Question

【题目】It can be difficult to make friends when you don’t know many people. Over years of experience and studying social skills, I discovered that it’s possible to make friends without even trying. 【1】 .

Be seen without trying to get attention.

You don’t have to say anything witty or interesting to get people’s attention..【2】 . This can be done anywhere you go, such as the supermarket or your yoga studio.

Use the power of listening.

When you listen to other people, they’ll keep talking. 【3】. Just keep giving them good eye contact and show with your body language that you care.

Think about what you can give to the other people.

So often we think about what we can get out of others when we try to make friends, but that thinking needs to be flipped around. 【4】 .

Always have 3 good stories to tell other people.

When you have at least a few stories to share with others, you’ll never run out of things to talk about.

【5】.

A smile is one of the most attractive things that someone can display when they’re meeting new people. Try to smile when meeting with someone will help you a lot.

A. A faint smile is also useful

B. Smile like there’s no tomorrow

C. Listening is a mechanism to build trust and likeability

D. There are just a few strategies that you have to use on a consistent basis

E. All you have to do is place yourself in environments where people will see you

F. These five strategies are always available if you want to develop true relationships

G. Try offering a piece of helpful advice or invite someone you just met to grab coffee

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】D

【2】E

【3】C

【4】G

【5】B

【解析】文章介绍几个交友的技巧。

【1】考查对上下文语境的理解。空前句意：根据多年的经验以及对社交技能的研究，我发现其实你甚至能毫不费力地交到朋友。下文向我们介绍了几个交友的技巧。可知这里D（这里有一些你一直可以用得上的策略。）符合上下文，故选D。

【2】考查对上下文语境的理解。空前句意：你不必说诙谐或有趣的事情来吸引人们的注意。空后句意：这可以在你去的任何地方奏效，比如超市或是瑜伽馆。可知这里E（你所要做的只是将你自己置于人们能注意到的地方。）符合上下文，故选E。

【3】考查对上下文语境的理解。空前句意：当你听别人说话时，他们会一直说话。空后句意：只要和他们保持良好的眼神接触，并用你的身体语言显示出你的关注。可知这里C（倾听是一种建立信任和魅力的途径。）符合上下文，故选C。

【4】考查对上下文语境的理解。本段的主题是：想想你能给别人什么。空前句意：当我们试图交朋友的时候，我们经常会考虑我们能从别人那里得到什么，但是我们需要扭转这种想法。可知这里G（试着提供一个有用的建议或邀请你刚才遇到的人来喝杯咖啡。）符合上下文，故选G。

【5】考查对上下文语境的理解。这里是本段的主题句。根据下文的内容“微笑是最有吸引力的事情之一。当结识新人时，他们可以传递他们的微笑”。可知这里B（尽情微笑。。）符合上下文，故选B。