题目内容
A 15-year-old boy:I hate being controlled all the time by my parents.Whenever I
want to do something, they will doubt and then stop me.They decide everything for me-they for ever treat me as a 3-year-old baby, which indeed makes me depressed and have little confidence, not only before my parents, but also before my classmates.
A father of a 16-year-old girl:I love my daughter very much, so I seldom allow her to do anything according to her own will.She is just a school girl and knows little about society and about life.What she feels like doing may hurt her.We parents must guide them and stop their stupid ideas.Of course, she is not always willing to follow me, but, I don’t think it a problem.
A teacher of a high school:I often asked my students to decide for themselves what they should do and what not.I found that the students who seldom make decisions at home were slow to get an idea and less active to make any decision.While on the other hand, those who often acted as a decider at home were active to make decisions, which sometimes seemed to be too quick and these students are less willing to consider others’ advice.
A mother who works as a busy manager:I have little time to spare for my son and I feel very upset.So I prefer to satisfy any request he raises to me-just for fewer feelings of guilty, though it seems to be harder and harder to make him satisfied.After all, his happiness is the most important thing for me in the world.
A high school student:I was once proud of my parents, because they treat me as an adult.They would listen to my idea attentively whenever there was a need to make a decision, and if I showed different idea from theirs, they would changed theirs.But recently, I’ve found that I am often at loss(迷茫), for there seems to have no many such people like my parents who will always follow my thought.Are my parents less wise than others?
A university girl:I am greatly thankful to my parents.They respect my ideas and opinions and take them seriously, and what’s more important, they always point out the mistakes found in my ideas and make me clear about them.From them, I learnt to respect others’ thoughts and consider everything objectively and to make decisions properly.Now, I think I am a fairly mature girl with selfconfidence.
My view:________________
答案:
Parents and children should communicate more, they can respect and consider the opinions of the children, but can not indulge their children too much.