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Friends in your life are like pillars on your porch£®Sometimes they hold you up and sometimes they lean on you£®Sometimes it's just enough to know they're standing by£®Friendship doubles your joy and divides your grief£®A friendship is priceless and should be cultivated£®
¡ñRemembering the golden rule
Without a doubt, the greatest human relations principle is to treat other people like you want to be treated£® When you show respect for your friends and gratitude for their friendship, you'll be blessed in untold ways£®
You can't know what has gone on in the rude person's life that day, but you can assume that his or her day hasn't gone well£®Maybe a loved one lost his job, her boss reprimanded her unjustly, he's coming down with the flu, or she just found out that her teenager is taking drugs£®
Whatever the cause of the rudeness, you don't have to accentuate(Í»³ö) the problem£®A kind word or a gentle, understanding smile may help the person more than returned rudeness would£®
¡ñ Considering foes as friends
A friend looks after your own good£® On the other hand, a foe is someone who isn't interested in your well-being£®
Yet some students view their teachers as enemies£®However, a student's success in school partly depends on the teacher's effectiveness in the classroom£®Instead of being an enemy, a teacher who corrects you and helps you to achieve can be the best friend you ever had£®
This kind of thinking, along with a little attitude adjustment, helps you to convert foes to friends, and both of you are better off£®
¡ñ Making friends by being an optimist
Do you enjoy being around a pessimist, someone who is generally described as being able to brighten up a room just by leaving it? The answer is obvious£®Most people prefer to be around people who believe that tomorrow is going to be better than today, rather than people who believe that today is even worse than yesterday£®
¡ñ Capturing the pleasing personality
How do you develop a pleasing personality? Here are some steps you can take:
Smile when you see someone£®You don't have to give a wide grin ¡ª just a pleasant, friendly smile£®
Speak in a pleasant, upbeat tone of voice£®Talk to people as if they are good friends, even if they don't really fall into that category yet£®
Take a course in public speaking£®The ability to express yourself attracts favorable attention from many sources£®
Develop a sense of humor£®Pick up a couple of joke books£®This makes you a little more outgoing and friendly£®
¡ñ Don't criticize unjustly
Instead of being eager to dish out criticism all the time, take the humane and sensible approach£®Look for the good in others£®Encourage them£®Build them up£®
Most people seldom think through each situation completely and consider the other person's point of view£®If you take the time and effort to do this, you'll end up befriending more people£®
Title:Five ways to cultivate friendship
Passage outline | Supporting details |
Introduction to friendship | Friends in your life are like pillars on your porch.Sometimes friends share each other¡¯s 1.and sorrow. |
2.Of cultivating friendship | Remembering the gold rule Treat others like you want to be treated.Don¡¯t have to accentuate the problem even though they are 3.to you,because sometimes a gentle understanding 4.is better than a rude behavior. |
Considering foes as friends5.on foes as friends makes you and your friends better off. | |
Making friends by being an optimist. Most people have the 6.for being around the ones who are optimistic. | |
Capturing the pleasing personality Give a 7.and friendly smile. Speak in a pleasant, upbeat tone of voice. Take a course about speaking 8.. Develop a sense of humor. | |
Don¡¯t criticize unjustly 9.criticizing others Look for the good in others. | |
Conclusion | Make an effort to do this and you¡¯ll 10.more friends in the end. |