I was 15 when my mother died.As I walked out of church after the funeral, it 1 me:we never got to have one of those heart-to-heart mother-daughter 2 .At that moment, I believe, God had a plan for us: 3 Mom so much, we’d learn to know Dad.Our father had always been loving us, working hard as a high-school teacher.He always had Mom talk to us about 4 things.He’d get embarrassed to talk them–it was his upbringing, I guess.
Now here he was with three teenage girls 5 .Suddenly he had to 6 things like dating(约会)and bra(乳罩).The man who 7 showed his emotions became a man who’d listen to all our deepest heartaches.
When I was in college, my boyfriend, Paul, 8 with me.I thought it was the end of the world.When I came home for the weekend, dad saw something was wrong 9 I walked in the door.I 10 him, and everything spilled out.He didn’t have a lot of answers, but he was there to listen.I never felt that 11 could have done better.
Dad’s support helped me get things through:Paul and I decided to 12 .And when it came time, Dad insisted on doing the reception.I was so 13 to be getting married that I never thought I’d be a nervous bride.But 14 Dad walked me down the passageway of the church, tears rolled down my checks.When I looked over at him, he was 15 too.
Paul and I now have three kids, and Grandpa is part of their life too.Every Thanksgiving and Christmas we go back to 16 .Then recently we decided with my brothers and sisters to take a camping trip the way we used to 17 Mom.We camped out for a week–2 of us–Dad and all his kids and grandchildren.
Dad helped me 18 that every person is here for a reason, affecting 19 in ways we cannot see.We all miss Mom 20 words can express, but we were given the best mom a dad could be.