Sometimes, even the best friends have fights. They disagree with each other and begin to argue. Sometimes, they even stop talking to each other. What can be done to help the two friends make up? Finding a good friend who knows both of them very well to be a peacemaker is a good way. Maybe one day you will be a peacemaker for your good friends. Here are some useful communication strategies for you to use.
State your feelings clearly but don’t criticize them. Begin with “I feel” instead of “You always…”.
Don’t stop or finish the other person’s sentences.
Listen carefully to what the other person is saying. Try to see the other person’s side of the disagreement.
Look the other person in the eyes when you are talking.
Ask questions to make sure that you understand them.
Repeat the other person’s ideas as you understand them.
Never put anyone down. Saying things like “You’re stupid” makes communication difficult.
Try to find a solution that makes the two friends happy. Never decide who is right and who is wrong. Instead, help them to find their own “win-win” solution. A “win-win” solution allows each of them to feel good. In this way, their friendship can be continued.
【小题1】Which of the following is the suitable language for a peacemaker?
A.“I feel …”B.“You always…”C.“You are stupid.”D.“You are wrong.”
【小题2】How should the peacemaker behave when talking with the two friends?
A.Stop the other person’s sentences in time.
B.Repeat his own ideas to make himself understood.
C.Listen to the other person carefully and ask some questions.
D.Don’t look at the other when you are talking.
【小题3】What does the phrase “put anyone down” mean in the article?
A.令人失望B.提醒人C.把人放下D.羞辱人
【小题4】How do you understand a “win-win” solution?
A.It is a way that helps make new friends.
B.It is a way that makes both people pleased.
C.It is a way that tells who is right and who is wrong.
D.It is a way to understand a person.

Sometimes, even the best friends have fights. They disagree with each other and begin to argue. Sometimes, they even stop talking to each other. What can be done to help the two friends make up? Finding a good friend who knows both of them very well to be a peacemaker is a good way. Maybe one day you will be a peacemaker for your good friends. Here are some useful communication strategies for you to use.
State your feelings clearly but don’t criticize them. Begin with “I feel” instead of “You always…”.
Don’t stop or finish the other person’s sentences.
Listen carefully to what the other person is saying. Try to see the other person’s side of the disagreement.
Look the other person in the eyes when you are talking.
Ask questions to make sure that you understand them.
Repeat the other person’s ideas as you understand them.
Never put anyone down. Saying things like “You’re stupid” makes communication difficult.
Try to find a solution that makes the two friends happy. Never decide who is right and who is wrong. Instead, help them to find their own “win-win” solution. A “win-win” solution allows each of them to feel good. In this way, their friendship can be continued.
【小题1】Which of the following is the suitable language for a peacemaker?

A.“I feel …”B.“You always…”C.“You are stupid.”D.“You are wrong.”
【小题2】How should the peacemaker behave when talking with the two friends?
A.Stop the other person’s sentences in time.
B.Repeat his own ideas to make himself understood.
C.Listen to the other person carefully and ask some questions.
D.Don’t look at the other when you are talking.
【小题3】What does the phrase “put anyone down” mean in the article?
A.令人失望B.提醒人C.把人放下D.羞辱人
【小题4】How do you understand a “win-win” solution?
A.It is a way that helps make new friends.
B.It is a way that makes both people pleased.
C.It is a way that tells who is right and who is wrong.
D.It is a way to understand a person.

Being safe in your everyday life needs knowledge. If you remember the following information, your life will be much safer.

   Don’t use earphones when running in the schoolyard or on the street. You will keep yourself from the outside world and can be easily surprised.

   Schoolbags should be carried towards the front of your body instead of putting them on your back. When buses are crowded, it is easy enough for thieves to steal the things in your bag on your back.

   If you are followed by a stranger, cross the street and go to the other way, let the stranger know that you know he or she is after you. Next, go and get help from others if it is necessary. Don’t go home directly. You are safer on the street than you are in your home or in a lift.

  If you have to take a bus to a place far away, try to get to the stop a few minutes before the buses leave. This prevents a stranger from studying you. On buses, don’t sit alone, sit behind a driver or with friends. Don’t sleep.

   Don’t play with matches(火柴)or candles, because it may cause fire. If your house catches fire and you have to escape through smoke, move on your hands and knees with your head 30 to 60 centimeters(厘米)above the floor. Please remember there is cleaner, cooler air near the floor during the fire.

根据短文内容判断正(T )误(F).

1.If you find a stranger following you, you should go home right away.

2.You’d better sit after the driver when you take a bus alone.

3.It’s good for you to use earphones when you are running outside.

4.You shouldn’t sleep all the way although it’s a long bus trip.

5.During the fire, the cleaner and the cooler air is far from the floor.

 

Sometimes, even the best friends have fights. They disagree with each other and begin to argue. Sometimes, they even stop talking to each other. What can be done to help the two friends make up? Finding a good friend who knows both of them very well to be a peacemaker is a good way. Maybe one day you will be a peacemaker for your good friends. Here are some useful communication strategies for you to use.

State your feelings clearly but don’t criticize them. Begin with “I feel” instead of “You always…”.

Don’t stop or finish the other person’s sentences.

Listen carefully to what the other person is saying. Try to see the other person’s side of the disagreement.

Look the other person in the eyes when you are talking.

Ask questions to make sure that you understand them.

Repeat the other person’s ideas as you understand them.

Never put anyone down. Saying things like “You’re stupid” makes communication difficult.

Try to find a solution that makes the two friends happy. Never decide who is right and who is wrong. Instead, help them to find their own “win-win” solution. A “win-win” solution allows each of them to feel good. In this way, their friendship can be continued.

1.Which of the following is the suitable language for a peacemaker?

A. “I feel …”           B. “You always…”        C. “You are stupid.” D. “You are wrong.”

2.How should the peacemaker behave when talking with the two friends?

    A. Stop the other person’s sentences in time.      

B. Repeat his own ideas to make himself understood.

    C. Listen to the other person carefully and ask some questions.

    D. Don’t look at the other when you are talking.

3.What does the phrase “put anyone down” mean in the article?

    A. 令人失望         B. 提醒人           C. 把人放下         D. 羞辱人

4.How do you understand a “win-win” solution?

    A. It is a way that helps make new friends.

    B. It is a way that makes both people pleased.

    C. It is a way that tells who is right and who is wrong.

    D. It is a way to understand a person.

 

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