(2011·北京东城区第一学期期末)
Making Peace
with Your Parents
As
a teen, you're going through big changes physically and mentally. Your
interests are expanding.__1__
Here
is the challenge：Kids need to explore the world
in new ways, and parents need to protect them from the dangers that all out in
that world. These conflicts can easily set off fireworks in otherwise calm
houses. Sometimes conflicts can't be avoided. But by paying attention to the
building blocks of successful relationships, you can work towards making home a
happy and healthy place for you and your parents.
For
instance, try to find a time to talk when your parents all not angry, tired,
distracted, or hungry. A good time to talk is when you're all relaxed. Timing
is everything. If the conversation begins to turn into an argument, you'd
better calmly and coolly ask to stop the conversation-for now.__2__ Listen to what your parents are saying,
and repeat it back to them. This shows them that you're listening.__3__.
Respect
is the building block of good communication. People who respect each other and
care about each others' feelings call disagree without things getting ugly.
__4__ How do you build trust? Trust comes by
actually doing what you say you're going to do. Some teens find that doing fun
activities with their parents can improve their relationships. Sometimes we
forget that parents are more than rulemakers-they're interesting people who
like to watch movies. And go shopping-just like their teenagers!
What
do you do if you are trying your best, but your relationship with your parents
continues to be rocky？__5__ You can find supportive adults, such as
a teacher or a coach, who can lend an ear.
Remember
you can only change your own behavior. Your parents are the only ones who can
change theirs.
A．It also gives them a chance to clear
things up if you're not on the same page.
B．You can pick it up again when everyone's
more relaxed.
C．And then you'll be able to accept what
your parents say.
D．Faced with the challenge, children don't
know what to do.
E．You are more likely to get along with
your parents and have more independence if your parents believe in you.
F．And your desire to take control of your
own life is growing.
G．You may consider seeking outside help.
答案：1.F 2.B 3.A 4.E 5.G
