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The woman tried to explain that she hadn't to annoy him, but the driver kept . She finally realized that he was too annoyed to be , so she changed her . ¡°You know, you are right£¬¡± she told him. ¡°It must seem for me not to think you know the best way the city. ¡± £¬the driver glanced at his in the rearview mirror, turned down the street she wanted and got her to the train on time. ¡°He didn't say another word the rest of the ride£¬¡± she said, ¡° I got out and paid him. Then he thanked me. ¡±

When you find yourself with people like the taxi driver, you will always try to £¨14) your idea. It can lead to longer arguments, lose job chances or marriages. I have discovered one simple extremely unlikely method that can prevent the disagreement or other difficult situations from in a disaster.

The is to put yourself in the other person's shoes and look for the in what that person is saying. Find a way to £¬and the result may surprise you.

¡¾1¡¿ A. hurry B. rush C. moment D. way

¡¾2¡¿ A. chose B. madeC. found D. suggested

¡¾3¡¿ A. jokingly B. angrily C. anxiously D. curiously

¡¾4¡¿ A. supposed B. expected C. meant D. decided

¡¾5¡¿ A. apologizing B. driving C. asking D. shouting

¡¾6¡¿ A. reasonable B. thoughtful C. normal D. practical

¡¾7¡¿ A. road B. mind C. direction D. manner

¡¾8¡¿ A. strange B. wrong C. terrible D. stupid

¡¾9¡¿ A. across B. inC. through D. along

¡¾10¡¿ A. Surprised B. WorriedC. Annoyed D. Disappointed

¡¾11¡¿ A. rider B. speaker C. helper D. comer

¡¾12¡¿ A. until B. after C. because D. since

¡¾13¡¿ A. satisfied B. concerned C. crowded D. faced

¡¾14¡¿ A. give up B. turn down C. stick to D. point out

¡¾15¡¿ A. combine B. destroy C. suffer D. divide

¡¾16¡¿ A. and B. that C. but D. though

¡¾17¡¿ A. lying B. resulting C. setting D. leading

¡¾18¡¿ A. problem B. importance C. key D. reply

¡¾19¡¿ A. fact B. meaning C. expression D. truth

¡¾20¡¿ A. agree B. argue C. explain D. escape

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¡¾1¡¿________

Often a controlling parent is a perfectionist, driving you always to be the best you can and getting angry or upset over grades that are less perfect, no matter how hard you work for them, or finding faults with

tasks you take on around the home. There is nothing wrong with doing a job right, but it seems like no matter how hard you work on it, it's never perfect. In other words, do you ever just receive praise fromthat parent, or is it always justified with a "but..." or "except...".

¡¾2¡¿ ________

It can only be controlled if you allow it to be. Controlling behaviours are eventually the controller's attempt to meet his or her own needs. If the controlling parent demands good grades, don't do poorly.

You are the strong one when you find ways to meet his or her needs and yours, without allowing them to get into your mind. They can force you to pretend to be something you are not, but they can't changewho you actually are.

¡¾3¡¿________

Most controlling parents are simply afraid that you will fail without their intervention. Because they feel it necessary to involve themselves in your life. If you can discover what seems to calm your parents, you will make your own life much easier. For example, if a note from your teacher telling them you haven't turnedin your homework will put you into trouble, do turn in the homework. It's pretty simple but really-do what your parents want /span>you to do, and they will be less intrusive in your life.

¡¾4¡¿________

Some parents control their family with anger. They really lose their temper, lose all self-control, and theresult is no discussion. People are afraid to voice an opinion contrary to the angry parents because they

fear what will happen. This is how anger is used to control you. If you can talk to the parents, ask for the 3-minute-rule approach. Using this approach allows everyone to be heard and also provides some"cooling off" time, which can help manage conflicts.

¡¾5¡¿________

If you are very smart, you will study hard in school and give yourself lots of opinions for change. Evenif you go to school locally, it's suggested that you try to live in the dormitories, or any place other than

your parents' home. Get a job and help with your own living expenses. The sooner you get out form under the shadow of a controlling parent, the sooner the parent will recognize you "Declaration of Independence".

A. Establish your independence as early as possible.

B. Remember that your mind is yours alone.

C. Learn to work with your parents.

D. Identify your fear factor.

E. Learn how to avoid being controlled by anger.

F. Ask yourself if your parent is a perfectionist.

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