Question

【题目】根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。

Building Trust in a Relationship Again

Trust is a learned behavior that we gain from past experiences. 【1】 Trust is a risk. But you can’t be successful when there’s a lack of trust in a relationship that results from an action where the wrongdoer takes no responsibility to fix the mistake.

Unfortunately, we’ve all been victims of betrayal（出卖，背叛）. Whether we’ve been stolen from, lied to, misled, or cheated on, there are different levels of losing trust. 【2】 They’ve been too badly hurt and they can’t bear to let it happen again. It’s understandable, but if you’re willing to build trust in a relationship again, we have some steps you can take to get you there.

●Learn to really trust yourself. Having confidence in yourself will help you make better choices because you can see what the best outcome would be for your well-being.

● 【3】 If you’ve been betrayed, you are the victim of your circumstance. But there’s a difference between being a victim and living with a “victim mentality”. At some point in all of our lives, we’ll have our trust tested or violated.

● 【4】 Once trust is lost, what is left? Instead of looking at the situation from this hopeless angle, look at everything you still have and be thankful for all of the good in your life. 【5】 Instead, it’s a healthy way to work through the experience to allow room for positive growth and forgiveness.

A. You didn’t lose “everything”

B. It is putting confidence in someone.

C. Stop regarding yourself as the victim.

D. Sometimes people simply can’t trust any more.

E. Remember that you can expect the best in return.

F. This knowledge carries over in their attitude toward their future relationships.

G. Seeing the positive side of things doesn’t mean you’re ignoring what happened

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】B

【2】D

【3】C

【4】A

【5】G

【解析】

试题分析：本文告诉我们要信任他人，因为信任会给我们信心。同时如果我们遇到背叛，也不要自怨自艾，要尝试着从积极的方面看待问题。

【1】B 本题较难。第一句Trust is a learned behavior that we gain from past experiences.阐述信任的定义，后句Trust is a risk说明信任有时候也是一种危险。那么本句应该叙述信任的作用，故B项：信任给人带来信心。符合上下文串联。

【2】D 本段第一句Unfortunately, we’ve all been victims of betrayal（出卖，背叛）.我们会成为背叛的受害者。因为信任他人，我们收到伤害。导致很多人不再信任他人。所以D项符合上下文串联。

【3】C 根据本段第二句But there’s a difference between being a victim and living with a “victim mentality”.作为受害者和带着受到伤害的情绪生活是不同的事情。作者以此告诉我们不要把自己当成受害者。故C正确。

【4】A 根据本段第二句Instead of looking at the situation from this hopeless angle, look at everything you still have and be thankful for all of the good in your life.当别人背叛我们的时候，不要从绝望的角度看问题，要从对生活感激的态度来处理一切。实际上我们并没有缺少什么。故A正确。

【5】 G 根据下一句Instead, it’s a healthy way to work through the experience to allow room for positive growth and forgiveness.可知要把这种积极的态度当成一种健康的生活方式。与G项：看到事物的积极方面并不意味着我们忽视所发生的事情。