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Know that you are in low spirits for the quarrels with your parents£¬I would like to help you, but I can totally understand your feelings.
To start with it, you should know what this kind of communication problem worries nearly all the teenagers. Therefore, you don¡¯t have to blame yourself not having a good relationship with your parents.
Actually, it isn't easy for them to talk about myself with my parents either, so my solve is to write down my thoughts in a letter to them. We need to tell them what we want and learn to negotiate. For example, I once get my parents to let me hang out with my friends on weekends unless I got better scores.
What¡¯s more, trust the love of your parents for you and have some faith in them.
They will absolute listen to you and understand you in the end.
I¡¯m looking forward to your good news.
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