How many times have you gotten upset because someone wasn’t doing their job, because your child isn’t behaving?How many times have you been annoyed when you’ve planned something carefully and things didn’t go as you’d hoped?
This kind of anger and irritation happens to all of us — it’s part of the human experience.
One thing that annoys me is when people talk during a movie. Or cut me off in traffic. Actually, I have a lot of these little annoyances — don’t we all? And it isn’t always easy to find peace when you’ve become upset or annoyed.
Let me tell you a little secret to finding peace of mind: see the glass as already broken.
See, the cause of our stress, anger and irritation is that things don’t go the way we like, the way we expect them to. Think of how many times this has been true for you. And so the solution is simple: expect things to go wrong, expect things to be different than we hoped or planned, expect the unexpected to happen. And accept it.
One quick example: on our recent trip to Japan, I told my kids to expect things to go wrong — they always do on a trip. I told them, “See it as part of the adventure.”
And this worked like a charm. When we took the wrong train on a foreign-language subway system, or when it rained on the day we went to Disney Sea, or when we took three trains and walked 10 blocks only to find the National Children’s Castle closed on Mondays … they said, “It’s part of the adventure!” And it was all OK — we didn’t get too bothered.
So when the nice glass you bought inevitably falls and breaks, someday, you might get upset. But not if you see the glass as already broken, from the day you get it. You know it’ll break someday, so from the beginning, see it as already broken. Be a time-traveler, or someone with time-traveling vision, and see the future of this glass, from this moment until it inevitably breaks. And when it breaks, you won’t be upset or sad — because it was already broken, from the day you got it. And you’ll realize that every moment you have with it is precious.
1.The author would probably agree that________.
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A.we should control our anger and irritation |
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B.we must get well prepared for the future |
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C.optimism can help us overcome our anger and irritation |
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D.anger and irritation is an important part of our life |
2.The purpose of the author is to ___________.
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A.tell us his own experience in life |
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B.give advice on how to find peace of mind |
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C.tell us a happy trip took with his children |
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D.advise us to see things from both sides |
3.By the underlined part, the author intends us to _____________.
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A.get ready for the worst result of things |
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B.enjoy the process of things |
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C.expect little from life |
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D.find the relation between cause and effect |
4.The author’s children could enjoy their trip to Japan because _____________.
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A.everything went smoothly |
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B.they had a lot of adventures |
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C.they had expected things to go wrong |
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D.they could soon get used to the customs there |
5.We can learn from the passage that the author ____________.
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A.often gets angry in his life |
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B.can adjust his state of mind accordingly |
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C.always expects others to act in his way |
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D.has suffered a lot from his anger and irritation |
When a first-time father saw his newborn son, he immediately noticed the baby's ears obviously standing out from his head. He expressed his concern to the nurse that some children might be made fun of his child. A doctor examined the baby and reassured the new dad that his son was healthy---- the ears presented only a small problem with its appearance.
But the nervous father continued. He wondered if the child might suffer psychological effects of ridicule, or if they should consider plastic surgery(整形手术). The nurse assured him that it was really no problem, and he should just wait to see if the boy grows into his ears.
The father finally felt more optimistic about his child, but now he worried about his wife's reaction to those large ears. She had been delivered by operation, and had not yet seen the child.
“She doesn't take things as easily as I do,” he said to the nurse.
By this time, the new mother was settled in the recovery room and ready to meet her new baby. The nurse went along with the dad to lend some support in case this inexperienced mother became upset about her baby's large ears.
The baby was in a blanket(毛毯) with his head covered for the short trip through the cold air-conditioned corridor. The baby was placed in his mother's arms, who eased the blanket back so that she could look at her child for the first time.
She took one look at her baby's face and looked to her husband and gasped, “Oh, Honey! Look! He has your ears!”
No problem with Mom. She married those ears...and she loves the man to whom they are attached.
The poet Kahlil Gibran said, “Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.” It's hard to see the ears when you're looking into the light.
1.When the father first saw his baby, he was worried that________.
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A.The baby might not grow up healthily. |
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B.The baby might be laughed at by others. |
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C.The baby might disappoint its mother. |
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D.the baby might have mental problems. |
2.According to the doctor and nurse, the baby’s ears________.
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A.could not function well. |
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B.looked the same as others. |
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C.only caused a small problem. |
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D.needed to have plastic surgery. |
3.What is true about the baby’s mother?
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A.She blamed her husband for the baby’s big ears. |
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B.She was the first to discover the baby’s large ears. |
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C.She suggested having an operation on the baby immediately. |
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D.She found something similar between the baby and its father. |
4.What does the underlined word they refer to in the last but on paragraph(倒数第2段)?
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A.The ears. |
B.The parents. |
C.The doctor and nurse. |
D.The problems |
5.What’s the function of the last paragraph?
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A.To advise readers to listen carefully. |
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B.To draw a conclusion from the story. |
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C.To criticize the wrong attitude to physical beauty. |
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D.To stress the importance of doctor-patient relationship. |
假如你是一名高中学生,经常因为在家上网跟妈妈生气,今天你和妈妈达成协议。请根据下面表格提供的信息内容,写一篇英语短文。
标题:An Agreement
[写作内容]
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对象 |
母亲 |
儿子 |
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观点 |
1.高中学习任务重,上网浪费时间。 2.儿子自制能力差,上网影响学习和视力,还影响健康。 |
1.学习一天很疲劳,上网听歌看故事可以放松一下。 2.上网也可以增长知识 。 |
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协议 |
平时不上网,周末允许上网看新闻、文艺、体育或科普类内容。 |
[写作要求]
1. 只能使用5个句子表达全部内容;
2. 开头已给出,不计算在5个句子之内。
[评分标准]
句子结构准确,信息内容完整,篇章结构连贯。
An Agreement
I often quarrel with my mother over whether I, a senior middle student, can surf the Internet at home after school.
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