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When a child is told he is "uncool", it can be very painful. He may say he doesn't care, and even act in ways that are opposite of cool on purpose. But ultimately, these are simply ways to handle sadness by pretending it's not there.
Helping a child feel better in school had to be careful. If you say, "Why are you worried about what other children think about you? It doesn't matter!" Children know that it does matter. Instead, an active way may be best. You could say, "I'm going to do a couple of things for you to help you feel better in school."
If a boy is having trouble making friends, the teacher can help him. The teacher can arrange things so that he has chances to use his abilities to contribute to class projects. This is how the other children learn how to value his good qualities and to like him. A teacher can also raise a child's popularity in the group by showing that he values that child. It even helps to put him in a seat next to a very popular child, or let him be a partner with that child in activities, etc.
There are things that parents can do at home, too. Be friendly when your child brings others home to play. Encourage him to invite friends to meals and then serve the dishes they consider "super". When you plan trips, picnics, movies, and other shows, invite another child with whom your child wants to be friends.
What you can do is to give him a chance to join a group that may be shutting him out. Then, if he has good qualities, he can start to build real friendship of his own.
【小题1】A child who has been informed of being "uncool" may ________.
| A.care nothing about it | B.develop a sense of anger |
| C.do something uncool purposely | D.pretend to get hurt very much |
| A.seeing the child as the teacher's favourite |
| B.asking the child to do something for partners |
| C.forcing other children to make friends with the child |
| D.offering the child chances to show his good qualities |
| A.Children don’t care others' comments on them. |
| B.It's only teacher's work to make children popular. |
| C.Parents should take their children out for picnic and shows more often. |
| D.Inviting children's friends to family activities is good for them to make friends. |
| A.how to help an unpopular child |
| B.why some children are unpopular |
| C.who is responsible for unpopular children |
| D.how to find out good points of unpopular children |
When a rather dirty, poorly dressed person kneels at your feet and puts out his hands to beg for a few coins, do you hurry on, not knowing what to do, or do you feel sad and hurriedly hand over some money? What should our attitude to beggars be? There can be no question that the world is full of terribly sad stories. It must be terrible to have no idea where our next meal is going to come from. It seems cruel not to give some money to beggars.
Certainly, most of the world’s great religions order us to be open-hearted and share what we have with those less fortunate than ourselves. But has the world changed? Maybe what was morally(道德方面)right in the old days, when one knew exactly who in the village had suffered misfortune and needed help, is no longer the best idea. Quite a few people will not give to beggars. Let us look at their arguments.
First, some believe that many city beggars dress up on purpose to look pitiable and actually make a good living from begging. Giving to beggars only encourages this sort of evil(恶行).
Secondly, there is the worry that the money you give will be spent on beer, wine or drugs.
Thirdly, there is the opinion that there is no real excuse for begging. One might be poor, but that is no reason for losing one’s sense of pride and self-dependence.
There is an opinion that the problem should be dealt with by the government rather than ordinary people. Some people think the local government department should help the beggars
It is hard to come to any final conclusion: there are various cases and we must deal with them differently. A few coins can save a life in some situations, and even if the money is wasted, that does not take away the moral goodness of the giver.
【小题1】What is mainly discussed in the passage?
| A.Moral deeds of people. |
| B.Arguments on giving to beggars. |
| C.Moral goodness of the giver. |
| D.Religious activities of the church. |
| A.People no longer know who suffers misfortune in the village. |
| B.Some people will not do what was morally right in the past. |
| C.We don’t meet with those who need help any more. |
| D.Now it is the government’s duty to help the beggars. |
| A.Some people dress up to pretend to be beggars. |
| B.Some beggars have no excuse for begging. |
| C.Some beggars use the money to buy drugs. |
| D.Some beggars need money for their children’s schooling. |
| A.there is so much money wasted |
| B.there are so many beggars |
| C.the cases can be so different |
| D.there are so many different arguments |
Are you a big fan of pirate(海盗) stories? Do you know how to talk like a pirate? You can have fun on September 19th. This special holiday is called International Talk Like A Pirate Day. It was invented in 1995 by two young Americans, John Baur and Mark Summers.
These two good friends came up with this idea when they were playing racquetball, and began to talk like pirates. At that moment, they thought, “Young people are interested in pirate, but there is no such a chance for people to get together to share it. Why not have a day when everybody talks like a pirate?” They decided to make September 19th the date. Since then, Baur and Summers have tried hard to promote Talk Like A Pirate Day. As Baur said, “We’ve talked like pirates, and encouraged several of our friends to do so every September 19th.”
At first, this day was only known by a few people. In 2002, Baur and Summers sent a letter about their invented holiday to Dave Barry. This columnist(专栏作家)really liked their idea. He promoted the holiday and made it known to more and more people. Now, it has really become an international holiday. On Talk Like A Pirate Day, you need to dress like a pirate. You should wear a big hat or maybe cover one of your eyes. You can pretend to be any kind of pirate that you can find in any story or movie.
Having fun and being relaxed are not the only best things about the holiday. Young people share the same interest and childhood dreams that day. That's why it is welcomed by so many people, especially young people.
Unlike traditional holidays, International Talk Like A Pirate Day is a brand new holiday which is invented by the youth themselves and celebrated by themselves too. Because of Baur and Summers’ imagination and creativity, thousands of young people’s pirate dream come true. Next time, when you have a good idea, why not share it with your fiends and insist on your belief? Maybe you can create another wonderful holiday for the youth in the future.
1.How did John Baur and Mark Summers invent the special holiday?
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A.Many young people asked them to do it |
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B.They did it just for pleasure |
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C.They did it in order to honor pirates |
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D.They thought out the idea by chance and imagination |
2.Which of the following statements is NOT true according to the passage?
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A.It was Dave Barry who made more people know the holiday. |
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B.Talk Like A Pirate Day is a young, active and lively holiday |
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C.The holiday has been popular since the birth of it. |
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D.Thanks to John Baur and Mark Summers’ imagination and creativity, many people realize the pirate dream. |
3.According to the passage, which of the following can show that the holiday is special?
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A.It is a brand new holiday invented and celebrated by the youth themselves. |
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B.It is a wonderful and instructive holiday. |
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C.It has a long history. |
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D.People can make their dream come true on this day. |
4.Which of the following can serve as the best title of the passage in a newspaper?
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A.Young people’s pirate dream |
B.Can you talk like a pirate? |
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C.John Baur and Mark Summers |
D.September 19th—a traditional day in honor of pirates |
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Children have their own rules in playing games. They seldom need a referee(裁判) and rarely trouble to keep scores. They don’t care much about who wins or loses, and it doesn’t seem to worry them if the game is not finished. Yet, they like games that depend a lot on luck, so that their personal abilities cannot be directly compare. They also enjoyed games that move in stages, in which each stage, the choosing of leaders, the picking-up of sides, or the determining of which side shall start, is almost a game in itself.
Grown-ups can hardly find children’s game exciting, and they often feel puzzled at why their kids play such simple game again and again. However, it is found that a child plays games for very important reasons. He can be a good player without having to think whether he is a popular person, and he can find himself being a useful partner to someone of whom he is ordinary afraid. He becomes a leader when it comes to his turn. He can be confident, too, in particular games, that it is his place to give orders, to pretend to be dead, to throw a ball actually at someone, or to kiss someone he has caught.
It appears to us that when children play a game they imagine a situation under their control. Everyone knows the rules, and more importantly, everyone plays according to the rules. Those rules may be childish, but they make sure that every child has a chance to win.
What is true about children when they play games?
A. They can stop playing any time they like. B. They can test their personal abilities.
C. They want to pick a better team. D. They don’t need rules.
To become a leader in a game the child has to _____.
A. play B. wait for his turn
C. be confident in himself D. be popular among his playmates
What do we know about grown-ups?
A. They are not interested in games
B. They find children’s games too easy
C. They don’t need a reason to play games
D. They don’t understand children’s games
Why does a child like playing games?
A. Because he can be someone other than himself.
B. Because he can become popular among friends.
C. Because he finds he is always lucky in games.
D. Because he likes the place where he plays a game.
The writer believes that _____.
A. children should make better rules for their games
B. children should invite grown-ups to play with them
C. children’s games can do them a lot of good
D. children play games without reasons
查看习题详情和答案>>Women consistently lie on social networking sites such as Facebook or Twitter to make their lives appear more exciting, a survey has found.
Researchers found that at least one in four women exaggerated or distorted what they are doing on social media once a month. The survey of 2000 women found they mostly pretended to be out on the town, when in fact they are home alone, and embellished about an exotic holiday or their job.
The most common reasons for women to write “fibs” included worrying their lives would seem “boring”, jealousy at seeing other people’s more exciting posts and wanting to impress their friends and acquaintances.
Psychologists suggested that as people attempt to “stay connected” on social media, they can in fact “paradoxically” be left “more isolated”. They also said that the “more we try to make our lives seem perfect, the less perfect we feel”.
According to the OnePoll survey, one third of women surveyed admitted to “dishonesty” on social media sites such as Facebook and Twitter at some stage.
Almost one in four admitted to lying or exaggerating about key aspects of their life online between one and three times a month while almost one in 10 said they lied more than once a week.
Nearly 30 percent of women lied about “doing something when I am home alone”, almost a quarter overstated their alcohol consumption while one in five were not truthful about their holiday activities or their jobs. Almost one in five women even lied about their “relationship status”.
“We work very hard presenting ourselves to the world online, pretending and attempting to be happy all the time which is exhausting and ultimately unfulfilling,” said Dr Michael Sinclair, a leading British consultant psychologist.
“Omitting the less desirable imperfections of our lives from the conversations with our `friends` online leads to less opportunity to feel empathized with(与…产生共鸣), resulting in a greater sense of disconnection from others.”
The survey was commissioned by Pencourage, a new anonymous “diary-style” social media website.
【小题1】Which of the words below is closest in meaning to the underlined word “fibs” in Para 3?
| A.life experiences | B.short stories |
| C.careful thoughts | D.insignificant lies |
| A.hopes to make more friends | B.envies other people’s exciting life |
| C.feels lonely at home | D.gets tired of the boring life |
| A.avoiding conversations with friends |
| B.describing her holiday activities |
| C.leaving out the imperfections in life |
| D.overstating her trouble at work |
| A.eventually make one’s life more exciting |
| B.actually lead to a sense of isolation |
| C.really improve one’s sense of happiness |
| D.scarcely have any influence on relationships |