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Lose-Win is weak. It¡¯s easy to get stepped on. It¡¯s easy to be the nice guy. It¡¯s easy to give in, all in the name of being a peacemaker.

A girl named Jenny once told me about her ¡¡36¡¡ ¡¡in the world of Lose Win during her eighth grade year before she finally broke ¡¡37¡¡ :

My ¡¡38¡¡ ¡¡with my mom all started one day ¡¡39¡¡ ¡¡she said to me sarcastically (·í´ÌµØ), ¡°Wow, you¡¯re sure sassy (ºñÁ³Æ¤µÄ) today.¡± I ¡¡40¡¡ ¡¡it so literally (×ÖÃæµØ) that then and there I decided to close myself off from her and never ¡¡41¡¡ ¡¡back to her. So every time she would say something ¡¡42¡¡ ¡¡I disagreed with her I would just say, ¡°Okay, ¡¡43¡¡ ¡¡you want, Mom.¡±

But I really got cold quickly. And my ¡¡44¡¡ ¡¡began to build. One night I talked to my mom about the school homework and she said, ¡°Oh, that¡¯s ¡¡45¡¡ ¡± and then went back to mop the floor.

¡°Don¡¯t you ever ¡¡46¡¡ ?¡± I thought. But I didn¡¯t say anything and stormed off. She had no idea I was ¡¡__47 ¡¡upset. She would have been willing to talk to me and I ¡¡48¡¡ ¡¡her how important it was to me.

At last, I just blew up (·¢Æ¢Æø). ¡°Mom, this has got to ¡¡49¡¡ . You tell me everything you want me to do and I just do it because it¡¯s ¡¡50¡¡ ¡¡than fighting. Well, I¡¯m sick of it.¡± This all came as a ¡¡51¡¡ to her.

After my blowup, we felt like we were ¡¡52¡¡ ¡¡all over in our relationship. But it¡¯s getting better all the time. We discuss things now and I always ¡¡53¡¡ ¡¡my feeling with her.

If you adopt Lose Win as your basic ¡¡54¡¡ ¡¡toward life, then people will wipe their dirty feet on you. You¡¯ll also be ¡¡55¡¡ ¡¡your true feelings deep inside. And that¡¯s not healthy.

36. A. wanderings¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. disappointment¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. lessons¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. helplessness

37. A. out¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. down¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. up¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. free

38.A. relationship¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. problems¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. quarrels¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. improvement

39.A. as¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. since¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. when¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. before

40. A. regarded¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. treated¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. received¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. took

41.A. fight¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. struggle¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. talk¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. turn

42.A. even if¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. only if¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. as long as¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. as though

43.A. something¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. whatever¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. so much¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. too much

44.A. coldness¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. anger¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. disagreement¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. hope

45.A. true¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. impossible¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. nice¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. important

46.A. care¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. see¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. say¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. listen

47.A. also¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. still¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. even¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. already

48.A. warned¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. shown¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. asked¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. told

49.A. end¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. change¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. last¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. stop

50.A. worse¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. easier¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. more¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. less

51.A. surprise¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. pleasure¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. gift¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. harm

52.A. going¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. starting¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. thinking¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. reviewing

53.A. share¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. have¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. discuss¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. improve

54.A. way¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. method¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. attitude¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. theory

55.A. hurting¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ B. waking¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ C. storing¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡¡ D. hiding

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