题目内容
—I find reading comprehension the hardest in learning a foreign language.
—Well,________ you'd better practice reading short passages every day.
A.so that
B.now that
C.for that
D.with that
Many parents have learned the hard way that what sounds like open communication is often the very thing that closes a youngster’s ears and mouth. One common mistake is the Lecture, the long monologue that often starts with “When I was your age….” Eighteen-year-old Kelly calls lectures “long, one-side discussions in which I don’t say much.”
Kids reflexively(条件反射地) shut down in the face of a lecture. Their eyes glaze over, and they don’t register any incoming information. Listen to 13-year-old Sarah describe her least favorite times with her mom and dad. “First, they scream. Then comes the ‘We’re so disappointed’ speech. Then the ‘I never did that to my parents’ lecture begins. After that, even if they realize how ridiculous they sound, they never take it back.”
Lines like “When you have children of your own, you’ll understand” have been seriously said by parents since time immemorial. But many of our expert parents, like Bobby, a registered nurse and mother of three, feel that by falling back on clichés(陈词滥调)to justify our actions, we weaken our position.
Since kids are creatures of here and now, the far-off future has no relevance to them. Therefore, good communicators like Bobby suggest, “Give specific reasons for your actions in present language: ‘I’m not letting you go to the party because I don’t think there will be enough adult supervisions(监护).’”
Betty, who lives in Missiouri, uses an indirect approach. “I find that warnings are accepted more readily if I discuss a news article on a subject I am concerned about. My husband and I talk about it while our children absorb the information. Then they never think I’m preaching(布道).”
This really helped when Betty’s kids began driving. Instead of constantly repeating “Don’t drink; don’t speed,” she would talk about articles in the paper and express sympathy for the victims of a car crash. Betty made no special effort to draw her kids into the conversation. She depended on a teenager’s strong desire to put in his opinions---especially if he thinks he isn’t being asked for them.
【小题1】The purpose of the passage is to _________.
| A.compare two ways of parents` communicating with their kids |
| B.explain why kids won’t listen to their parents |
| C.give parents advice on how to communicate with their kids |
| D.introduce kids` reaction to the communication between them and their parents |
| A.Kids won’t listen to their parents because they think what their parents say is boring. |
| B.Kids don’t like any discussion at all. |
| C.Some kids think their parents should apologize when they are wrong. |
| D.Many kids think they have no right to express their own opinions. |
| A.讨论 | B.对话 | C.插话 | D.独白 |
| A.Something related to kids’ present life |
| B.Kids possible life in the future |
| C.Parents` own experience |
| D.What parents have done to their own parents. |
| A.tell their kids to listen carefully |
| B.arouse kids’ desire to express themselves. |
| C.list out as many examples as possible |
| D.set out their warnings directly |
A funny thing happened on the way to the communications revolutions: we stopped talking to one another.
I was walking in the park with a friend recently,and his cell phone rang, interrupting our conversation. There we were, walking and talking on a beautiful sunny day and…I became invisible, absent from the conversation.
The telephone used to connect you to the absent. Now it makes people sitting next to you feel absent. Why is it that the more connected we get, the more disconnected I feel? Every advance in communications technology is a tragedy to the closeness of human interaction. With email and instant messaging over the Internet, we can now communicate without seeing or talking to one another, With voice mail, you can conduct entire conversations without ever reaching anyone. If my mom has a question, I just leave the answer on her machine.
As almost every contact we can imagine between human beings gets automated, the alienation index goes up. You can't even call a person to get the phone number of another person my more. Directory assistance is almost always fully automated.
I am not against modern technology. I own a cell phone, an ATM card a voice mail system, and an email account. Giving them up isn't wise…they're a great help to use. It's some of their possible consequences that make me feel uneasy.
More and more .I find myself hiding behind e-mail to do a job meant for conversation. Or being relieved that voice mail picked up because I didn't really have time to talk, The industry devoted to helping me keep in touch is making me lonelier…or at least facilitating my antisocial instincts.
So I've put myself on technology restriction: no instant messaging. with people who live near me,no cell phoning in the presence of friends, no letting the voice mail pick up when I'm at home.
【小题1】Which of the following would be the best title of the passage?
| A.The Advance of Communications Technology |
| B.The Consequences of Modern Technology |
| C.The Story of Communications Revolution |
| D.The Automation of Modern Communications |
| A.the people sitting beside you have to go away to receive a phone call |
| B.you can hardly get in touch with the people sitting beside you |
| C.modem technology makes it hard for people to have a face-to-face talk |
| D.people can now go to work without going to the office |
| A.encouraging | B.disappointing | C.satisfying | D.embarrassing |
| A.modern technology is bridging the people. |
| B.modern technology is separating the people |
| C.modern technology is developing too fast |
| D.modern technology is interrupting our communications |