Social skills are important to successful careers and personal relationships. Fortunately, social skills can improve. Learn how to improve your social skills and be more comfortable in outside environments.1._____________
(a) Pay attention your own means of communication with other people. Find out which behavior patterns and situations make you uncomfortable. Ask others for honest answers about your means of communication with others. 2._________________You must say sorry to others if you did in the wrong way. Think about how you can change your own behavior and turn it into a positive experience.
(b) 3.__________________When you communicate with other people , use eye contact , face the person , you’re speaking to and avoid being inattentive （漫不经心）. At times body language is more important than the words you speak.
(c) Listen carefully.4.__________________.Try to respect others and do not interrupt other’s words. It’s polite to listen to their complete words and then respond.
(d) Change yourself little by little. To improve your whole personality at once is impossible. 5.________________Ask friends and family about your positive qualities, and let them shine while communicating with others. At the same time, let them point out what you need to improve. Then make yourself get better and better day by day.
A.Listen to what the other person is saying. B.In this way, you can know where you made mistakes. C.Use positive body language. D.Lose confidence can often prevent us from being the sociable type. E.Here is some advice for you. F.Attempt to change one or two bad patterns of behavior at a time. G.Good communication and great listening skills are important tools. |