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Humans are social beings. We enjoy being understood and accepted. Unfortunately, Western culture values individual achievement more than personal relationships. We're better at finding career success than at connecting with other people. As a result, our relationships often suffer. Here are tips for better relationships with everyone.
Everyone wants to share the newest story, the great idea they have and their thoughts and advice. When talking to someone, hear him/her out without judgment or interruption. Focus on what's being said and do your best to understand.
All relationships require trust. Having no trust means worrying about what others are doing, thinking and saying when you're not around. It means monitoring and controlling someone instead of enjoying them.
You probably feel let down at the time when you fail to tell others what you want and then blame them for not reading your mind. So when you want something -- or want to share something -- be honest about it. Expressing your desires might feel uncomfortable, but it gives the other person a fighting chance to give you what you really want.
We're always looking to gain something from other people: positive emotions, knowledge, gifts. This is fine: humans are selfish by nature. The problem is, you can't just take and take in relationships. If you don't give back something of equal or greater value, there's no reason for other people to stay around you. In today's world, it's always about "me, me, me." This is why our relationships with friends, family are weak. You can't connect with other people if you're thinking about yourself all the time.
The best way to build better relationships with everyone is through positive actions.
Title | Building better relationships | |
The (76) ____ of suffering relationships | Western culture value individual achievement (77) ____ than personal relationships. | |
(78 ) ____ of building better relationships | Learn to listen and (79) ____. | When talking to someone, hear him/her out. |
Trust other people. | When you are not round, never (80) ____ about what others are doing, thinking and saying. | |
Be honest about (81) ____ you want. | When you want something, (82) ____ your desire frankly. | |
Be a giver. | If you want the people to stay around you, give back something equal or more (83) ____. | |
(84) ____ | The best way to build better relationships with everyone is to act (85) ____. |