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【题目】Why do parents have such a difficult time to communicate openly and honestly with their teens? For this, there are many reasons but most of them stem from not being able to properly understand their teens. It is a dangerous gap because parents will have to communicate with their teens about a wide variety of issues during the most important years of their lives. Thus, parents must know how to communicate openly and honestly with their teens.

Here are a few tips to make communication easier between parents and teenagers.

1. Try not to talk down to your teens. Make them feel as if their views really matter, which not only helps your discussions with your teen but bring you closer to him.

2. Imagine what it would be like to be a teen. Try to remember some of the negative feelings you experienced as a teenager and apply it to your teen's situation.

3. Never make negative remarks to your teen about what he has said or done.

4. Remember how much courage it would have taken for your teen to come and talk to you about his personal issues. So listen respectfully.

5. Don't ignore your teen's feelings because it is usually a cry for help. For instance, if your teen is unusually angry, it may be time to spend a bit of quality time with your teen to determine what is wrong and where he is coming from.

It is, therefore, necessary for parents to strive to keep lines of communication open at all times with their teens. Try to remember what it was like to be a teenager and how vulnerable（脆弱的）you felt. Then you will be well on your way to help your teen communicate more openly and honestly.

【1】Why don't teens want to talk about their personal issues with their parents?

A. Because they can't respect their parents.

B. Because they can't understand their parents.

C. Because their parents won't understand them well.

D. Because their parents are not honest.

【2】When your son comes to you for help, you should NOT _____.

A. listen respectively B. treat him seriously

C. care about his feeling D. make negative remarks

【3】Which of the following has the similar meaning to the underlined phrase “talk down to”?

A. put down B. look down upon

C. chat with D. quarrel with

【4】The best title for this passage is _____.

A. Causes of generation gap

B. Relations between teens and parents

C. Suggestions for parents-children effective communication

D. Problems with communication between teens and parents

【答案】

【1】C

【2】D

【3】B

【4】C

【解析】

试题分析：针对现在父母和孩子无法交流的问题，本文提出了一些让父母和孩子有效交流的建议。

【1】C细节信息题。根据文章第一段中For this, there are many reasons but most of them stem from not being able to properly understand their teens.可知，父母与孩子交流困难的最根本原因在于不能理解孩子。故该题正确答案为C.

【2】D细节信息题。根据文中第三条建议：3. Never make negative remarks to your teen about what she has said or done.可知，父母不能对孩子做出负面的评价。故该题正确答案为D.

【3】B词意猜测题。根据文中对该条建议的解释和说明：Make them feel as if their views really matter, 要让他们觉得自己的看法很重要，可知不能瞧不起他们。故该题正确答案为B.

【4】C主旨大意题。通读全文可知，全文的重点部分由第二段所引出（Here are a few tips to make communication easier between parents and teenagers.），由此可知这篇文章是介绍让父母和孩子有效交流的建议。故该题正确答案为C.

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