题目内容
____polite to others and you can get friendship in turn.
A. Be B. To be C. Being D./
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The Internet has opened up a whole new on-line world for us to meet, chat (聊天) and go where we’ve never been before.
But just as in face-to-face communication, there are some basic rules of behavior that should be followed when online. The basic rule is simple: treat others in the same way that you would want to be treated. Imagine how you’d feel if you were in the other person’s shoes.
For anything you’re going to send, ask yourself: “Would I say this in front of the person?” If the answer is no, rewrite and reread. Repeat the process till you feel sure that you’d feel comfortable saying the words to the person’s face.
If someone in the chat room is impolite to you, your feeling is to fight back in the same manner. But try not to do so. You should either ignore (忽略) the person, or use your chat software (软件) to stop their messages. If it was caused by a disagreement with another member, try to fix the situation by politely discussing it. Remember to respect the beliefs and opinions of others in the chat room.
Everyone was new to the network once. Offer advice when asked by newcomers, as they may not be sure what to do or how to communicate. When someone makes a mistake whether it’s a stupid question or an unnecessarily long answer, be kind about it. If it’s a small mistake, you may not need to say anything. Even if you feel strongly about it, think twice before saying anything. Having good manners yourself doesn’t give you the right to correct everyone else.
If you do decide to tell someone about a mistake, point it out politely. At the same time, if you find you are wrong, be sure to correct yourself and apologize to those who you have offended (冒犯).
It is not polite to ask others personal questions such as their age, sex, and families. Unless you know the person very well, and you are both comfortable with sharing personal information, don’t ask such questions.
【小题1】. When you send short messages to a person, you must .
| A.make sure that they don’t do harm to others | B.read them again and again |
| C.say something good to hear | D.repeat them later to the person’s face |
| A.fight back in the same way | B.take them seriously |
| C.pay no attention to them | D.be angry at them |
| A.should point them out sharply |
| B.shouldn’t give any advice unless required by them |
| C.should say something about them |
| D.should correct them at once |
| A.some rules of Internet communication |
| B.ways of sending messages |
| C.rules of the face – to – face communication |
| D.ways of making friends on the Internet |
I fell in love with England because it was quaint (典雅)—all those little houses, looking terribly old-fashioned but nice, like dolls’ houses. I loved the countryside and the pubs, and I loved London. I’ve slightly changed my mind after seventeen years because I think it’s an ugly town now.
Things have changed. For everybody, England meant gentlemen, fair play, and good manners. The fair play is going, unfortunately, and so are the gentlemanly attitudes and good manners—people shut doors heavily in your face and politeness is disappearing.
I regret that there are so few comfortable meeting places. You’re forced to live indoors. In Paris I go out much more, to restaurants and nightclubs. To meet friends here it usually has to be in a pub, and it can be difficult to go there alone as a woman. The cafes are not terribly nice.
As a woman, I feel unsafe here. I spend a bomb on taxis because I will not take public transport after 10 p. m. I used to use it, but now I’m afraid.
The idea of family seems to be more or less non-existent in England. My family is well united and that’s typically French. In Middlesex I had a neighbour who is 82 now. His family only lived two miles away, but I took him to France for Christmas once because he was always alone.
1.The writer doesn’t like London because she ______.
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A.is not used to the life there now |
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B.has lived there for seventeen years |
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C.prefers to live in an old-fashioned house |
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D.has to be polite to everyone she meets there |
2.Where do people usually meet their friends in England?
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A.In a cafe. |
B.In a restaurant. |
C.In a nightclub. |
D.In a pub. |
3.The underlined part “it” (in Para. 4) refers to______.
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A.a taxi |
B.the money |
C.a bomb |
D.public transport |
4.The writer took her neighbour to France for Christmas because he ______.
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A.felt lonely in England |
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B.had never been to France |
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C.was from a typical French family |
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D.didn't like the British idea of family |
Do you want to have a lot of close friends? In order to make it happen, you must do a lot of things right. You will learn tips on how to build a solid friendship.
You should be extra respectful when you are at others’ homes. For example, you must not make unpleasant comments about them. Once when I was at the house of a friend as a high school senior, I told him he had feet that looked funny while he had his socks off in his bedroom. He rebutted(反驳),“If you’re going to make fun of my feet, you can leave.’’
You must be a person of your word. For example, if you say you will do something for or with your friend, you must follow up on it.
You must respect people other than your friends.This includes respecting your friends’ family members and being polite to others in general.
It is helpful to be supportive. You should try to provide help when your friends need it.
You should understand them. Even if you do not agree with some of the things they do, you should show an understanding of why they do them and offer advice while avoiding telling them they are at fault for their problems.
You must be caring. You must put care into the things you do for them and show concern for their troubles.
Having a good attitude is a must. You must avoid being combative(好斗的)as well as being sad or mad too often.
Take these tips to build solid friendships!
1.The purpose of the passage is to________.
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A.explain why people need close friends |
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B.teach us how to build a solid friendship |
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C.show us how important close friendship is |
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D.let people know more about friendships |
2.What did the author mainly want to show by mentioning his friend in high shool?
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A.Friends should respect one another. |
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B.There is no perfect person in the world. |
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C.Making fun of friends is unpleasant. |
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D.It’s impossible to take off one’s socks before others. |
3.The underlined part “be a person of your word’’ in Paragraph 3 can be replaced by“ ________’’.
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A.make your promise |
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B.keep your promise |
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C.be a responsible person |
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D.be an honest person |
4.From the 6th paragraph, we can learn that we should________.
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A.agree with things our friends do |
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B.disagree with things our friends do |
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C.tell our friends they are wrong directly |
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D.express our understanding to our friends |