D
We can make
mistakes at any age. Some mistakes we make are about money. But most mistakes
are about people. “Did Jerry really care when I broke up with Helen?” “When I
got that great job, did Jim really feel good about it, as a friend? Or did he
envy (嫉妒) my luck?”
“And. Paul, why didn’t I believe that he was friendly just because I had a
car?” When we look back, doubts like these can make us feel bad. But when we
look back, it is too late.
Why do we go
wrong about our friends or our enemies? Sometimes what people say hides their
real meaning. And if we don’t really listen, we miss the feeling behind the
words. Suppose someone tells you, “You are a lucky dog.” Is he really on your
side? If he says “You are a lucky guy” or “You are a lucky fellow,” that being
friendly. But “lucky dog”? There is a bit of envy in these words. Maybe he
doesn’t see it himself. But bringing in the “dog” puts you down a little. What
he may be saying is that he doesn’t think you should have the luck.
“Just think of
all the things you have to be thankful for” is another noise that says one thing
and means another. It could mean that the speaker is trying to get you to see
your problem as part of your life as a whole. But is he? Inside this phrase is
the thought that your problem isn’t important. It is telling you to think of
all the poor people in the world when you haven’t got a girl to go out with on
Saturday night .
How can you
tell real meaning behind someone’s words? One way is to take good look at the
person talking. Do his words fit the way he looks? Does what he says go with
the tone of voice? His posture? The look in his eyes? Stop and think. The
minutes you spend thinking about the real meaning of what people say to you may
save another mistake.
56.In he first
paragraph, the writer recalls some things that happened between him and his
friend. He_______.
A. feels happy,
thinking of how nice his friends were to him
B. feels he may
not have “read” his friend’s true feelings correctly
C. thinks it
was a mistake to have broken up with his girl friend, Helen
D. is sorry
that his friends let him down
57.In the
second paragraph, the writer talks about someone saying, “You are a lucky dog.”
He is saying that______.
A. the speaker
of this sentence is just being friendly
B. this saying
means the same as “You are a lucky guy” or “You are a lucky fellow.”
C. the word
“dog” shouldn’t be used to apply to people
D. sometimes
the words used by a speaker give a clue to the feeling passage behind the words
58.This passage
tries to tell you how to_______.
A. avoid
mistakes about money and friends
B. “size up”
people
C. avoid
mistakes in understanding what people tell you
D. keep people
friendly without trusting them
59.In listening
to a person, the important thing is______.
A. to notice
his tone, his posture, and the look in his eyes
B. to listen to
how he pronounces his words
C. to check his
words against his manner, his tone of voice, and his posture
D. not to
believe what he says
60.If you
followed the advice of the writer, you whould_______.
A. go wrong
about your real friend
B. tell the
real meaning behind a speaker’s words
C. avoid no
mistakes about people
D. persuade
your friends to serve you