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someone else.
"I wish my parents were more understanding."
"I have such a bad Chemistry teacher!"
"My friends are so boring and self-centred. They make my life worse and worse."
Blame! Blame! Blame!
It seems natural to sing this self-pitying song, but the truth is, if you don't like your life, you should do
something about it. No one else knows exactly how you feel or what you need. No one can read your
mind correctly. You are the only one with the power(能力) to check your life, and if you want it to be
different, you can change what you're doing. This means asking.. "What do I need? What do I want to
do?" instead of trying to meet others' needs. For example, try to decide how you want to spend your
evening instead of asking somebody else for advice. We teach other people how we want to be treated.
If we don't think of our own needs, no one else will either.
When you're in trouble, don't give away your power to decide how you feel about yourself. Choose
how you want to think and act(行动). Other people can't make you unhappy or angry. They only act in
their own way and then it's up to you to decide how you will respond(回应). For example, your friends
go out to lunch withou t you. You feel angry. How are you going to act? You may blame your friends.
"They're not kind. Who needs them anyway?" or you may tell your friends how you feel, listen to their
explanation(解释), and let them know you'd like to be invited next time.
When you decide everything in your own way, you're getting hold of your own life and shaping it
according to your tastes and feelings. You can choose to be happy, to make friends and to build an
interesting life. When you blame others for what is or isn't happening in your life, you have stopped
growing or learning.
One of the most important rules is that you can never change another person by your direct action.
The only person you have the right and power to change is yourself. Once you change, the other person
then has something different to respond to and change is possible. If you want change in your life, begin
with yourself...put love into your power to take action.
B.Read our minds correctly.
C.Change what we're doing.
D.Tell others what we want.
B.talk to them and try to find out why
C.do the same thing to them in return
D.ask somebody else to talk to them
B.He believes our love can change everything.
C.He chooses to talk with others directly.
D.He prefers to change ourselves first instead.
B.Four.
C.Five.
D.Six.
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In one’s life, one spends the most time 1 with oneself.But one has the least understanding of oneself.When you are successful, you may be very proud.When you 2 , you may lose heart.If you don't get a thorough understanding of yourself(彻悟自我), you may miss many chances in life.
To get a thorough understanding of yourself is to know well about yourself.You may realize your strong points and weak 3 .You may hope for a wonderful future, but be sure not to expect too much because not 4 dreams can come true.You may be confident enough to meet challenges, but first you should know 5 .
To get a thorough understanding of yourself needs self-appreciation(自我欣赏).Maybe you think you are a tall tree 6 just small grass, but you can always have your own way of being there.As soon as you get full confidence(自信)in yourself, you are sure to face any trouble.
To get a thorough understanding of yourself also means to take care 7 yourself.When you are angry, find a quiet place so that you won’t be hurt.When you are 8 , tell your friends about it to change the mood(心情)into a good one.When you are tired, get a good sleep.If you don’t know when and how you should look after yourself, you 9 be able to stay away from illness.
10 can tell what will happen in the future.Get a thorough understanding of yourself, and you will get a full control(控制)of yourself and find your life full of color.
1.A.to be B.be C.being
2.A.fail B.win C.know
3.A.one B.ones C.the ones
4.A.every B.all C.both
5.A.where to do B.how to do C.what to do
6.A.or B.and C.but
7.A.with B.to C.of
8.A.happy B.sad C.comfortable
9.A.will B.won’t C.would
10.A.No one B.Everyone C.Someone
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