Question

2．We often close ourselves off when painful events happen in our lives． Instead of letting the world soften us，we let it drive us deeper into ourselves． We try to ignore the hurt and，pain，but we can't hide from ourselves．（36）F   
    The items listed below are four tips you can open your heart more fully and completely．
    1．Breathe into pain
    Whenever a painful situation arises in your life，try to face it instead of running away（37）GWhen the sadness strikes，take a deep breath and accept it．By using our breath we soften our experiences and allow more newness．
    2．  （38）B  
    We're often confused at the next step to take． Actually，we can try a new decision making process．To start this process，we may ask，"Heart，what decision should I make here？What action feels the most right？"See what comes up，then put it into practice and evaluate the outcome．
    3．Spend time alone
    For most of our lives we're surrounded by people：our friends，family members，and strangers．（39）DWhen you spend time in solitude（孤独），you're free from the influences of other people． It might be painful at first，but eventually you'll add a whole new layer of depth and understanding into your life．
    4．Get outside of yourself
       （40）EBut in reality，they actually work hand-in-hand． After you've explored the depths of yourself，you come away with a new understanding．
    Now，it's time to share that-not through telling others，but through being with others．
    A．Have a light heart
    B．Ask your heart what it wants
    C．Is there anything I'm hiding from myself？
    D．How often do we really spend time alone？
    E．This may seem a little contradictory to the last tip．
    F．We should open our hearts and take action to heal the wounds．
    G．When we run away from sadness，it gets stronger and more real．

Answer 1

分析 我们应该打开心扉，采取行动来治愈伤痛．

解答 36F：文章细节，根据We try to ignore the hurt and，pain，but we can't hide from ourselves． 可知这里想说我们应该打开心扉，采取行动来治愈伤痛，故选F．
37G：深层理解，根据Whenever a painful situation arises in your life，try to face it instead of running away． 37  ．可知这里想说当我们逃避悲伤，它就会变得越发强大和更真实，故选G．
38B：抓住关键句，根据To start this process，we may ask，"Heart，what decision should I make here？What action feels the most right？"See what comes up，then put it into practice and evaluate the outcome．可知这里想说问你的心想要什么，故选B．
39D：文章细节理解，根据For most of our lives we're surrounded by people：our friends，family members，and strangers． 以及 When you spend time in solitude（孤独），you're free from the influences of other people．可知这里想说我们多久独自度过时光，故选D．
40E：理解归纳，根据But in reality，they actually work hand-in-hand． After you've explored the depths of yourself，you come away with a new understanding．可知这里想说看起来最后一条建议有些矛盾，故选E．

点评 在配对阅读中，有一个非常明显的 特征，在 选项中，5个句子中有7个选项供你选择，对于这种情况，我们用抓关键词的 同时采用排除法可达到比较好的效果．