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Some people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you have known them half your life. These people have something in common. And once we know what it is, we can try to do it ourselves.
How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they’ll help you put people at their ease, and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, “At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It’s a common question, but it will get things going.” From there you can move on to other matters--sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
In addition, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn’t. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively.
Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the subject of conversation. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he’s really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it’s time for you to change the subject.
Last but not least, good talkers know well how to deal with the occasion of parting. If you’re saying good-bye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, “I’ve really enjoyed meeting you.” If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it a secret. Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their life.
1. Which of the following is NOT the reason why good talkers ask questions?
A.To get the conversation going smoothly.
B.To continue the conversation with other matters.
C.To make more new friends.
D.To know how far the conversation can go.
2. How many skills does the author give us to be good talkers?
A.Three. B.Four. C.Five. D.Six.
3. In general, good talkers are persons who __________.
A.can keep the conversation interesting
B.never talk too much or too little
C.always keep the conversation a secret
D.can change the topic of the conversation properly
4. If you are willing to meet someone again, __________.
A.you’d better let him know it
B.you’d better shake his hand firmly
C.you’d better keep it a secret
D.you’d better understand him further
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Dear Mr. Brown, |
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How is your stay in Beijing? |
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I am writing to tell you a piece of excited news:I |
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won the first place in Spoken English Competition of |
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our city. The progress that I made it is due to your |
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kind help. You spent much time helping me with my |
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spoken English that I make great progress during the |
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competition. I remembered your advice: “Speaking |
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slowly but clearly with a smile on your face.” Thank |
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you very much for your time and advice. |
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I heard you and your wife would visit our school |
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before long. I'm very glad and look forward to see |
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you. I sent you a camera for a small gift. Please check |
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the mail and I hope you will like it. |
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Yours, |
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Li Ping |
Some people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you have known them half your life. These people have something in common. And once we know what it is, we can try to do it ourselves.
How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they’ll help you put people at their ease, and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, “At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It’s a common question, but it will get things going.” From there you can move on to other matters--sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
In addition, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn’t. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively.
Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the subject of conversation. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he’s really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it’s time for you to change the subject.
Last but not least, good talkers know well how to deal with the occasion of parting. If you’re saying good-bye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, “I’ve really enjoyed meeting you.” If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it a secret. Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their life.
【小题1】 Which of the following is NOT the reason why good talkers ask questions?
A.To get the conversation going smoothly. |
B.To continue the conversation with other matters. |
C.To make more new friends. |
D.To know how far the conversation can go. |
A.Three. | B.Four. | C.Five. | D.Six. |
A.can keep the conversation interesting |
B.never talk too much or too little |
C.always keep the conversation a secret |
D.can change the topic of the conversation properly |
A.you’d better let him know it |
B.you’d better shake his hand firmly |
C.you’d better keep it a secret |
D.you’d better understand him further |
Cloze
How is the movie compared with the book on which it is based? Like the movie, the book can have a 1 of settings. It can also contain a lot of details. However, what we see in a second often takes 2 to read. The reader would soon grow 3 with all the descriptions necessary for many changes in place. He 4 be confused by too many characters. He would have to slow down his reading speed, and that would make things even 5 for the author's words might sometimes “get in the way”. Most readers know 6 it means to have the words “disappear” 7 the reading of a well-written story. If a book 8 to include all the details of a movie, this would hardly be 9 . But the book does have at least one advantage 10 the movie, 11 . The author can simply 12 his readers what he want them to know. For instance, an author writes, “Henry had been a sad boy since his father died in a train accident three years ago. ” A movie writer can not tell this to the 13 directly. He would have to 14 one of his characters say it, or show the accident in a flash back and then show 15 Henry was still sad.
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书面表达
假设你是李华。你的美国朋友Paul刚到长春三天,对长春还很不熟悉,请你写一封邮件,对他来长春学习汉语表示欢迎,并提醒他注意以下事项:
1.明天天气很凉,请他穿暖和的衣服;
2.你明天会在他住处附近的超市门口等他,和他一起买菜;
3.超市就在他住的楼下向左走第二个路口处;
4.路上车可能会很多,请他注意交通安全。
5.请他有急事给你打电话。
注意:
1.词数100-120。
2.信的开头和结尾已为你写好,不计入总词数。
3.可适当增加细节,以使行文连贯。
Hi, Paul,
How is everything going?
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Good luck.
Li Hua