52. Which of the persons below will not be allowed to enter the
attractions in Pearl Harbor?
A. Alice, a student from L
A,
comes with her parents, with a Sony digital camera in her hand.
B. Geogre Zhang, from Shanghai, leaves his
backpack in a locker outside the entrance.
C. Billy, from Italy,
with small bag in hand and inside the bag is a cam-recorder.
D. Hose, from Spain,
who has left his luggage in the hotel.
D
Listen carefully; we would
like to tell you something that could save your precious time and money! Best
of all, it is free! It’s “no”. What do you ask? We’ll say it again. “No”. Sweet
and simple “no”.
Say “no” at
your office and see how quickly that pile of work on your desk disappears.
“Saying “no” to others means you are saying “yes” to yourself,” said
Leslie Charles, a professional speaker from East Lansing, Michigan.
Susie Watson,
a famous writer, said people who always say “yes” need to say “no” without
guilt (内疚) or fear of
punishment. “I would rather have someone
give me a loving ‘no’ than an obligated (强制的)‘yes’”, she said.
Susie Watson
says she feels “no” obligation to give an explanation when she says “no” either
socially or professionally. Does she feel guilty about it? “Not at all,” said
Watson, who is director of advertising and public relations at Timex Corp in
Middle-bury. “Most people are afraid of saying “no”. My advice is to say “yes”
only if you don’t mean ‘no’.”
Watson said
“no” is the most effective weapon against wasting time. “Every year there are
more demands on your time. Other people are happy to use up your time,” Watson
said. Time saving appears to be “no’s” greatest friend. “No” can be your new friend,
a powerful tool to take back your life. “No” may even take you further in the business
world than “yes”. “No” is power and strength. “No” now seems completely correct.
“Saying ‘no’ isn’t easy. But finally it’s greatly liberating,” Charles said.
But, he added, a “no” project needs to be worked on every day because it is
hard to change long-term habit.
But, he also
warns: “Don’t go to extremes. Don’t
find yourself saying “no” to everything. In return you should learn to hear
“no”.”