Sometimes people add to what they say even when they don’t talk. Gestures are the “silent language” of every culture. We point a finger or move another part of the body to show what we want to say.It is important to know the body language of every country or we may be misunderstood.
In the United States,people greet each other with a handshake in a formal introduction.The handshake must be firm.If the handshake is weak,it is a sign of weakness or unfriendliness.Friends may place a hand on the other's arm or shoulder.Some people,usually women,greet a friend with a hug(拥抱).
Space is important to Americans.When two people talk to each other,they usually stand about two and a half feet away and at an angle,so they are not facing each other directly.Americans get uncomfortable when a person stands too close.They will move back to have their space.If Americans touch another person by accident,they say “Pardon me” or “Excuse me”.
Americans like to look at the other person in the eyes when they are talking.If you don't do so,it means you are bored,hiding something,or are not interested.But when you stare at someone,it is not polite.
For Americans,thumbs-up means yes,very good,or well done.Thumbs-down means the opposite.To call a waiter,raise one hand to head level or above.To show you want the check,make a movement with your hands as if you are signing a piece of paper.It is all right to point at things but not at people with the hand and index finger(食指).Americans shake their index finger at children when they scold them and pat them on the head when they admire them.
Learning a culture's body language is sometimes confusing(使糊涂的).If you don't know what to do,the safest thing to do is to smile.
1.From the first paragraph we can learn that ________.
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A.gestures don't mean anything while talking |
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B.gestures can help us to express ourselves |
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C.we can learn a language well without body language |
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D.only American people can use gestures |
2.If you are introduced to a stranger from the USA,you should _______.
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A.greet him with a hug |
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B.place a hand on his shoulder |
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C.shake his hand firmly |
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D.shake his hand weakly |
3.In the United States,people often ________.
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A.show their friendship by touching each other |
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B.show their friendship by glancing at each other |
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C.say “Pardon me” to each other when they are talking |
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D.get uncomfortable when you stand close to them |
4.If you talk with an American friend,it's polite to ________.
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A.look up and down at your friend |
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B.look at the other person in the eyes |
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C.hide your opinion |
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D.look at your watch now and then |
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. Anger is a natural reaction which comes out when we feel that we have not been given a fair treatment. The positive(积极的) side of this negative(消极的) emotion is that it has helped us to evolve(进化,演变) as humans and cope(应对) in a better manner with our surroundings. However, it tends to become a problem when we fail to control it. Many a time it happens that your anger has hurt others or has spoiled(宠坏) one of your relationships for which you regret later. It has some bad effects on the health, too.
We should control anger so that it does not cause harm to us or to those around us whom we love. One of the best ways to control anger is to get help from others. If you feel that you are unable to manage your anger, it can make you more upset. So tell someone that is close to you, a friend or a family member, about your problem. When you discuss a matter with others, there is a better chance of finding a solution to your problem. Besides, there are no better stress relievers than humor. When you feel that it is because of stress that your anger is becoming unmanageable, you can use humor. It can help you look at difficult things in a lighter way and you will feel better about the things around you.
Anger tends to make us have a lot of negative thoughts. Therefore, we have to change the negative thoughts into positive ones. For this you have to first refuse all the negative thoughts that are in your mind one by one. This can be done with a lot of practice. Once you are successful in that, you have to maintain your focus only on the positive things of life.
Meditation (冥想) is an excellent anger management technique. In addition, what we do is disconnect(使分离) ourselves from the outer world and focus all our attention into the inner world. This helps us develop a sense of controlling our thoughts that tend to cause anger.
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Anger is a natural reaction which comes out when we have been treated (1) ______. |
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Help us evolve as humans. Help us deal with our surroundings (3) ______. |
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(4) others. Spoil your (5) ______. Have some bad effects on your (6) . |
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How to manage your anger |
Get help from others |
Discuss your problems with your friend or a (7) ______ member. |
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It can help you look at difficult things in a lighter way. |
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Think positively |
(9) all the negative thoughts and focus only on positive things. |
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Practice meditation |
Help us (10) our thoughts which tend to cause anger. |