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Several Ways to Respectfully Disagree
It’s easier to agree than disagree. But we can learn a lot from conversations where we don’t see eye to eye—if we can listen and talk rationally(理性地), that is. _1 These tips can help keep disagreements constructive.
Don’t make it personal. If you get upset, it can help to remember you’re mad at the idea or concept your parent (or friend, coach, coworker, etc.) is raising, not the person.
Use “I” statements to communicate how you feel, what you think, and what you want or need. 2 For example, telling your mom or dad, “You always remind me about my chores on Wednesdays when you know I have a lot of homework” has a very different tone from “I’m feeling pressured because I have a lot of homework tonight. Can I do those chores tomorrow?”
3 Being a good listener is a way of showing that you respect and understand the other person’s idea. That makes it more likely he or she will do the same for you. When the other person is talking, try to stop yourself from thinking about why you disagree or what you’ll say next. Instead, focus on what’s being said. When it’s your turn to talk, repeat back any key point the other person made to show you listened and heard what was said. 4
Stay calm. This is the most important thing you can do to keep a conversation on track. Of course, it’s a huge challenge to stay calm and rational when you feel angry about something. You may need to be the mature one who manages the conversation.
5 Being helpful and considerate toward family members, teachers, or coaches in our everyday actions helps all of us establish a foundation for those times when we might disagree.
| A．Listen to the other point of view. |
| B．Using “you” statements can sound argumentative. |
| C．Then calmly present your case and why you disagree. |
| D．Respect goes beyond difficult conversations, of course. |
F. You want to find your own path and make your own choices.
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I can still remember when I met my best friend．She had just moved into the neighborhood and her grandmother brought her down to 1 me．I hid behind my mother she hid behind her grandmother， 2 to look at each other．Soon we lost the 3 and started playing with each other．
In the 7th grade，I first intentionally distanced myself from her．At that time, she was 4 family problems and I deserted her to be with me because she got _ 5 than ever before．None of my new friends liked her as much as I did because they knew she had_ 6 ．However，every summer we couldalways sit at each other’s house and watch soap operas，and talk about all the boys we liked．
It was last year when I noticed the problem．I guess I was too devoted in high school to 7 she needed someone there for her．Anyway，she made a new best friend and so did I．Then I didn’t know why，but she started cutting herself!
She then was diagnosed（诊断）with clinical depression．At first，I was very 8 ，but we still stayed in __9___．I wanted to be there for her since her new best friend basically 10 __ her and people were calling her 11 ．
Yesterday she came to me and said：“I never knew what a best friend was until you were the only person that would stop me cutting．I 12 you so much，and you didn’t even know you were ___13 me．”
We both cried．And a kind of 14 that I learn from my life so far is never to give up on your friends．Even if they aren’t as warm as others，or people think they are crazy，they need someonethere．If you desert them，you will only be 15 yourself.
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I can still remember when I met my best friend．She had just moved into the neighborhood and her grandmother brought her down to 16 me．I hid behind my motherland she hid behind her grandmother， 17 to look at each other．Soon we lost the 18 and started playing with each other．
In the 7th grade，I first lost touch with her．She was 19 family problems and I deserted her to be with the because they knew she had 20 people．None of my new friends liked her as much as I did because they knew she had 21 ．However，every summer we could always sit at each other’s house and watch soap operas，and talk about all the boys we liked．
It was last year when I noticed the problem．I guess I was too devoted in high school to 22___ she needed someone there for her．Anyway，she made a new best friend and so did I．Then 1 didn’t know why，but she started cutting herself!
She then was diagnosed（诊断）with clinical depression．At first，1 was very 23___ ，but we still stayed in 24____ ．I wanted to be there for her since her new best friend basically 25___ her and people were calling her 26____ ．
Yesterday she came to me and said：“I never knew what a best friend was until you were the only person that would stop me cutting．I 27___ you so much，and you didn’t even know you were 28____ me．”
We both cried．And I guess a kind of 29__ from my life so far is never to give up on your friends．Even if they aren’t as cool as others，or people think they are crazy，they need someone there．If you desert them，you will only be 30____ yourself.
A．follow B．meet C．join D．support
A．scared B．annoyed C．worried D．delighted
A．temper B．interest C．confidence D．shyness
A．taking up B．getting through C．going through D．making up
A．happier B．cooler C．stronger D．cleverer
A．problems B．shortcomings C．partners D．disabilities
A．admit B．accept C．consider D．realize
A．calm B．considerate C．upset D．helpful
A．place B．touch C．control D．mood
A．confused B．bothered C．reminded D．deserted
A．crazy B．stubborn C．clumsy D．stupid
A．expect B．influence C．appreciate D．demand
A．urging B．blaming C．helping D．hurting
A．honour B．favour C．pleasure D．lesson
A．innocent B．successful C．guilty D．reliable
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| I can still remember when I met my best friend.She had just moved into the neighborhood and her grandmother brought her down to__1__me.I hid behind my mother and she hid behind her grandmother, __2__to look at each other.Soon we lost the__3__and started playing with each other. In the 7th grade,I first lost touch with her.She was__4__family problems and I deserted her to be with the__5__people.None of my new friends liked her as much as I did because they knew she had__6__. However,every summer we__7__always sit at each other's house and watch soap operas,and talk about all the boys we liked. It was last year when I noticed the problem.I guess I was__8__devoted in high school to__9__she needed someone there for her.Anyway,she made a new best friend and so did I．Then I didn't know why, __10__she started cutting herself! She then was diagnosed(诊断) with clinical depression.At first,I was very__11__,but we still stayed in __12__.I wanted to be there for her since her new best friend basically__13__her and people were calling her__14__. Yesterday she came to me and said,"I never knew what a best friend was__15__you were the only person that would stop me cutting.I__16__you so much,and you didn't even know you were__17__me." We both cried.And I guess a kind of__18__from my life so far is never to give up on your friends.Even if they aren' t as cool as others,or people think they are crazy,they need__19__there.If you desert them, you will only be__20__ yourself. | |||
| ( )1．A.follow ( )2．A.scared ( )3．A.temper ( )4．A.taking up ( )5．A.happier ( )6．A.problems ( )7．A.should ( )8．A.much ( )9．A.admit ( )10．A.but ( )11．A.calm ( )12．A.place ( )13．A.confused ( )14．A.crazy ( )15．A.unless ( )16．A.expect ( )17．A.urging ( )18．A.honour ( )19．A.someone ( )20．A.innocent |
B．meet B．annoyed B．interest B．getting through B．cooler B．shortcomings B．could B．too B．accept B．for B．considerate B．touch B．bothered B．stubborn B．as B．influence B．blaming B．favour B．something B．successful |
C．join C．worried C．confidence C．going through C．stronger C．partners C．would C．only C．consider C．or C．upset C．control C．reminded C．clumsy C．until C．appreciate C．helping C．pleasure C．anyone C．guilty |
D．support D．delighted D．shyness D．making up D．cleverer D．disabilities D．might D．just D．realize D．so D．helpful D．mood D．deserted D．stupid D．that D．demand D．hurting D．lesson D．everything D．reliable |
阅读下面短文，掌握其大意．然后从1—15各题所给的A、B、C和D项中，选出最佳选项，并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。
I can still remember when I met my best friend．She had just moved into the neighborhood and her grandmother brought her down to 1 me．I hid behind my motherland she hid behind her grandmother， 3 to look at each other．Soon we lost the 2 and started playing with each other．
In the 7th grade，I first lost touch with her．She was 4 family problems and I deserted her to be with the because they knew she had 5 people．None of my new friends liked her as much as I did because they knew she had 6 ．However，every summer we could always sit at each other’s house and watch soap operas，and talk about all the boys we liked．
It was last year when I noticed the problem．I guess I was too devoted in high school to 7 she needed someone there for her．Anyway，she made a new best friend and so did I．Then 1 didn’t know why，but she started cutting herself!
She then was diagnosed（诊断）with clinical depression．At first，1 was very 8 ，but we still stayed in 9 ．I wanted to be there for her since her new best friend basically 10 her and people were calling her 11 ．
Yesterday she came to me and said：“I never knew what a best friend was until you were the only person that would stop me cutting．I 12 you so much，and you didn’t even know you were 13 me．”
We both cried．And I guess a kind of 14 from my life so far is never to give up on your friends．Even if they aren’t as cool as others，or people think they are crazy，they need someone there．If you desert them，you will only be 15 yourself.
A．follow B．meet C．join D．support
A．scared B．annoyed C．worried D．delighted
A．temper B．interest C．confidence D．shyness
A．taking up B．getting through C．going throughD．making up
A．happier B．cooler C．stronger D．cleverer
A．problems B．shortcomings C．partners D．disabilities
A．admit B．accept C．consider D．realize
A．calm B．considerate C．upset D．helpful
A．place B．touch C．control D．mood
A．confused B．bothered C．reminded D．deserted
A．crazy B．stubborn C．clumsy D．stupid
A．expect B．influence C．appreciate D．demand
A．urging B．blaming C．helping D．hurting
A．honour B．favour C．pleasure D．lesson
A．innocent B．successful C．guilty D．reliable
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