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Some American parents might think their children need better educations to compete with China and other countries. But how much do the parents themselves need to change?
A new book called Battle Hymn(圣歌) of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua has caused a debate about cultural differences in parenting. Ms. Chua is a professor at the Yale Law School in New Haven, Connecticut, and the mother of two daughters. She was raised in the American Mid-west by immigrant Chinese parents.
In the Chinese culture, the tiger represents strength and power. In her book, Ms Chua writes about how she demanded excellence from her daughters. For example, she threatened to burn her daughter’s stuffed animals unless she played a piece of music perfectly. She would insult her daughters if they failed to meet her expectations.
Ms. Chua told NBC television that she had a clear list of what her daughters, Sophia and Louisa, were not permitted to do.
“Attend a sleepover, have a playdate, watch TV or play computer games, be in a school play, get any grade less than an ‘A’.”
Many people have criticized Amy Chua. Some say her parenting methods were abusive. She even admits that her husband, who is not Chinese, sometimes objected to her parenting style. But she says that was the way her parents raised her and her three sisters.
Ms. Chua makes fun of her own extreme style of parenting. She says she eased some of the pressure after her younger daughter rebelled and shouted, “I hate my life! I hate you!”
Ms. Chua says she decided to retreat when it seemed like there was a risk that she might lose her daughter. But she also says American parents often have low expectations of their children’s abilities.
“One of the biggest differences I see between Western and Chinese parenting is that Chinese parents assume strength rather than fragility.”
Stacey DeBroff has written four books on parenting. “I think that the stirring of intense debate has to do with what it means to be a successful parent and what it means to be a successful child.”
Ms. DeBroff says Amy Chua’s parenting style is not limited to Chinese families. She says it represents a traditional way of parenting among immigrants seeking a better future for their children.
But she also sees a risk. When children have no time to be social or to follow their own interests, they might not develop other skills that they need to succeed in life. Stacey DeBroff advises parents to develop their own style of parenting and not just repeat the way they were raised.
【小题1】According to the passage, which of the following is TRUE about American parents?
| A.Some of them expect their children to be competitive. |
| B.Some of them need to educate themselves better. |
| C.They should learn from Chinese parents. |
| D.They care their kids more than Chinese. |
| A.It is a list of things for children to do. |
| B.It is a book about cultural differences. |
| C.It is a heated debate about parenting. |
| D.It is a book about how to raise children. |
| A.pressure | B.management | C.recreation | D.compromise |
| A.Different cultures have different concepts of values. |
| B.Chua’s parenting is followed by many American families. |
| C.Immigrants are always bitterly struggling abroad. |
| D.Parents had better raise their children in person. |
| A.Positive | B.Inactive | C.Indefinite | D.Negative |
阅读下面短文,并根据短文后的要求回答(请注意问题后的字数要求)
[1]China will change the world as much as the world changes China, if the country continues its opening up.
[2]How could it not? The rest of the world cannot remain unaffected by the culture of one-fifth of humanity. As China strengthens its economy, allows its citizens more overseas travel and participates in global efforts, the West surely will learn more about Chinese ways.
[3]And once it does, its people might choose to adot some of them.
[4]It might surprise Chinese that Westerners . When I announced my Beijing job to American friends, family and neighbors, they were very curious and mostly uninformed about China.
[5] Our media carries little news about China except during unusual circumstances, which typically are times of stress between the two countries.We hear about arguments with China over climate change, Taiwan and Tibet, but that doesn' t tell average Americans anything about average Chinese.
[6]Most American- don't know that Chinese weddings feature firecrackers; that Chinese parents make extraordinary sacrifices for their children; that Chinese diners eat off plates smaller than any on a Western table; that favorite Chinese drinks include hot soy milk and the potent white-grain alcohol, baijiu; and that elderly Chinese sometimes walk down streets backwards to keep their balancing skills sharp.
[7]Westemers will learn as they and the Chinese increasingly mingle(接触).As they do there' s no telling which Chirac customs will take root in foreiffl soil.but some of them surely will.
[8] Maybe we' 11 see baijiu and green tea served at baseball stadiums along with beer and soda pop.That wouldn' t make the game any less American.
[9] Meanwhile, I hope China continues to take in what the world has to offer and transform it into something typically Chinese.To think that exposure to Western ways weakens China, instead of strengthens it, assumes the country' s culture is fragile.That' s a surprising attitude for any Chinese to take.
1.What does the passage mainly tell us? (within 10 words)
2.Fill in the blank in Paragraph 4 with proper words. (within 6 words)
3.What an attitude should we Chinese take towards Western culture according to the author? (within 20 words)
4.Which sentence in the text is the closest in meaning to the following one?
In that case, some of the Chinese way of life will, possibly, be accepted by the westerners.
5.Translate the underlined sentence in Paragraph 7 into Chinese.
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阅读表达(共5小题,每小题3分,满分15分)
阅读下面短文,并根据短文后的要求回答(请注意问题后的字数要求)
[1]China will change the world as much as the world changes China, if the country continues its opening up.
[2]How could it not? The rest of the world cannot remain unaffected by the culture of one-fifth of humanity. As China strengthens its economy, allows its citizens more overseas travel and participates in global efforts, the West surely will learn more about Chinese ways.
[3]And once it does, its people might choose to adot some of them.
[4]It might surprise Chinese that Westerners . When I announced my Beijing job to American friends, family and neighbors, they were very curious and mostly uninformed about China.
[5] Our media carries little news about China except during unusual circumstances, which typically are times of stress between the two countries.We hear about arguments with China over climate change, Taiwan and Tibet, but that doesn' t tell average Americans anything about average Chinese.
[6]Most American- don't know that Chinese weddings feature firecrackers; that Chinese parents make extraordinary sacrifices for their children; that Chinese diners eat off plates smaller than any on a Western table; that favorite Chinese drinks include hot soy milk and the potent white-grain alcohol, baijiu; and that elderly Chinese sometimes walk down streets backwards to keep their balancing skills sharp.
[7]Westemers will learn as they and the Chinese increasingly mingle(接触).As they do there' s no telling which Chirac customs will take root in foreiffl soil.but some of them surely will.
[8] Maybe we' 11 see baijiu and green tea served at baseball stadiums along with beer and soda pop.That wouldn' t make the game any less American.
[9] Meanwhile, I hope China continues to take in what the world has to offer and transform it into something typically Chinese.To think that exposure to Western ways weakens China, instead of strengthens it, assumes the country' s culture is fragile.That' s a surprising attitude for any Chinese to take.
76.What does the passage mainly tell us? (within 10 words)
77.Fill in the blank in Paragraph 4 with proper words. (within 6 words)
78.What an attitude should we Chinese take towards Western culture according to the author? (within 20 words)
79.Which sentence in the text is the closest in meaning to the following one?
In that case, some of the Chinese way of life will, possibly, be accepted by the westerners.
80.Translate the underlined sentence in Paragraph 7 into Chinese.
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第二节:任务型阅读(共10个空格:每空1分,满分10分)
阅读下面短文,根据所读内容在文后第71至第80小题的空格里填上适当的单词或短语。注意:每空1个单词。
Chinese are very generous when it comes to educating their children. Not caring about the money, parents often send their children to the best schools or even abroad to England, the US or Australia. They also want their children to take extra-courses activities where they will either learn a musical instrument or ballet, or other classes that will give them a head start in life. The Chinese believe that the more expensive an education is, the better it is. So parents will spend unreasonable amount of money on education. Even poor couples will buy a computer for their son or daughter.
However, what most parents fail to see is that the best education they can give their children is usually very cheap.
Parents can see that their children’s skills vary, skilled in some areas while poor in others. What most parents fail to realize though, is that today’s children lack self-respect and self-confidence.
The problem is that parents are only educating their children on how to take multiple-choice tests and how to study well, but parents are not teaching them the most important skills they need to be confident, happy and clever.
Parents can achieve this by teaching practical skills like cooking , sewing and doing other housework.
Teaching a child to cook will improve many of the skills that he will need later in life. Cooking demands patience and time. It is an enjoyable but difficult experience. A good cook always tries to improve his cooking, so he will learn to work hard and gradually finish his job successfully. His result, a well-cooked dinner, will give him much satisfaction and a lot of confidence.
Some old machines, such as a broken radio or TV set that you give your child to play with will make him curious and arouse his interest. He will spend hours looking at them, trying to fix them; your child might become an engineer when he grows up. These activities are not only teaching a child to read a book, but rather to think, to use his mind. And that is more important.
What Chinese Parents Do In 76._____________ Their Children
|
Attitude |
77._______________ |
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Measures/Dos |
Never care about money. Send them to the best schools or abroad. Wish their children to take extre-course78.____________ or other classes. |
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Belief |
The more 79. __________an education is, the better the result will be. |
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What they can see in their children |
80._____________ skills |
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What they can’t see in their children |
Lack of 81. _____________ and self-confidence |
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82.____________ for their failure |
Only teach them how to83.____________ tests and study well. Without teaching them the most important skills they need to be confident, happy and clever. |
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How to 84.______ the problem |
By teaching 85. _____________ skills |
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阅读下面短文,然后按要求写一篇150词左右的英语短文。
As Teachers’ Day draws near, many Chinese parents have been thinking hard over gifts that are appropriate for the teachers of their children. Some have turned to the Internet for gift suggestions, including a mother named Yang whose child attends kindergarten. “What should I send and what kinds of gifts are appropriate? We are in a difficult situation---we cannot afford very expensive gifts, but teachers will not be impressed if the gifts are too cheap,” Yang wrote on a website.
Some parents, however, do not realize that some teaches are also under great pressure because of the gifts. “No more gifts, or I will run out of money!” complained a young teacher on Weibo.” Many parents send me some shopping tickets for Teachers’ Day so I put them in a new dictionary and let their children bring them back to their parents,’ the teacher wrote. A teacher named Zhu, said he feels “worried” every time parents send him money or shopping tickets. “It is not whether to accept the gifts, but how to return them that worries me. I tried to persuade parents to take them back. But I will use the money or shopping tickets from the stubborn parents to buy books for the class,” said Zhu.
[写作内容]
1. 以约30个词概括以上短文的内容;
2. 以约120个词就“教师节家长是否该给老师送礼”这一主题发表你的看法,内容包括:
(1) 说说你对该问题的看法,并简单说明原因;
(2) 谈谈你印象最深的一次教师节;
(3) 谈谈你所认为学生给老师的最好的教师节礼物。
[写作要求]
1. 作文中可使用亲身经历或虚构的故事,也可以参照阅读材料的内容,但不得直接引用原文中的句子;标题自拟。
2. 作文中不能出现真实姓名和学校名称。
[评分标准]
概括准确,语言规范,内容合适,语篇连贯。