题目内容
【题目】阅读下面短文及图表,按要求完成所给任务,并将答案写在答题卡相应的位置上。
Parents with high expectations for their children are nothing new to Chinese kids. However, people often don’t realize that children also have expectations for their parents. What expectations do Chinese children have for parent-child relationships?
China Youth & Children Research Center did a survey on this topic in the United States, Japan, South Korea and China. The survey found that 83.8 percent of Chinese children want to be friends with their parents, the greatest amount among the four countries. This means that they want a more equal(平等的) relationship with their parents.
According to China Youth Daily, traditional Chinese values (价值观) such as respecting one’s elders and the concept of hierarchy (等级观念) are preventing parents from becoming friends with their children. Many Chinese parents criticize (批评) and push their children, as there is lots of competition in school. It requires efforts from both parents and children to create a friendship in family. As children, what can you do to create a pleasant atmosphere (氛围) at home and make friends with your parents? Read on to find out.
Tips to make home a happy place
How can we get along better with our parents, and at the same time, grow into adults ourselves? Here are some tips.
●Act like an adult
If you want your parents to give you more freedom, you should show them that you’re ready to be treated differently. For example, learn to use self-control. Show them that you can manage your time well.
●Open your heart
US psychologist (心理学家) Carl E. Pickhard wrote in Psychology Today that sharing feelings with our parents can lead to positive changes, while not sharing them can cause misunderstandings.
●Care for your parents
Do something nice or helpful for your parents. For example, help them with some home chores, make them gifts or teach them some computer skills. Their trust in you will grow.
More results from the survey
China | US | Japan | South Korea | |
Kids often talk to their parents | 57.7% | 81.0% | 81.7% | 79.0% |
Kids think their parents understand them | 80.6% | 86.8% | 89.0% | 93.3% |
Kids have arguments with their parents | 82.1% | 75.6% | 72.0% | 75.0% |
Kids have the most arguments with their parents because of | Schoolwork (55.8%) | Chores (20.0%) | Schoolwork (43.4%) | Schoolwork (44.7%) |
Source:CHINA YOUTH&CHILDREAN RESEARCH CENTER.2018
【1】What percent of Chinese children want to be friends with their parents?
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【2】What are preventing Chinese parents from making friends with their children?
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【3】Why do many Chinese parents criticize or push their children?
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【4】According to the chart, do children in China have worse relationship than those in other countries?
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【5】Do you have a good relationship with your parents? What do you expect them to do?
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【答案】
【1】83.8%
【2】traditional Chinese values such as respecting one’s elders and the concept of hierarchy.
【3】Because there is lots of competition in school.
【4】Yes, they do.
【5】合理即可
【解析】
短文大意:短文关注了中国孩子对亲子关系的期望,为了能更好地与父母相处,作者提出了三点建议:表现得像个成年人;打开自己的心扉;照顾好父母。
【1】题意:百分之几的中国孩子想和他们的父母交朋友?考查细节理解。根据The survey found that 83.8 percent of Chinese children want to be friends with their parents, the greatest amount among the four countries. 调查发现83.8%的中国孩子想和父母交朋友,可知填83.8%。
【2】题意:是什么阻止中国父母和孩子交朋友?考查细节理解。根据According to China Youth Daily, traditional Chinese values such as respecting one’s elders and the concept of hierarchy are preventing parents from becoming friends with their children. 中国传统价值观,如尊老爱幼和等级观念,阻碍了父母和孩子成为朋友,可知填traditional Chinese values such as respecting one’s elders and the concept of hierarchy.。
【3】题意:为什么很多中国父母会批评或逼迫他们的孩子?考查细节理解。根据Many Chinese parents criticize and push their children, as there is lots of competition in school. 由于学校竞争激烈,许多中国家长批评和督促他们的孩子,可知填Because there is lots of competition in school.。
【4】题意:根据图表所示,中国孩子的人际关系比其他国家的孩子差吗?考查细节理解。根据图表所示中美英韩四国孩子的调查数据,在“经常和父母说话”“认为他们的父母理解他们”两项,中国占比都是最低(57.7%和80.6%);而“和父母吵架的比例”一项,中国却占比最高,达82.1%;可知中国孩子的人际关系比其他国家的孩子都差,故填Yes, they do.。
【5】题意:你和你的父母关系好吗?你希望他们做什么?考查综合理解。根据实际回答,答案不唯一。例如I don't get along with my parents. I wish my parents wouldn't put too much pressure on me to study.。
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