A popular saying goes, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” However, that’s not really true. Words have the power to build us up or tear us down. It doesn’t matter if the words come from someone else or ourselves— the positive and negative effects are just as lasting.
We all talk to ourselves sometimes. We’re usually too embarrassed to admit it, though. In fact, we really shouldn’t be because more and more experts believe talking to ourselves out loud is a healthy habit.
This “self-talk” helps us motivate ourselves, remember things, solve problems, and calm ourselves down. Be aware, though, that as much as 77% of self-talk tends to be negative. So in order to stay positive, we should only speak words of encouragement to ourselves. We should also be quick to give ourselves a pat on the back. The next time you finish a project, do well in a test, or finally clean your room, join me in saying “Good job!”
Often, words come out of our mouths without us thinking about the effect they will have. But we should be aware that our words cause certain responses in others. For example, when returning an item to a store, we might use warm, friendly language during the exchange. And the clerk will probably respond in a similar manner. Or harsh (刻薄的) and critical language will most likely cause the clerk to be defensive.
Words possess power because of their lasting effects. Many of us regret something we once said. And we remember unkind words said to us! Before speaking, we should always ask ourselves: Is it true? Is it loving? Is it needed? If what we want to say doesn’t pass this test, then it’s better left unsaid.
Words possess power: both positive and negative. Those around us receive encouragement when we speak positively. We can offer hope, build self-esteem (自尊) and motivate others to do their best. Negative words destroy all those things. Will we use our words to hurt or to heal? The choice is ours.
1.The main idea of the first paragraph is that _________.
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A.words have a lasting effect on us |
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B.inspiring words give us confidence |
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C.negative words may let us down |
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D.not sticks and stones but words will hurt us |
2.There is no need for us to feel embarrassed when we talk to ourselves because _________.
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A.almost everybody has the habit of talking to themselves |
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B.talking to ourselves always gives us courage |
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C.we can benefit from talking to ourselves |
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D.it does no harm to have “self-talk” when we are alone |
3.The underlined part in the third paragraph means that we should also timely ________.
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A.remind ourselves |
B.praise ourselves |
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C.make ourselves relaxed |
D.give ourselves amusement |
4.The author would probably hold the view that _________.
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A.encouraging words are sure to lead to kind offers |
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B.negative words may motivate us to make more progress |
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C.people tend to remember friendly words |
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D.it is better to think twice before talking to others |
5.In which column of the newspaper can you most likely read this passage?
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A.News. |
B.Advice column. |
C.Health. |
D.Language. |
One night recently, I was driving down a two-lane highway at about 60 miles an hour. A car approached from the opposite direction at about the same speed. As we passed each other, I caught the other driver’s eye for only a second. I wondered whether he might be thinking, as I was, how dependent we were on each other at that moment. I was relying on him not to fall asleep, not to be distracted (分心) by a phone conversation, not to cross over into my lane and bring my life to a sudden end. Though we had never spoken a word to each other, he relied on me in just the same way.
Multiplied a million times over, I believe that is the way the world works. At some level, we all depend upon one another. Sometimes that dependence requires us simply not to do something like crossing over the double yellow line. And sometimes it requires us to act cooperatively, with friends or even with strangers.
As technology makes our world smaller and smaller, the need increases for cooperative action among nations. In 2003, doctors in five nations were quickly organized to identify the SARS virus, which saved thousands of lives. The threat of international terrorism has shown itself to be a similar problem, one requiring team action by police and intelligence forces across the world. We must recognize that our fates are not ours alone to control.
In my own life, I used to put great stock in personal responsibility. But, as time has passed, I’ve also come to believe that there are moments when one must rely upon the good faith and judgment of others. So, while each of us faces the case of driving alone down a dark road, what we must learn with experience is that the approaching light may not be a threat, but a shared moment of trust.
1.The author considers it very important ______.
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A.to drive with a companion |
B.to have personal independence |
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C.to gain certain responsibility |
D.to share trust and cooperation |
2.The author said that they depended on each other in the same way because ______.
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A.the approaching car was very dangerous |
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B.they both drove their car at a terrific speed |
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C.he might be killed out of the other’s careless driving |
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D.it was dark and the road was not wide enough |
3. From the second paragraph, we know the author drew the important lesson from ______.
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A.only one experience |
B.many similar experiences |
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C.a driver on a dark road |
D.many friends and strangers |
4.The need for cooperation increases because ______.
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A.people’s fates can’t be controlled by themselves |
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B.certain viruses can spread in a quick way |
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C.terrorism can happen everywhere and every day |
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D.the world has become much more dangerous |
5.We can infer from the last paragraph that the author has ______.
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A.believed in one’s own personal responsibility |
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B.counted upon himself alone in everything |
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C.had no trust in others’ good faith and judgment |
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D.had a change on his viewpoint of life |
—A good book is a good friend. You can get the help you need from it.
—You said it. _____.
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A.I agree |
B.I disagree |
C.All right |
D.That’s a good idea |
—What’s wrong with you, Darling?
—I’m _____a fever. I think I am dying.
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A.recovering from |
B.getting into |
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C.catching up with |
D.suffering from |
The old woman _____ the traffic lights and nearly knocked into a car.
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A.ignored |
B.checked |
C.disliked |
D.obeyed |