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My parents don't listen. How can I communicate with them?
Communication is hard work. It's often easier to say nothing than to talk things out. But you shouldn't make excuses not to communicate — "They never listen anyway", "We will only end up fighting", or "They will just make fun of me".
You should also avoid(避免) communication killers. When your parents don't seem to understand you, it doesn't take long for you to form habits that kill communication. Some of these communication-killers are:
The silent treatment. You don't speak at all to your parents.
Just putting up with(忍受) it. You say what you think your parents want to hear, but then go out secretly and do what you want anyway.
Bigger, better, and nicer. You tell your parents how much better your friends' parents are.
Running away. You get so frustrated(沮丧的) that you leave the room or the house to avoid further quarrelling.
Don't get frustrated or give up. Keep the lines of communication open. Just follow the tips
below.
You must always keep in mind that they are your parents and that you have to respect them. If you make a mistake, admit (承认) it, and say sorry. If they do something wrong to you, point it out to them without getting loud or quarrelling with them.
Listen to what they have to say because parents are wiser about some things and are always trying to protect you. Put yourself in their shoes and when you are talking to them, don't say anything which might be held against you. Don't let your anger put down your character.
Communicate with your parents; don't let the day end without reaching an agreement and make sure that the agreement pleases yourself, as well as your parents. Let it all go; tell your parents how much you love them.
37. Which of the following actions belong to "communication-killers"?
①Refusing to talk.
②Comparing your parents with others'.
③Shouting at your parents.
④Running away.
A.①②③ B.①②④ C.①③④ D.②③④
38. When our parents make a mistake, we should_______.
A. ask them to say sorry B. avoid it C. point it out politely D. forget it
39. Why should we listen to what our parents have to say?
A. Because they are always trying to stop us from being hurt.
B. Because they are our parents and we have to respect them.
C. Because it will make communication easier.
D. Because they will be angry if we don't.
40. The last paragraph mainly tells us that_______.
A. we should understand our parents
B. we should love and respect our parents
C. we shouldn't care only about the result of the communication
D. we shouldn't leave the problem with our parents to tomorrow
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A: I lose things every day, but not very important things. I always find them again. When I find them back though, it's too 1 . I don't need them any more! For example, I need 2 a letter. I 3 . stamps yesterday, but I couldn't find them, so I had to buy some more.
B:I am usually very careful 4 my things. But there are 5 which I just can't keep, umbrellas, for example. I buy two or three umbrellas every year. I put them 6 in shops, restaurants or in the cinema 7 I forget them.
C:I lose papers and keys-usually important papers. I also leave my phone card in the telephone. Last month I 8 my bag in a shop:Another thing I often lose is my car keys. Last weak I lost 9 , so I took the bus to 10 When I got home, I found them in the rubbish bin!
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I know you’re busy these days, but you’d better ___________ off today’s work till tomorrow.
A.not to put B.not putting C.not put D.don’t put
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The father and the son continued (继续)their way. The sun was well up in the sky, and there wasn’t a house or even a tree where they could have a rest. Thomas felt too thirsty to walk. At this time, his father dropped(掉落) a cherry on the ground and Thomas picked it up quickly and ate it, after a while , his father stopped another cherry and once again, his son was busy picking it up and putting it in his mouth.
And so they went on. The old farmer dropped the cherries and the son picked them up. When Thomas had eaten up all the cherries, his father said to him, “My dear son, if you bent(弯腰) down early to pick up that horseshoe, it would not have been necessary for you to bend so many times for the cherries. Always remember the lesson that he who does not worry about the things will find that he cannot do the great things.”
小题1:Who picked up the horseshoe at last?
A.the son | B.The father |
C.both the father and the son | D.Neither the father or the son |
A.some bread | B.some water | C.some cherries | D.some pennies |
A.beat(打) the son | B.said nothing |
C.felt very happy | D.became very angry |
A.he wanted to teach his son a lesson. |
B.he wanted his son to do more exercise. |
C.he wanted his son to eat them all. |
D.he wanted to laugh at his son. |
A.cherries are so delicious that most of us like to eat them. |
B.a horseshoe is so expensive that it can bring us a lot of money. |
C.if we want to eat cherries, we must pick up a horseshoe. |
D.if we don’t worry about the little things, we cannot do the great things |