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Perhaps a parent’s most important contribution toward raising a trustful child is to develop a relationship founded on trust. A child of any age will feel proud and grown-up if parents frequently show their trust. In court a defendant(被告) is innocent until proved guilty. But in the family, a teenager “defendant” is too often assumed guilty.
Even when the child is caught in a complete lie, this should not be the end of trust. A parent can tell a child that a single lie is forgivable. Yet it should be clear that if lies continue, the child, like the boy who cried wolf, will suffer loss of trust.
When my wife and I discovered that our son Tom, then 13, had lied about throwing a party while we were away, we grounded him for a month. We also told Tom that we could no longer trust him, and we could not allow him to stay alone overnight again. This loss of freedom was an important lesson; he learned how hard it is to live with people when they don’t trust him. As a result, now more than three years later we can again trust Tom to stay alone overnight.
Parents must always remember there is no easy answer to this universal problem of lying. We can set a good example, allow for privacy, monitor friendship, develop trust and punish wrong doing, but still we discover our child has lied to us. Finally that’s why there is a need for trust on both sides of a parent-child relationship. Lying destroys closeness and friendship. For that reason, parents should always try to give a child the feeling that they can be trusted with the truth. Parents may start with a child’s trust, but as the child grows older, parents must earn it.
1.When the writer and his wife discovered that their son had lied, they _________.
A. took all his freedom from him
B. decided never to trust him again
C. forbade him to stay alone overnight
D. arranged him to stay at home.
2.We can infer from the passage that very often ________.
A. parents don’t trust their child as they should
B. defendants are usually proved not guilty in court
C. parents have too much trust in their child
D. some children are founded guilty in court
3.According to the passage, the writer believes that _____________.
A. parents shouldn’t punish their children even if they lie
B. it is not easy to deal with the problem of lying as parents
C. there are effective ways to prevent children from lying
D. children will stop telling lies as they grow up
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Perhaps a parent’s most important contribution toward raising a trustful child is to develop a relationship founded on trust. A child of any age will feel proud and grown-up if parents frequently show their trust. In court a defendant(被告) is innocent until proved guilty. But in the family, a teenager “defendant” is too often assumed guilty.
Even when the child is caught in a complete lie, this should not be the end of trust. A parent can tell a child that a single lie is forgivable. Yet it should be clear that if lies continue, the child, like the boy who cried wolf, will suffer loss of trust.
When my wife and I discovered that our son Tom, then 13, had lied about throwing a party while we were away, we grounded him for a month. We also told Tom that we could no longer trust him, and we could not allow him to stay alone overnight again. This loss of freedom was an important lesson; he learned how hard it is to live with people when they don’t trust him. As a result, now more than three years later we can again trust Tom to stay alone overnight.
Parents must always remember there is no easy answer to this universal problem of lying. We can set a good example, allow for privacy, monitor friendship, develop trust and punish wrong doing, but still we discover our child has lied to us. Finally that’s why there is a need for trust on both sides of a parent-child relationship. Lying destroys closeness and friendship. For that reason, parents should always try to give a child the feeling that they can be trusted with the truth. Parents may start with a child’s trust, but as the child grows older, parents must earn it.
【小题1】When the writer and his wife discovered that their son had lied, they _________.
| A.took all his freedom from him |
| B.decided never to trust him again |
| C.forbade hi |
| D.arranged him to stay at home. |
| A.parents don’t trust their child as they should |
| B.defendants are usually proved not guilty in court |
| C.parents have too much trust in their child |
| D.some children are founded guilty in court |
| A.parents shouldn’t punish their children even if they lie |
| B.it is not easy to deal with the problem of lying as parents |
| C.there are effective ways to prevent children from lying |
| D.children will stop telling lies as they grow up |
Perhaps a parent’s most important contribution toward raising a trustful child is to develop a relationship founded on trust. A child of any age will feel proud and grown-up if parents frequently show their trust. In court a defendant(被告) is innocent until proved guilty. But in the family, a teenager “defendant” is too often assumed guilty.
Even when the child is caught in a complete lie, this should not be the end of trust. A parent can tell a child that a single lie is forgivable. Yet it should be clear that if lies continue, the child, like the boy who cried wolf, will suffer loss of trust.
When my wife and I discovered that our son Tom, then 13, had lied about throwing a party while we were away, we grounded him for a month. We also told Tom that we could no longer trust him, and we could not allow him to stay alone overnight again. This loss of freedom was an important lesson; he learned how hard it is to live with people when they don’t trust him. As a result, now more than three years later we can again trust Tom to stay alone overnight.
Parents must always remember there is no easy answer to this universal problem of lying. We can set a good example, allow for privacy, monitor friendship, develop trust and punish wrong doing, but still we discover our child has lied to us. Finally that’s why there is a need for trust on both sides of a parent-child relationship. Lying destroys closeness and friendship. For that reason, parents should always try to give a child the feeling that they can be trusted with the truth. Parents may start with a child’s trust, but as the child grows older, parents must earn it.
When the writer and his wife discovered that their son had lied, they _________.
A. took all his freedom from him
B. decided never to trust him again
C. forbade him to stay alone overnight
D. arranged him to stay at home.
We can infer from the passage that very often ________.
A. parents don’t trust their child as they should
B. defendants are usually proved not guilty in court
C. parents have too much trust in their child
D. some children are founded guilty in court
According to the passage, the writer believes that _____________.
A. parents shouldn’t punish their children even if they lie
B. it is not easy to deal with the problem of lying as parents
C. there are effective ways to prevent children from lying
D. children will stop telling lies as they grow up
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As is known to all, tigers are dying out. It is said that
the ______ of tigers is getting smaller and smaller. Only 71. _________
about 400 tigers are ______ (剩下)now. I think there are 72. _________
two ______ for this. One is that some people kill tigers for 73. _________
m money. For example, last Tuesday I saw a few 74. _________
people ______ (卖) skins of tigers by the roadside. It’s terrible. 75. _________
The other is that too many trees have been cut down, ______ 76. _________
has destroyed the places where tigers u to live. 77. _________
But the good news is that our government has done s 78. _________
to save tigers. We should work together to make a ______ (舒适) 79. _________
home for animals. I also hope we can set up a special ______ (保护区) 80. _________
for them.
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She decided to start 45 the next day.She ran for an hour, 46 a total of 7 miles on her first run."I couldn't walk for two weeks 47 I felt painful all over!" Patti recalls (回忆)."But I felt so wonderful!" Patti wasn't crazy about running yet, but she was in 48 with the after effects of running.
Within seven months, Patti had run her first marathon, qualified for the Boston Marathon, and placed 25th in the world for 49 distance runners.Over the next years, she 50 records and set standards for women in the sport.She was the first American woman to run a 2:30 marathon, and then broke 51 two records 52 an 8—month period.
Patti 53 that, if we can set standards for ourselves, we can pull ourselves out of the most difficult 54 and come out on top."Everybody has to be a champion(冠军) and 55 has that in them."
36.A.lost B.earned C.gained D.reduced
37.A.cry B.move C.walk D.change
38.A.striking B.recording C.sharing D.collecting
39.A.set aside B.set up C.set out D.set about
40.A.lamps B.fires C.candles D.cigarettes
41.A.spoke B.said C.wrote D.went
42.A.afraid B.fond C.tired D.ashamed
43.A.saddest B.happiest C.loneliest D.luckiest
44.A.smoking B.bathing C.dieting D.running
45.A.right B.only C.even D.again
46.A.covering B.spreading C.passing D.overcoming
47.A.but B.although C.while D.because
48.A.peace B.line C.love D.touch
49.A.men B.women C.adults D.children
50.A.kept B.held C.broke D.cleared
51.A.another B.other C.else D.more
52.A.for B.on C.at D.over
53.A.believes B.imagines C.requires D.hopes
54.A.pleasures B.challenges C.pities D.purposes
55.A.anybody B.nobody C.somebody D.everybody
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