Question

【题目】If your child is being bullied(欺负), there are ways to help him or her deal with it on a day-to-day basis and lessen its lasting effect.

If your child tells you about a bully, focus on offering comfort and support, no matter how upset you are. Kids are not willing to tell adults about bullying because they feel embarrassed and ashamed. 【1】

Sometimes kids feel like it’s their own fault. 【2】 Some kids are afraid that if the bully finds out that they have told others, it will get worse. Others are worried that their parents won’t believe them or do anything about it.

【3】 Remind your child that he or she isn’t alone. Emphasize that it’s the bully who is behaving badly — not your child. Comfort your child and say that you will find out what to do about it together.

Take it seriously if you hear that the bullying will get worse if the bully finds out that your child has told someone. 【4】 But in most cases, teachers are the best ones to contact first. If you’ve tried that and still want to speak to the bullying child’s parents, it’s best to do so in a context where a school official, such as a teacher, can mediate.

【5】 Find out about the laws in your community. In certain cases, if you have serious concerns about your child’s safety, you may need to contact legal authorities.

A. Praise your child for being brave enough to talk about it.

B. They also worry that their parents will be disappointed.

C. Many kids don’t tell anyone because they feel ashamed.

D. They think that if they acted differently it wouldn’t be happening.

E. A bully can turn something into a serious thing for kids.

F. Many countries have bullying laws and pocilies.

G. Sometimes it’s useful to find the bully’s parents.

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】B

【2】D

【3】A

【4】G

【5】F

【解析】本文主要讲了当你的孩子受欺负时，如何帮助他或她处理这个问题，以减少其影响。

【1】B

根据上文说的是不愿意说出被欺负的事的原因：因为他们感到尴尬和羞愧。可知下文继续说明不愿意说出被欺负的事的原因：他们还担心父母会失望。故选B。

【2】D

根据上文：有时孩子们觉得这是他们自己的错。可知下文说明错在哪里：他们认为，如果他们采取不同的行动，就不会发生这种情况。故选D。

【3】A

本段讲的都是如何教会孩子怎么对待这种情况 ，所以可知：赞美你的孩子，因为他有足够的勇气谈论这件事。故选A。

【4】G

根据下文转折了，说不要先找父母，教师是应该是第一个最好的接触的人。故G项“有时候找到欺负者的父母是有用的。”符合语境，故选G。

【5】F

空格处是本段的主题句，根据下文：了解一下你所在社区的法律。所以可知空格处的内容与法律有关，故F项“许多国家都有反欺凌的法律和政策。所以你先了解一下，以保护自己。”符合本段内容，故选F。