My parents don't listen. How can I communicate with them? Communication is hard work. It's often easier to say nothing than to talk things out. But you shouldn't make excuses not to communicate

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My parents don't listen. How can I communicate with them?

Communication is hard work. It's often easier to say nothing than to talk things out. But you shouldn't make excuses not to communicate — "They never listen anyway", "We will only end up fighting", or "They will just make fun of me".

You should also avoid(避免) communication killers. When your parents don't seem to understand you, it doesn't take long for you to form habits that kill communication. Some of these communication-killers are:

The silent treatment. You don't speak at all to your parents.

Just putting up with（忍受） it. You say what you think your parents want to hear, but then go out secretly and do what you want anyway.

Bigger, better, and nicer. You tell your parents how much better your friends' parents are.

Running away. You get so frustrated(沮丧的) that you leave the room or the house to avoid further quarrelling.

Don't get frustrated or give up. Keep the lines of communication open. Just follow the tips

below.

You must always keep in mind that they are your parents and that you have to respect them. If you make a mistake, admit (承认) it, and say sorry. If they do something wrong to you, point it out to them without getting loud or quarrelling with them.

Listen to what they have to say because parents are wiser about some things and are always trying to protect you. Put yourself in their shoes and when you are talking to them, don't say anything which might be held against you. Don't let your anger put down your character.

Communicate with your parents; don't let the day end without reaching an agreement and make sure that the agreement pleases yourself, as well as your parents. Let it all go; tell your parents how much you love them.

37. Which of the following actions belong to "communication-killers"?

①Refusing to talk.

②Comparing your parents with others'.

③Shouting at your parents.

④Running away.

A．①②③ B．①②④ C．①③④ D．②③④

38. When our parents make a mistake, we should_______.

A. ask them to say sorry B. avoid it C. point it out politely D. forget it

39. Why should we listen to what our parents have to say?

A. Because they are always trying to stop us from being hurt.

B. Because they are our parents and we have to respect them.

C. Because it will make communication easier.

D. Because they will be angry if we don't.

40. The last paragraph mainly tells us that_______.

A. we should understand our parents

B. we should love and respect our parents

C. we shouldn't care only about the result of the communication

D. we shouldn't leave the problem with our parents to tomorrow

BCAD

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Do you think of your parents? “Yes, of course.” You may answer. Maybe you buy a present for your mother on Mother’s Day, and you give your father _ 1._ 0n Father’s Day, too. Then 2.__the other days of a year? Always remember to think of your parents, not just 3. some important days.

I have a friend who lives _ 4._.because her parents live in another city. One day I went to visit her. We had a nice chat. Then she wanted to 5. a telephone call. She dialed the number, but then she put the phone down. After about ten 6. .she dialed the number again. “Hi, Mum...”

Later I asked, “why did you dial the number 7._?”She smiled.“ because my parents are old. They can't get close to the telephone 8._.I always do so when I call them, I just give them enough 9.___to answer the call.”

My friend is a good girl . She is always thinking about her parents. What do you think of this? I think: we should do some small things for our parents and make them 10.__every day.

11. A．it B．one C．this D．chat

12. A．how about B．how often C．how much D．how long

13. A．by B．with C．on D．of

14. A．lonely B．happily C．sadly D．alone

15. A．take B．make C．play D．buy

16.A, hours B. months C. seconds D. days

17. A．once B．Twice C．three times D．four times

18. A．quickly B．slowly C．quietly D．hardly

19. A．money B．fond C．room D．time

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Do you often 1 your parents? You may say “Of course, I 2 . I buy a present for my mother on Mother’s Day and on Father’s Day, I give my father 3 , too.” But what about the other days of the year?

I have a friend 4 parents live in another city. One day I went to see her. We had a nice 5 . Then she wanted to 6 , so she dialed(拨号) the number, but then she 7 the phone. After about fifteen 8 , she dialed the number “Hi, Mom.”

Later I asked, “ 9 did you dial the number twice?” She smiled, “My parents are old and 10 . They can’t get close to the telephone 11 . I always do so when I call them. I just want to give them 12 time to answer the call.”

My friend is a good girl. She is 13 thinking about her parents. You also want to be a 14 child, right? Please always remember to 15 your parents in every situation, not just on some important days.

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8.A、seconds B、minutes C、hours

9.A、How B、What C、Why

10.A、fast B、slow C、healthy

11.A、quick B、quickly C、slowly

12.A、little B、quick C、enough

13.A、always B、never C、seldom

14.A、bad B、clever C、good

15.A、think of B、look after C、ring up

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　　"We learn many fresh and interesting things on micro blogs and they have become popular topics in class," said Andy Liang, 14. "If you do not know about them, you are out of the loop."

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　　But parents are worried that micro blogging could be a waste of time. Some misleading messages may even cause danger to kids, they said.

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　　---Try to talk face to face with people from time to time.

　　---Be critical*. Don't trust all the messages on a micro blog.

1.The underlined part "out of the loop" in the passage probably means .

　　A. not popular B. not excited C. unhealthy D. unlucky

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　　A. feel sad B. let out stress C. add pressure D. make friends

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B. bring a lot of misleading messages

　　C. become a window to understand young kids

D.lead to worse communication

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I used to travel by air a great deal when I was a boy. My parents used to live in South America and I used to fly there from Europe in the holidays. An airhostess would take charge of me and I never had an unpleasant experience. I am used to traveling by air and only on one occasion have I ever felt frightened. After taking off, we were flying low over the city and slowly gaining height, when the plane suddenly turned round and flew back to the airport. While we were waiting to land, an airhostess told us to keep calm and to get off the plane quietly as soon as it had touched down. Everybody on board was worried and we were curious to find out what had happened. Later we learned that there was a very important person on board. The police had been told that a bomb had been planted on the plane. After we had landed, the plane was searched thoroughly(被彻底搜查). Fortunately, nothing was found and five hours later we were able to take off again.

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( ) 2. The writer’s parents used to live in South Africa.

( ) 3. While they were waiting to land, an airhostess told them to be calm.

( ) 4. Nine hours later they could take off again.

( ) 5. There was really a bomb on the plane.

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