rainy day account like you'd treat any other financial obligation（债务）．
F．Review your budget at the end of every month and determine if your spending is in line with your plan．
G．Review your budget and identify extra or unnecessary expenses，such as eating out，shopping，entertainment，etc．

11．Having self-confidence can be the difference between being successful and unsuccessful．Self-confidence is one of the best assets （优点） a person can have，because it affects both your personal and professional life．The way you carry yourself，the things you say and the things you do can indicate your level of self-confidence．If your self-confidence is low，isolation and depression can set in and your quality of life suffers．To avoid this problem，you can try some kinds of new lifestyle adjustments to improve your self-confidence．
Take care of your appearance．（16）B because when you look good，you feel good about yourself．You become more confident when interacting with other people．
（17）D Because they may inspire you to be confident also．Watch how they behave，speak and carry themselves and try to put these actions into your own life．
Praise yourself for your achievements．（18）C Realize that it's your talents and abilities that helped you reach your goal．
Learn from your mistakes instead of blaming and criticizing yourself for your failures．Dwelling on your failures only develops a lack of self-esteem and doesn't allow you to move forward．（19）F
Step outside your comfort zone．（20）G Even though it may be uncomfortable at first，your self-confidence will improve．People that hide in the back and don't want to get noticed often lack self-esteem and self-confidence．By staying in the back，they're not doing anything to improve the situation．

A．Drink some．
B．Dress nicely．
C．Stop thinking that you're just lucky．
D．Try to stay with confident people．
E．Go on praising the people you know well．
F．Accept your mistakes for what they are and move on．
G．Sit in the front of the class instead of hiding in the back．

10．时下，越来越多的家庭拥有了轿车，同时车祸也在不断上升．请围绕"How to Drive safely？"写一篇80～100词的文章，内容要点如下（括号中的词汇可供参考）：
为了保护你和他人，开车时应记住以下几点：（in order to，protect ）
1．不酒后驾车；（drink wine）
2．不疲劳驾驶；（tiredly）
3．开车途中不使用电话：
4．遇到行人减慢你的车速．（slow down）
How to Drive Safely？
Nowadays，more and more families have cars．At the same time，there are a lot of car accidents every day．
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9．假如你叫李华，一年来，你和你的弟弟曾因家庭贫困而失学．但最近你们得到了一位在南京工作的澳大利亚人Mr．Black 的赞助而重返了校园．你在2015年1月 3日给他写了一封英文信表示感谢，并告诉他你们最近的学习情况．
信的内容包括以下几点：
1．一年来，你们一直都在努力学习，在老师和同学们的帮助下，学习取得了很大的进步；
2．经常受到老师、父母的表扬和鼓励；
3．决心继续努力，学好各门功课，将来考上重点大学；
4．渴望见到Mr．Black，但因没机会去南京，所以希望他能给你们寄张照片；
5．钱和阅读材料都已收到，非常感谢．
注意：
1．词数：100 左右；
2．不要逐条翻译，可适当增加细节使行文连贯；
3．注意采用正确的书信格式．

8．近些年来，随着网络的普及，越来越多的学生的书写能力明显退步了．为了改变这种局面，保护传统民族文化------汉字，我校学生会提出以下倡议：
1、减少课外上网时间，多读书；
2、养成每天记日记的好习惯，练习书写；
3、少发电子邮件，尽量动手给亲朋好友写书信．
请你根据以上内容，代学生会写一封英文倡议书．
注意：1、词数：100左右，开头和结尾已经给出，不计入总词数．
      2、可适当增加细节，以使行文连贯．
参考词汇：普及：popularity 汉字：Chinese characters
          养成…的习惯：form the habit of
Dear friends，

Let's take action now!
Students'Union．

7．假定你是高二学生李华．你的英国笔友Mike 来信说他准备戒烟．请你根据以下内容提示给他回信：
1．给予肯定和鼓励；
2．推荐可行的戒烟方法；
3．表达你的祝愿．
注意：
1．词数100-120；
2．可适当增加细节，以使行文连贯．

6．My partner wants to keep the company small _____ I'd like to expand it．（　　）

5．假设你是李华，请以My favorite sport-Volleyball为题写一篇日记，介绍
1．小时候对运动不感兴趣．
2.2015年，中国女排赢得世界杯冠军的比赛让我感动，之后我开始喜欢排球．
3．既提高了排球技术也锻炼了身体．
4．排球还教会了我很多，比如：团队协作、不怕困难…
注意：词数100字左右（开头已给出，但不计人总词数）；可以适当增加细节，以使行文连贯．
参考词汇：
中国女排Chinese Women's Volleyball Team　　世界杯the world Cup
My favorite sport-Volleyball
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4．假定你是李华，你的英国笔友Chris很热爱中国文化，特别是戏曲文化．2016年1月30日下午2：00在黄冈市新落成的黄梅戏大剧院将上演新编的黄梅戏《红楼梦》．请根据下面信息，给他写一封电子邮件，邀请他一起观看演出．
●提出邀请并简述原因；
●提出观剧后活动建议（如游览附近的遗爱湖公园等）；
●请求对方回复．
注意：1．词数100左右；
2．可以适当增加细节，以使行文连贯；
　3．开头已给出，不计入总词数．
参考词汇：黄梅戏大剧院 Huangmei Opera Grand Theatre
红楼梦 The Dream of Red Mansion
Dear Chris
I have some good news for you!

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