题目内容
Five steps to take if your child is being bullied
51 The worst thing you can do is ignore it. Too often parents feel children and teens need to “work things out” on their own. If the problem is ignored, your child’s self-esteem will become unhealthy, he will be hurt mentally or physically, and he could become a bully himself.
Here are five steps you can take if your child is having problems with a bully:
52 This is an important first step and will help your child trust that you are able to help him with his problem. Accept what he has to say at face value by using your active listening skills.
Let your child know that he is not alone. 53 Reassure your child that he is not the problem. Nothing he did caused the bully to go after him.
If your child is being threatened in a physical or illegal way at school, report the problem. Your child may not want you to do this, or the school may not take it seriously, but violence cannot be tolerated. 54 You will need to model assertive (果断的) behavior by alerting those in charge where the bullying is taking place.
Teach your child assertive behavior and how to ignore routine teasing. Let them know it is okay to say “No.” sometimes even friends bully, so letting your child know they can be true to their own feelings and say “No” can go a long way.
55 Giving up possessions or giving in to a bully in anyway encourages the bully to continue. Identify ways for your child to respond to a bully---showing assertive but not aggressive behavior---and role-play them.
A. Believe what your child tells you.
B. Encourage your child not to give in to a bully.
C. Praise your child for being brave enough to talk about it.
D. Bullying is a terrible situation for a child to have to cope with.
E. If you choose not to do anything, that is what you’re teaching your child.
F. Most children have to deal with some type of bullying behavior at one time or another.
G. If your child comes to you because a bully is bothering him, you need to pay close attention to the problem.
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【解析】
G 根据本段内容可知当孩子收到欺负来寻找父母的帮助时，我们一定要注意这个问题，宁着手解决。
A 根据本段Accept what he has to say可知要相信孩子所说。
F 根据上一句he is not alone，让孩子知道很多人都会遇见bully的情况。
E 根据本段的Your child may not want you to do this, or the school may not take it seriously, but violence cannot be tolerated可知Ｅ符合要求。
Ｂ根据第一句Giving up possessions or giving in to a bully in anyway encourages the bully to continue.可知要教育孩子不要屈服。
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Aristotle once wrote that “happiness is a state of activity”. In other words, whether you, re
Seeking life-long satisfaction or a few moments of good cheer, you’ve got to move forward. We’ve interviewed the experts and found five steps to take toward a sunny mood（心情）：
Over a 30-year period, University of Illinois researchers asked nearly 120, 000 people how income, education, political participation volunteer activities and close relationships affected their happiness. Reported Newsweek, s Sharon Begley on the findings, “The highest levels of happiness are found with the most stable and satisfying relationships. ”
Singing aloud, talking to a stranger, raising your hand: all may increase a feeling of happiness, according to a study from Wake Forest University. Participants（参与者）followed the development of their moods for two weeks and reported feeling happier when they were more outgoing and less happy when reserved or withdrawn.
The editors of forbes. Com gave $5 or $20 to 46 strangers by chance. Half the group was told to spend the money on themselves, while the other half was told to spend it on others. Those who’d shared the wealth felt much happier at the end of the day than those who’d spent it on themselves. There was no difference in happiness between those who spent $5 or $20, suggesting that it, s not how much money you spend, but how you spend it, that inspires the spirit.
Studies from the Positive Psychology Center showed that discouraged people who wrote down three good things that happened to them each day for six months reported an improved attitude.
Drinking water really can help keep you cheerful. A small 2012 study from the University of Connecticut suggested that even slight dehydration（脱水） affected the moods of its female participants.
| Title | 【小题1】＿＿＿for Happiness | |
| Introduction | You will move【小题2】＿＿＿in the course of finding happiness | |
| The findings of【小题3】＿＿＿ | Some【小题4】＿＿＿toward happiness | |
| ·Value your relationships | ·The【小题5】＿＿＿happiness lies in the most stable and satisfying relationships | |
| ·【小题6】＿＿＿yourself | ·You can gain happiness by singing aloud or talking to others | |
| ·Spend money on others | ·Your spirit will be inspired by【小题7】＿＿＿the wealth | |
| ·【小题8】＿＿＿on the positive | ·Your attitude would be improved when you fix your attention on good things. | |
| ·Drink water | ·If a woman takes in enough water,her【小题9】＿＿＿of happiness may remain. | |
| Conclusion | Happiness can be found if all【小题10】＿＿＿have been done. | |
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When difficult people expresses themselves orally, they generally want at least two things: they’ve been heard and they’ve been understood. As a good communicator should be a good listener, five steps are advocated toward good listening.
The first step is cooperating. How does a difficult person know that you’re listening and understanding? In fact, it’s through the way you look and sound while he is talking. You may help him to fully express his thoughts and feelings. You do this by nodding your head in agreement, making certain sounds of understanding.
When the person begins to repeat what’s been said, it’s a signal of step two: turning back. It means that you repeat back some words he is using, sending a clear signal that you’ve listening carefully and that you think what he is saying is important.
Having heard what he has to say, the next step is clarifying. At this point, you start to gather information about what is being communicated. Ask same open-ended questions, which will allow you to figure out what intention he is hoping to satisfy.
The fourth step is to summarize what you’ve heard. This allows you to make sure that both you and the difficult person the same page. When you do this, two things happen. First, if you’ve missed something, he can fill in the details. Second you’ve shown that you’re making an effort to understand completely. This increases possibility of gaining cooperation from him.
Having listened carefully, you’ve now arrived at the point of confirming with the person that he feels satisfied that his thoughts have been fully voiced. Ask if he feels understood.
Then enough sincere listening, questioning, and remembering are brought together, understanding is usually achieved and a difficult person becomes less difficult and more cooperative.
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Listen to understand |
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Difficult people hope they have been heard and2. ▲ when they express themselves. |
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◆4. ▲ in agreement and make some sounds of understanding while a difficult person is speaking. ◆Repeat some5. ▲ that you have heard. ◆Collect information about the person’s expressions and find his 6. ▲ . ◆Give a 7. ▲ of what the person has said. ◆Confirm that the person gains8. ▲ from speaking his thoughts. |
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A difficult person will be9. ▲ to cooperate with if understanding is achieved. |
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You may unlock the doors to difficult people’s minds after you listen and understand. |
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第四部分 写作（共两节，满分35分）
第一节 任务型读写（共10小题；每小题1分，满分10分）
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When difficult people exptures themeelves orally, they generally want at least two things:they’ve been heard and they’ve been understood.As a good communicator should be a good listener, five steps are advocated toward good listening.
The first step is cooperating(合作).How does a difficult person know that you’re listening and understanding?In fact, it’s through the way you look and sound while he is talking. You may help him to fully express his thoughts and feelings. You do this by nodding your head in agreement, making cartain sounds of understandiey.
When the peron begings to repeat what’s been said, is’s a two:turning that you repeat some words he is using, sending a clear signal the you’ve listening carefully and that you think what he is saying is important.
Having heard what he has to say, the next sterp is clarifying.At this point, you start to gather information about whoat is being communicated. Ask same open-ended questions, which will allow you to figure out what intention he is hoping to satisfy.
The fourth step is to summarize(概括)what you’ve heard.This allows you to make sure that both you and the difficult peson the same page. When you do this, two things happen First, if you’ve twisses shinething, he can fill in the (细节).Second you’ve shown that you’re making an effort to understand cometely. This increases possibility of gaining cooperation from him.
Having listened carefully, you’ve now arrived at the point of confirmning with the person that he feels satisfied that this thoughts have been fully voiced. Ask if he feels understood.
Then emough sincere listening, questioning, and remembering are brought together, understanding is usually achieved and a difficult person hecomes less difficult and more cooperative.
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Difficult people hope they have bem heard and(77) when they express theselves. |
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◆(79) in agreement and make some sounds of understanding while a difficult person is speaking. ◆Repeat some(80) that you have heard. ◆Collect information about the person’s expressions and find his(81) . ◆Give a(82) of what the person has said. ◆Confirm that the person gains(83) from speaking his thoughts. |
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A difficult person will be(84) to cooperate with if understanding is achieved. |
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You may unlock the doors to difficult people’s(85) after you listen and understand |