题目内容
The key to a good interpersonal relationship is simple once you understand the role that needs play in making a relationship weak, moderate, average, or strong.
A person who fails in a relationship is someone who neglects the needs of his or her partner. So the first step to establish a successful relationship is to find out what needs the other person has. It is also very important to understand your own needs so that you can help the other person in the relationship to meet your needs.
Unfortunately, not only do many people fail to see or to understand their partner’s needs, but they do not understand their own. Children have wonderful relationships with their parents as long as their needs are being satisfied. When the needs are not satisfied, the relationship changes and problems arise. As a child grows, needs change; it is necessary that parents recognize these changes. As it is with the child to the parents, it is also with the parents to the child.
The way to recognize the needs of other people is by their responses to you. When you do or say something and you get a positive response, you are well on the way to being recognized. The same goes for you. What is it that you respond to in a positive manner? What do you feel good about getting and about doing? What are you totally guiltless about? What can you do with complete confidence and fearlessness? What emotional scene can you control without fear or guilt? Look in these areas for your needs and you will in all probability find your answers.
As stated, our own needs are often hidden. The techniques covered in the power of self-mind control will allow you to discover your needs and show you who you are in regard to interpersonal relationships. Your effectiveness in influencing and dealing with people will greatly increase the power of self-mind control.
From the passage we learn that ________.
A. it is hard to make good interpersonal relationships
B. there are several levels of relationships among people
C. the success of different interpersonal relationships can be measured by needs
D. the first step to establish a successful relationship is to know your own needs
According to Paragraph 2, the most important factor in dealing with people is to ________.
A. be kind to them and help them
B. only think of their needs
C. find out both your needs and theirs
D. learn some interpersonal techniques
Which of the following statements is NOT mentioned in the passage?
A. A child’s needs change with his growth.
B. A child should also know his parents’ needs.
C. It’s easier to find your own needs than to find others’.
D. You can learn what others need by their responses to you.
The last two paragraphs are written mainly to tell us ________.
A. why some people fail in a relationship
B. how to increase the power of self-mind control
C. why our needs are often hidden
D. how to recognize others’ needs and yours
【小题1】B
【小题2】C
【小题3】C
【小题4】D
解析:
A
本文主要讲述了人与人之间的关系,强调要处理好人际关系,我们必须要了解自己和他人的需要。
【小题1】根据文中的信息作出判断推理。根据第一段 … making a relationship weak, moderate, average, or strong可知,答案为B。
【小题2】根据文中的信息作出判断推理。根据第二段So the first step … It is also very important to understand your own needs … 可推测,处理好人际关系最重要的是要了解双方的需要。
【小题3】根据文中的信息作出判断推理。根据第三段As a child grows, needs change … 可知A项符合文意;根据第三段As it is with the child to the parents … 可以推测B项符合文意;根据第四段The way to recognize the needs of other people is by their responses to you可推测D项也是正确的。只有C项在文中没有提到,故答案为C。
【小题4】判断作者的写作目的。这两段的目的是告诉我们怎样发现他人和自己的需要,故答案为D。
根据对话内容,从对话后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。选项中有两项为多余选项。
W: Hi, John.
M: Hi. Lucy. 1
W: Yes. I'm required to tell a story in English before the lesson begins.
M: Oh, I see. 2
W: You're right. I need to practice on the stage before they all come.
M: 3
W: Yes, here, in my pocket...Oops, where is it?
M: Don't worry, 4
W: ...No, not in the bag either. I'm afraid I left it at home.
M: 5
W: Aha! It's just the key to the classroom! Thank you so much.
A.Glad to see you. |
B.What's the story about? |
C.What's that around your neck? |
D.Maybe you put it in your schoolbag, |
E. Do you have the key to the classroom?
F. You're going to school rather early today.
G. So you want to get to the classroom earlier to make some preparations?
People have wondered for a long time how their personalities and behaviors are formed.It is not easy to explain why one person is intelligent and another is not, or why one is cooperative (合作的)and another is competitive.
Social scientists are, of course, extremely interested in these types of questions.They want to explain why we possess certain characteristics and exhibit certain behaviors.There are no clear answers yet, but two distinct schools of thought (学派)on the matter have developed.As one might expect, the two approaches are very different from one another, and there is a great deal of debate between proponents of each theory.The controversy(argument) is often referred to as “nature and nurture(教育)”.
Those who support the “nature” side of the conflict believe that our personalities and behavior patterns are largely determined by biological and genetic factors.That our environment has little, if anything, to do with our abilities, characteristics, and behavior is central to this theory.Taken to an extreme(走极端), this theory maintains that our behavior is predetermined to such a degree that we are almost completely governed by our instincts(本能).
Proponents of the “nurture” theory, or, as they are often called, behaviorists, claimed that our environment is more important than our biologically based instincts in determining how we will act.A behaviorist, B.F.Skinner, sees humans as beings whose behavior is almost completely shaped by their surroundings.The behaviorists’ view of the human being is quite mechanistic(机械论的); they maintain that, like machines, humans’ respond to environmental stimuli(刺激) as the basis of their behavior.
Socially and politically, the consequences of these two theories are far-reaching.In the US, for example, blacks often score below whites on standardized intelligence tests.This leads some proponents to conclude that blacks are genetically lower in status than whites.Behaviorists, on the contrary, say that the differences in scores are due to the fact that blacks are often robbed of many of the educational and other environmental advantages that whites enjoy, and that, as a result, they do not develop the same responses that whites do.
Either of these theories cannot yet fully explain human behavior.In fact, it is quite likely that the key to our behavior lies somewhere between these two extremes. That the controversy will continue for a long time is certain.
1.This passage is mainly concerned with .
A.relation between personality and behavior |
B.relation between behavior and environment |
C.different accounts of patterns of human behavior |
D.different theories of the formation of human behavior |
2.The underlined word " proponents'' in paragraph 2 means .
A.creators |
B.advisors |
C.supporters |
D.judges |
3.In paragraph 5 , the author mainly writes about .
A.the considerable(值得考虑的) influence of the two theories |
B.differences between the blacks and whites |
C.racial discrimination in the United States |
D.different responds to intelligence tests |
4.What's the author's purpose in writing the passage?
A.To call our attention to the changes of human behavior. |
B.To urge scientists to do more research in social science. |
C.To give us a detailed explanation of human behavior. |
D.To present an argument in the field of social science. |