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Making friends is a skill． Like most skills, it 1 with patience(耐心)． If you want to meet people and make friends, you must be willing to 2 some action． You must first go where there are people． You won’t make friends staying home 3 ．
Joining a club or group, talking to those who like the same things 4 you do is much easier． Or join someone 5 some activity．
Many people are 6 when talking to new people． 7 all, meeting strangers means seeing the unknown． And it’s human nature to feel a bit 8 about the unknown． Most of fears about dealing 9 new people come from doubts about 10 ． We imagine other people are 11 us---finding us too tall or too short, too this or too that． But don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way． Try to accept yourself 12 you are, and try to put the other at ease． You’ll both feel more comfortable(舒适的)．
Try to act self-confident(自信) even 13 you don’t feel that way when you 14 a room full of strangers． Walk tall and straight, look 15 at other people and smile．
If you see someone you’d like to 16, say something． Don’t wait for 17 person to start a conversation(交谈)．
Just meeting someone 18 does not mean that you’ll make friends with that person． 19 is based on mutual(相互的) likings and “give and take”． They take time and effort to develop． And there are things that keep a new friendship from 20 ．
1． A．produces B．improves C．moves D．races
2． A．take B．make C．do D．carry
3． A．lonely B．yourself C. alone D. alonely
4． A．as B．that C．which D．what
5． A．with B．in C．on D．to
6． A．nervous B．excited C．pressed D．worried
7． A．At B．For C．In D．After
8． A．unhappy B．unusual C．uncomfortable D．unlucky
9． A．with B．to C．for D．on
10． A．yourself B．himself C．yourselves D．ourselves
11． A．talking B．saying C．judging D．laughing
12． A．like B．as C．what D．that
13． A．when B．if C．as D．what
14．A．come B．go C．enter D．step to
15．A．upwards B．directly C．bravely D．happily
16．A．speak to B．talk about C．say to D．call up
17．A．other B．the other C．another D．others
18．A．old B．young C．new D．little
19．A．Relation B．Friendship C．Connection D．Feeling
20．A．growing B．living C．going D．happening
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Growing up, I remember my father as a silent, strict man—not the kind of person around whom one could laugh. As a teenager knowing little about life, I wanted a father who could 1. the mysteries of the human journey. In college, when friends called home for 2., I would become 3. for what I didn’t have.
Then one night after my move back home, I overheard my father on the telephone. There was some trouble. Later, he 4. the problem with me. Obviously my knowledge of law helped him a lot. I talked through the problem with him, 5. the motives of the people involved and offering several negotiation strategies.
He 6. patiently before finally admitting, “I can’t think like that. I’m a 7. man.”
My father is a 8. scientist who has a good knowledge of the building blocks of nature. 9., human nature is a mystery to him. That night I realized he was simply not skilled at 10. people. It’s not in his 11. to understand human desires.
It was no one’s 12. that my father showed no interest in human emotions while I placed great importance on them. We are sometimes born more sensitive, and dreamy than our 13. and become more curious, and idealistic than them. 14. I, who knew my father as an intelligent man, had never understood his intelligence didn’t cover all of my 15. feelings.
I believe that coming home has 16. me years of questions and confusion. I nowadays consider my parents as people who have other relationships than just being my parents, relationships that 17. and define them.
Best of all, I nowadays regard my parents as 18.: people who ask me for advice; people who need my 19. and understanding. And I’ve come to see my past in a 20. view. Knowing them makes me feel safe in where I come from and where I’m going.
21. A．think B．produce C．explain D．explore
22. A．money B．advice C．love D．agreement
23. A．unhappy B．unhelpful C．unknown D．unpopular
24. A．exchanged B．solved C．found D．shared
25. A．proving B．recording C．analyzing D．guessing
26. A．replied B．learned C．chatted D．listened
27. A．simple B．weak C．lazy D．blind
28. A．special B．lively C．brilliant D．humorous
29. A．Therefore B．However C．Indeed D．Anyhow
30. A．meeting with B．dealing with C．talking with D．fighting with
31. A．nature B．plan C．wish D．major
32. A．relief B．secret C．pity D．fault
33. A．relatives B．classmates C．parents D．families
34. A．Besides B．And C．However D．For
35. A．strong B．strange C．different D．unique
36. A．told B．gave C．added D．saved
37. A．raise B．protect C．shape D．enjoy
38. A．friends B．teachers C．travelers D．leaders
39. A．visit B．support C．wisdom D．knowledge
40. A．richer B．harder C．rougher D．clearer
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One day I came home from school, changed my clothes and got ready for work. I work at a local restaurant in town as a cashier and waiter.
I went to work feeling 36 . And to make matters worse, I was busy that evening. It' s the same thing over and over again. 37 with customers who complain about their food andwhere they are 38 is too big or too small. Little things like that tend to 39 a lot of us 40 but we manage to deal with it.
Three elderly ladies walked in and sat by the windows. It happened to be the very 41 near where I keep the dirty 42 in the boxes. Trying to keep up with all the dirty tables, customers leaving and coming in and 43 running all over the house, it was crazy． 44 these elderly women were watching 45 I was working to make sure every table was clean and ready for the next customers.
When they 46 their meals, I took their plates back to the kitchen. They talked to me for a while about school, how I was doing, what 47 I was in and what I planned to do in the future.
48 they were leaving, they walked past me and one of them said to me in a 49 and gentle voice, “You are going places.（你前途无量） And that was it.” They left the 50 and I had tears in my eyes, because they gave me 51 to believe in myself．They 52 my spirit from being down and gave me a 53 to keep on working hard.
People used to tell me that I couldn’t have a career in 54 until I had a degree. I'm now a co-anchor (联合主持人) of a student-produced television 55 . And the best thing is: I'm only 17 years old and I am a senior in high school.
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阅读下面短文，从短文后各题所给的四个选项（A、B、C和D）中，选出可以填入空白处的最佳选项，并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。
On the first day of your Senior High you must meet many new classmates. Do you want to make friends with them? Do you know how to make friends with them? The following article will tell you how to do it.
Making friends is a skill. Like most skills, it improves practice. If you want to meet people and make friends you must be to take action. You must first go to places where there are people. You won’t make friends at home alone. Join a club or group, for talking with those who the same experience as you is easier, and them in some activities.
Many people are when talking to strangers. After all, meeting strangers means facing , and it’s human nature to a bit uncomfortable about the unknown.
Most of our fears about dealing with strange people from doubts about ourselves. We other people are judging us, thinking us too tall or too short, too this or too that. , don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way. Try to accept yourself you are, and try to put the other person at ease. You’ll feel more comfortable.
Try to act self-confidently you don’t feel that way you enter a room full of strangers, such as a new classroom, walk straight, look at other people and smile. If you see someone you’d like to , say something. Don’t wait for the other people to a conversation.
Just meeting someone doesn’t mean that you will make friends with that person. Friendship is on mutual（相互的）liking and “give and take”. It takes time and effort to develop. And there are things that keep a new friendship from growing.
1.A. with B. on C. of D. to
2.A. able B. sure C. certain D. willing
3.A. lying B. going C. staying D. leaving
4.A. get B. have C. make D. like
5.A. join in B. take part in C. join D. enter
6.A. afraid B. happy C. nervous D. familiar
7.A. the newcomer B. the enemy C. the failure D. the unknown
8.A. feel B. fall C. cover D. suffer
9.A. bring B. come C. get D. move
10.A. find out B. believe in C. doubt D. imagine
11.A. Besides B. But C. However D. Therefore
12.A. what B. who C. that D. as
13.A. all B. both C. exactly D. never
14.A. even if B. because C. so long as D. as if
15.A. when B. while C. that D. in which
16.A. well B. immediately C. highly D. directly
17.A. refer to B. love C. speak to D. smile
18.A. start B. stop C. show D. hold
19.A. humorous B. new C. good D. old
20.A. depended B. based C. taken D. laid
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Dear Alice,
My name is Lisa．I have social anxiety, disorder and was wondering how it would be possible to see someone for help without my parents knowing about it. I know that they'd be anything but supportive. They would think I'm absolutely out of my mind．The truth is, I've put off dealing with it, acting as if it'll just go away or that I'll outgrow it. But in reality, the older I'm getting, the worse I'm getting. I avoid as many social situations as I can. I completely panic when meeting new people, I only stay in classes that don't require any talking on my part. It seems the only place I'm actually happy is at home or with people that I've known all my life. Hope you can help!
Dear Lisa,
About 5 million Americans have some form of social anxiety disorder, also known as social phobia．While everyone experiences nervousness or fear in social situations to a certain extent, those with social anxiety disorder are weakened by their fear. They may have a constant, intense, and lasting fear of being watched and judged by others, or be terribly afraid of being embarrassed or laughed at by ways in which they behave. As you have described, this fear can prevent people with social anxiety disorder from doing everyday activities, such as going to school or work, and can become so much of a focus that they limit their socializing.
It's understandable that you are worried about how your parents might react to knowing what's been going on for you. Many people think that their families will blame them for how they're feeling or belittle their concerns. Being honest with your parents, however, might help you to feel more at ease; it's possible that they've noticed your behavior and wondered about it, or even struggled with similar feelings themselves. There's even some evidence that anxiety disorders may be genetic or run in families —perhaps due to environmental factors and patterns expressed through interpersonal interactions.
1. The problem of Lisa is that________.
A．She is not getting along well with her parents.
B．She becomes nervous meeting people
C．She always puts off dealing with her problems.
D．She fears social occasions
2. According to Lisa, her parents________.
A．has never supported her
B．are eager to know what's going on for her
C．are perhaps struggling with similar feelings
D．may criticize her for her trouble
3. In her letter, Alice first talked about________.
A．the possible causes of Lisa's problem
B．the effects of social phobia
C．people's attitudes towards nervousness
D．everyone's experience of social anxiety disorder
4. The underlined word "belittles" probably means________.
A．express B．hide C．ignore D．worry
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