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A letter to Edward,a columnist (报刊专栏作家)
Dear Mr Expert,
I grew up in an unhappy and abusive
home.I always Promised myself that I’d get out as soon as
possible.Now,at the age of 20,I have a good job and a nice house,and I’m
really proud of the independence I’ve achieved.
Here’s the problem:several of my
friends who still live with their parents wish they had places like mine-so much that they make mine theirs.
It started out with a couple of them
spending the weekends with me.But now they seem to take it for granted that
they can show up any time they like.They bring boyfriends over,talk on the
phone and stay out forever.
I enjoy having my friends here sometimes-it makes the place feel comfortable and
warm-but this is my home,not a party
house.I was old enough to move out on my own,so why can’t I seem to ask
my friends to respect my privacy(隐私)?
Joan
Edward’s reply to Joan
Dear Joan,
If your family didn’t pay
attention to your needs when you were a child,you probably have trouble letting
others know your needs now.
And if you’ve gathered your
friends around you to rebuild a happy family atmosphere(气氛),you may fear that saying no will bring
back the kind of conflict you grew up with-or
destroy the nice atmosphere you now enjoy.You need to understand that in true
friendship it’s Okay to put your own needs first from time to time.
Be clear about the message you want to
send.For example,“I really love your company but
I also need some privacy.So please call before you come over.”
Edward
47. We can learn from the
first letter that Joan .
A.lives away from her parents B.takes
pride in her friends
C.knows Edward quite well D.hates
her parents very much
48. We can infer from the
first letter that .
A.Joan considers her friends more
important than her privacy
B.Joan’s friends visit her more
often than she can accept
C.Joan doesn’t like the parties at
all
D.Joan dislikes the boyfriends her
friends bring over
49. According to Edward,why
can’t Joan tell her friends her feelings?
A.She is afraid of hurting her friends.
B.She does not understand true
friendship.
C.Her family experience stops her from
doing so.
D.She does not put her needs first.
50. The underlined word “conflict”
in the second letter means .
A.dependent life B.fierce collision C.bad
manners D.painful
feeling
51. The second letter suggests
that Edward
.
A.is worried about Joan’s problem
B.warns Joan not to quarrel with her
friends
C.advises Joan on how to refuse people
D.encourages Joan to be brave enough