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Assertiveness is the ability to confidently express your opinions, feelings,attitudes, and rights, in a way that doesn't infringe(侵犯) the rights of others.

    Many of us are taught that it is not nice to consider our own needs above those of others. If someone says or does something that we don't like, we should just be quiet and try to stay away from that person in the future.

    Why is Assertiveness important?

     If you don't know how to be assertive, you might experience:

•Depression - Anger, a sense of being helpless, hopeless, or of having no control over your life.

•Resentment - Anger at others for taking advantage of you.

•Frustration - Why did I allow that to happen?

     Most people find it easier to be assertive in some situations than in others. This makes perfect sense. It's a lot easier to hold your ground with a stranger than with someone you love. But the more important the relationship is to you, the more important it is to be assertive. Assertive behavior leads to increased respect from others!

      But before you decide to act assertively, you have to decide if you can live

 with the results. Although assertive behavior usually will result in a positive

 response  (积极的回应),some people  might react differently.

   How to be effectively(有效地) assertive:

 •Use "I" statements. Keep the focus on the problem you're having. "I'd like to be able to tell my stories without interruption." instead of "You're always interrupting my stories ! "

 •Use facts, not opinions. "Did you know that shirt has a hole?" instead of "You're not going out looking like THAT, are you?"

 •Express ownership of your thoughts, feelings, and opinions. "I get angry when he breaks his promises. " instead of "He makes me angry. "

 • Make clear and direct requirements. Don't invite the person to say no. "Will  you please?" instead of 'Would you mind...?" or "Why don't you...?"

•Keep repeating your point. Use a low level and pleasant voice. Don't try to explain yourself.

1.The writer probably agrees that­­­____________.

A. you should consider others' response before you act assertively

B. you should be assertive if you want to get good marks

C. assertiveness is the ability to infringe others' rights.

D. assertive behavior will bring you bad feelings

2.The expression "hold yourground" probably means “_________________”

A. reach an agreement

B. insist on your point

C. keep your word

D. keep on fighting

3.Which of the following helps you to be effectively assertive?

A. Explaining yourself in a soft and sweet voice.

B. Expressing ownership of others' thoughts.

C. Making requirements directly and clearly.

D. Using your opinions instead of facts.

 

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  "How are you?" is a nice question. It's a friendly way that people in the
U.S.A greet each other. But "How are you?" is also a very unusual question. It's a
question that often doesn't need an answer. The person who asks "How are you?"
hopes to hear the answer"Fine", even if the person's friend isn't fine.The reason
is that "How are you?" isn't really a question and "Fine"isn't really an answer.
They are simply other ways of saying"Hello"or "Hi".
  Sometimes, people also don't say exactly what they mean. For example,
when someone Asks "Do you agree?", the other person might think, "No, I
disagree. I think you're Wrong..."But it isn't very polite to disagree so strongly,
so the other person might say"I'm not sure." It's a nicer way to say that you don't
agree with someone.
  People also don't say exactly what they are thinking when they finish talking
with other people.For example, many talks over the phone finish when one
person say "I've to go now."Often,the person who wants to hang up gives and
excuse:"Someone's at the door.""Something is burning on the stove."The excuses
might be real,or not. Perhaps the person who wants to hang up simply doesn't
want to talk any more,but it isn't polite to say that. The excuse is more polite,and
it doesn't hurt the other person.
  Whether they are greeting each other, talking about an idea, of finishing a
talk, people don't say exactly that they are thinking. It's an important way that
people try to be nice to each other, and it's part of the game of language.
1. When a person in America asks"How are you?", he or she wants to hear
"        "
A. How are you?
B. Hello
C. I don't know.
D. Fine
2. When a person disagree with someone, it is polite to say"        "
A. You are wrong.I disagree.
B. I'm not sure.
C. I'm sure I disagree.
D. No, I disagree.
3. A polite way to finish talk is to say"       "
A. You have to go now.
B. I want to hang up.
C. I have to go now.
D. I don't want to talk any more.
4. When a person says"I've to go now. Someone's at the door.", the person may
be         .
A. giving an excuse
B. hurting someone's feeling
C. ill
D. asking you a question
5. The rule of the game of language is probably       .
A. "Always say what you mean"  
B. "Don't disagree with people."
C. "Never say exactly what you're thinking."    
D. "Be polite."
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    We are all called upon to make a speech at some point in life, but most of us don't do a very good job. This
article gives some suggestions on how to give an effective speech.
    So, you have to give a speech and you're terrified. You get nervous, you forget what you want to say, you
stumble over words, you talk too long, and you bore your audience. Later you think, "Thank goodness, it's
over. I'm just no good at public speaking. I hope I never have to do that again." 
    Cheer up! It doesn't have to be that bad. Here are some simple steps to take the pain out of speech making.
Ask yourself the purpose of your speech. What is the occasion? Why are you speaking? Then, gather as many
facts as you can on your subject. Spend plenty of time doing your research. Then spend plenty of time
organizing your material so that your speech is clear and easy to follow. Use as many examples as possible, and
use pictures, charts, and graphs if they will help you make your points more clearly. Never forget your audience.
Don't talk over their heads, and don't talk down to them. Treat your audience with respect. They will appreciate
your thoughtfulness. 
    Just remember: be prepared. Know your subject, your audience, and the occasion. Be brief. Say what you
have to say and then stop. And be yourself. Let your personality come through so that you make
person-to-person contact with your audience. If you follow these simple steps, you'll see that you don't have to
be afraid of public speaking. In fact, you may find the experience so enjoyable that you volunteer to make more
speeches! You're not convinced yet? Give it a try and see what happens.
1. The main idea of this article is _______.
[     ]
A. you can improve your speaking ability   
B. a poor speaker can never change   
C. always make a short speech   
D. it is hard to make a speech
2. Paragraph 2 implies that _______.
[     ]
A. many people are afraid of giving a speech   
B. many people are happy to give a speech   
C. many people do not prepare for a speech   
D. many people talk too long
3. The phrase "talk over their heads" means ________.
[     ]
A. speak too loudly   
B. look at the ceiling   
C. look down upon them   
D. use words and ideas that are too difficult
4. All of the following statements are true except that _______.
[     ]
A. few people know how to make good speeches   
B. a lecturer does not need to organize his speech   
C. research is important in preparing a speech   
D. there are simple steps you can take to improve your speaking ability
5. The title for this passage may be _______.
[     ]
A. Do Not Make a Long Speech   
B. How to Give a Good Speech   
C. How to Prepare for a Speech   
D. Try to Enjoy a Speech
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