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Remembering names is an important social skill. Here are some ways to master it.
Recite and repeat in conversation(谈话,交往).
When you hear a person’s name, repeat it. Immediately say it to yourself several times without moving your lips. You could also repeat the name in a way that does not sound forced or artificial(矫揉造作的,不自然的).
Ask the other person to recite and repeat.
You can let other people help you remember their names. After you’ve been introduced to someone,ask that person to spell the name and pronounce it correctly for you. Most people will be pleased by the effort(努力) you’re making to learn their names.
Admit you don’t know.
Admitting that you can’t remember someone’s name can actually make people relaxed. Most of them will feel sympathy if you say, “I’ m working to remember names better. Yours is right on the tip of my tongue. What is it again?”
Use associations(联络,联系).
Link(联系) each person you meet with one thing you find interesting or unusual. For example, you could make a mental note:“Vicki Cheng — tall, black hair.” To reinforce (加强) your associations, write them on a small card as soon as possible.
Limit the number of new names you learn at one time.
When meeting a group of people, concentrate on(集中精力) remembering just two or three names. Free yourself from remembering everyone. Few of the people in mass introductions expect you to remember their names. Another way is to limit yourself to learning just first names. Last names can come later.
Go early.
Consider going early to conferences(会议), parties and classes. Sometimes just a few people show up(到场) on time. That’s fewer names for you to remember. And as more people arrive, you can hear them being introduced to others — an automatic (无意识的)review for you.
【小题1】..How will most people feel when you try hard to remember their names?

A.They will be moved.B.They will be annoyed.
C.They will be delighted.D.They will be discouraged.
【小题2】.If you can’t remember someone’s name, you may ________.
A.tell him the truthB.tell him a white lie
C.ask him for pityD.ask others to help you
【小题3】..When you meet a group of people, it is better to remember________.
A.all their namesB.a couple of names first
C.just their last namesD.as many names as possible
【小题4】..What does the text mainly tell us?
A.Tips on an important social skill.B.Importance of attending parties.
C.How to make use of associations.D.How to recite and repeat names.

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Remembering names is an important social skill. Here are some ways to master it.

Recite and repeat in conversation(谈话,交往).

When you hear a person’s name, repeat it. Immediately say it to yourself several times without moving your lips. You could also repeat the name in a way that does not sound forced or artificial(矫揉造作的,不自然的).

Ask the other person to recite and repeat.

You can let other people help you remember their names. After you’ve been introduced to someone,ask that person to spell the name and pronounce it correctly for you. Most people will be pleased by the effort(努力) you’re making to learn their names.

Admit you don’t know.

Admitting that you can’t remember someone’s name can actually make people relaxed. Most of them will feel sympathy if you say, “I’ m working to remember names better. Yours is right on the tip of my tongue. What is it again?”

Use associations(联络,联系).

Link(联系) each person you meet with one thing you find interesting or unusual. For example, you could make a mental note:“Vicki Cheng — tall, black hair.” To reinforce (加强) your associations, write them on a small card as soon as possible.

Limit the number of new names you learn at one time.

When meeting a group of people, concentrate on(集中精力) remembering just two or three names. Free yourself from remembering everyone. Few of the people in mass introductions expect you to remember their names. Another way is to limit yourself to learning just first names. Last names can come later.

Go early.

Consider going early to conferences(会议), parties and classes. Sometimes just a few people show up(到场) on time. That’s fewer names for you to remember. And as more people arrive, you can hear them being introduced to others — an automatic (无意识的)review for you.

1...How will most people feel when you try hard to remember their names?

A.They will be moved.

B.They will be annoyed.

C.They will be delighted.

D.They will be discouraged.

2..If you can’t remember someone’s name, you may ________.

A.tell him the truth

B.tell him a white lie

C.ask him for pity

D.ask others to help you

3...When you meet a group of people, it is better to remember________.

A.all their names

B.a couple of names first

C.just their last names

D.as many names as possible

4...What does the text mainly tell us?

A.Tips on an important social skill.

B.Importance of attending parties.

C.How to make use of associations.

D.How to recite and repeat names.

 

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No one is perfect.We all mess up(搞砸)now and then.It can  36 a little bit to rememberthat most people have been in the  37   you’re in—hurting several people’s feelings.What makes the difference is what you do next. 38   can go along way toward healing(治愈) hurt or angry feelings.It takes  39  to step up and admit what you did was  40 .Try saying,
“What I said the other day was  4l  insensitive of me.I shouldn’t have said that.I just want to say I’m sorry.”
When we say sorry, we  42  to be sincere to show we feel sorry about how hurt another person may be.If an apology is more about  43 and how we can benefit,it might not seem true.
Another element of saying sorry is to let the person know you’re not going to let it  44  again.You could tell your friends,“I’m going to be more aware of what I  45 and say about people in the future.I’ll make an effort(努力) to be   46   and more positive about people,and not to 47  behind their backs—especially when it’s my friends.”
If you can’t bring yourself to have a  48 in person,write a note.Whichever way you  49  to communicate, be sure that you’d feel comfortable if anything you say is 50 with other friends,too.
Hopefully,your friends can stop being angry with you.But don’t be  51 if it doesn’t happen instantly.Some people are quick to 52 .Others may have to think about what you said and need 53  to get over hurt feelings or anger , or to regain trust.Do your best with the part that’s up to you.The rest is up to them.
Stop being angry with yourself,too.You can learn from your  54 .Being too self-critical can’t help you.Move forward.Focus your energies on trying to make things right  55   working on your good intentions!

【小题1】
A.giveB.helpC.explain D.get
【小题2】
A.WorldB.houseC.surroundingD.situation
【小题3】
A.ApologiesB.FriendshipsC.WordsD.Experiences
【小题4】
A.moneyB.knowledgeC.courageD.patience
【小题5】
A.wrongB.unusual C.differentD.dangerous
【小题6】
A.probably B.usually C.reallyD.finally
【小题7】
A.1eamB.needC.promise D.hope
【小题8】
A.othersB.themselvesC.humansD.ourselves
【小题9】
A.continue B.happen C.change D.work
【小题10】
A.wantB.knowC.thinkD.hear
【小题11】
A.clevererB.stronger C.fasterD.kinder
【小题12】
A.talkB.followC.actD.shout
【小题13】
A.partyB.1essonC.meeting D.conversation
【小题14】
A.dareB.decideC.claimD.dream
【小题15】
A.sharedB.comparedC.connectedD.treated
【小题16】
A.surprisedB.interestedC.discouragedD.frightened
【小题17】
A.forgiveB.understandC.agreeD.appear
【小题18】
A.energyB.timeC.confidenceD.support
【小题19】
A.skillsB.friends C.plansD.mistakes
【小题20】
A.forB.andC.butD.or

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No one is perfect.We all mess up(搞砸)now and then.It can   36  a little bit to remember that most people have been in the   37   you’re in—hurting several people’s feelings.What makes the difference is what you do next.  38   can go along way toward healing(治愈) hurt or angry feelings.It takes  39   to step up and admit what you did was   40  .Try saying,

“What I said the other day was   4l   insensitive of me.I shouldn’t have said that.I just want to say I’m sorry.”

   When we say sorry, we   42   to be sincere to show we feel sorry about how hurt another person may be.If an apology is more about  43  and how we can benefit,it might not seem true.

  Another element of saying sorry is to let the person know you’re not going to let it   44   again.You could tell your friends,“I’m going to be more aware of what I  45  and say about people in the future.I’ll make an effort(努力) to be   46   and more positive about people,and not to 47   behind their backs—especially when it’s my friends.”

  If you can’t bring yourself to have a  48  in person,write a note.Whichever way you   49   to communicate, be sure that you’d feel comfortable if anything you say is  50  with other friends,too.

  Hopefully,your friends can stop being angry with you.But don’t be  51  if it doesn’t happen instantly.Some people are quick to  52 .Others may have to think about what you said and need  53  to get over hurt feelings or anger , or to regain trust.Do your best with the part that’s up to you.The rest is up to them.

  Stop being angry with yourself,too.You can learn from your  54 .Being too self-critical can’t help you.Move forward.Focus your energies on trying to make things right   55   working on your good intentions!

1.A.give           B.help         C.explain          D.get

2.A.World      B.house        C.surrounding      D.situation

3.A.Apologies      B.Friendships      C.Words            D.Experiences

4.A.money      B.knowledge    C.courage          D.patience

5.A.wrong      B.unusual      C.different            D.dangerous

6.A.probably       B.usually      C.really           D.finally

7.A.1eam           B.need         C.promise          D.hope

8.A.others    B.themselves       C.humans           D.ourselves

9.A.continue       B.happen       C.change           D.work

10.A.want          B.know         C.think            D.hear

11.A.cleverer          B.stronger         C.faster           D.kinder

12.A.talk          B.follow       C.act              D.shout

13.A.party         B.1esson       C.meeting          D.conversation

14.A.dare          B.decide       C.claim            D.dream

15.A.shared        B.compared    C.connected            D.treated

16.A.surprised    B.interested  C.discouraged      D.frightened

17.A.forgive       B.understand       C.agree                D.appear

18.A.energy        B.time         C.confidence       D.support

19.A.skills        B.friends      C.plans            D.mistakes

20.A.for           B.and          C.but              D.or

 

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