题目内容
【题目】A study notes that Some children are natural-born bosses. They have a strong need to make decisions, manage their environment, and lead rather than follow. Stephen Jackson, a Year One student, "operates under the theory of what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine," says his mother."The other day I bought two new Star Wars light sabers (剑). Later, I saw Stephen with the two new ones while his brogher was using the beat-up ones."
"Examine the extended family, and you'll probably find a bossy grandparent, aunt, uncle or cousin in every generation. It's a common inheritable trait," says Russell Barkley, a professor at the Medical University of South Carolina. Other children who may not be particularly bossy can gradually gain control when they sense their parents are weak, hesitant, or in disagreement with each other.
Whether it's inborn nature or developed character at work, too much control in the hands at the young isn't healthy for children or the family, Fear is at the root of a lot of bossy behavior, says family psychologist John Taylor. Children, he says in his book From Defiance to Cooperation, "have secret feelings of weakness" and "a desire to feel safe." It's the parents' role to provide that protection.
When a "boss child" doesn't learn limits at home, the stage is set for a host of troubles outside the family. The overly willful and unbending child may have trouble obeying teachers or coaches, for example, or trouble keeping friends. It can be pretty lonely as the top dog if no one likes your bossy ways.
"I see more and more parents giving up their power," says Barkley, who has studied bossy behavior for more than 30 years."They bend too far because they don't want to be as strict as their own parents were. But they also feel less confident about their parenting skills. Their kids, in turn, feel more anxious."
【1】Bossy children like Stephen Jackson _____.
A. make good decisions
B. show self-centeredness
C. lack care from others
D. have little sense of fear
【2】The underlined phrase "inheritable trait" in Paragraph 2 means _____.
A. inborn nature B. accepted theory
C. developed character D. particular environment
【3】The study on bossy behavior implies that parents _____.
A. should not set limits for their children
B. should give more power to their children
C. should be strict with their children properly
D. should let children find sense of safety by themselves
【4】It can be inferred from the last two paragraphs that bossy children may become
A.relaxed and confident B. hesitant and weak
C.lonely and anxious D.willful and unbending
【答案】
【1】B
【2】C
【3】A
【4】A
【解析】
试题分析:本文是一篇夹叙夹议的文章,描述了一些小孩过于霸道、不尊重别人的现
象,并分析了这些现象产生的原因和可能导致的结果。
【1】B 考查细节理解。由文章第一段的表述可知,像Jackson这样的霸道小孩“operates under the theory of what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine”,生活中他们以自己为中心,故选B。其他三项描述均不准确。
【2】A 考查词意理解。由文章第二段第一句“Examine the extended family,and you’ll find a bossy grandparent,aunt,uncle or cousin in every generation.”可推测出小孩的霸道可能是天生的,“a bossy grandparent,aunt,uncle or cousin”是提示,故选A。
【3】C 考查推理判断。由文章第四段第一句“When a‘bossy child’doesn’t learn limits at home,the stage is set for a lot of troubles outside the family.”可知A项错误;由文章最后一段可知B项错误;由文章第三段最后一句“It’s the parents’ role to provide that protection.”可知D项错误,故选C。
【4】C 考查推理判断。由文章倒数第二段最后一句“It can be pretty lonely as the top dog if no one likes your bossy ways.”和最后一段最后一句“Their kids,in turn,feel more anxious.”可知答案,故选C。
【题目】根据短文内容,从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。Of the many unpleasant emotions we can experience, fear may top the list. 【1】 . Fear can also keep us from pursuing the things in life that really matter --- like following our dreams, and developing important relationships. 【2】 .Experience fear.I used to be very afraid of speaking in front of people. I would get sweaty palms and my stomach would be so tied up that I wouldn't be able to eat. However, each time I spoke, I noticed afterwards that it wasn't that bad. Things I fear are never as bad in reality as I make them out in my mind. 【3】 .Create space.The first and most important step to being fearless is to create some space between ourselves and the emotion of fear. This isn't accomplished by ignoring the fear, or trying to talk ourselves out of it. 【4】 . In fact, a recent research shows that by simply admitting the emotion we actually begin to reverse the "fight or flight (逃避)" response in the body.Control the breath and feel the fear.Once we acknowledge the presence of fear, the second step is to control the breathing so that it becomes slower and gentler. We try to make the breath just a little bit longer, and feel how fear manifests (展现) in the body. 【5】 .With practice, we can create enough space between us and the emotion of fear so that we're able to replace a fearful thought with a positive one. We can imagine a positive outcome for whatever we're about to do. For instance, before I get up to speak in front of a group of people, I imagine that the audience is positively impressed by what I say and that I manage to complete the speech successfully.
A. As we pay attention to the physical symptoms of fear, we can see fear objectively. |
B. Fear is more than just physically unpleasant. |
C. Fear, if left uncontrolled, can even destroy our life. |
D. So one way to get rid of fear is to simply push ourselves to do things that we fear. |
E. When we can see a positive outcome in our mind, fear no longer holds us back. |
F. I have some ideas, though, of how to be free from fear. |
G. Space is created only when we can honestly acknowledge that fear exists. |