题目内容
Knowing how to communicate well needs very personal attention between you and another human being. Is there a better way to learn how to communicate effectively? Yes, there is. Please follow the 3 basic steps below.
1. Relax and Breathe.
Whether it's a business meeting or the first date, the first thing you must do in order to communicate is to relax. When you relax you are in control. You control your reactions and your reactions do not control you. Breathing is central to relaxation. Take a few deep breaths and your body will begin to be more at ease. This will help you apply what you already know about how to communicate well.
2. Think and you will be prepared.
Have you ever heard the old saying, "think before you speak"? Well, it is true. By thinking ahead about how the conversation might flow, you will be better prepared, more at ease and more confident.
3. Follow the flow of the conversation.
If you are uncomfortable, being silent will only make it worse and make the other person uncomfortable as well. So when all else fails, follow through with small talk until a common topic appears.
A good way to keep a conversation going is to ask the other person questions. People love to talk about themselves and if you do this they will think very highly of you. Learning good communication skills is not something out of reach. If you make an effort, you will succeed.
1.Which of the following is the best title of the passage?
A. Preparation and Conversation B. How to Communicate with Anyone You Meet
C. Personal attention and Communication D. How to Keep Your Conversation Going
2.If you want to talk with others successfully, the most important thing you should do is .
A. to follow the flow of the conversation.
B. to take as many deep breaths as possible
C. to make a good preparation for the conversation
D. to keep calm and relax yourself fully
3.Why does relaxation play an important part in your good communication?
A. Because it can help you put your communication skills that you know into use.
B. Because it will help you organize good sentences for your communication.
C. Because it can help you keep excited and react quickly in the communication.
D. Because no one likes to communicate with a nervous person.
4. If you feel uncomfortable, you’d better .
A. keep silence in order to give the chance of speaking to others
B. talk small things until you find a topic you both like
C. speak freely so as to run across the topic you like
D. ask questions which you are interested in
5. What’s the meaning of the underlined sentence?
A. Good communication skills can be learned if you try.
B. You will be good at communication if you try.
C. Not all people can learn good communication skills.
D. Communication skills can be improved easily.
1.B
2.D
3.A
4.B
5.A
【解析】略
Outside our hotel in Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam, a seemingly ancient woman waited beside the door with her hand outstretched. Every day I put my hand in hers as our eyes met. She never failed to return my smile, my grasp, and my greeting.
On the last day of our visit, I found myself alone on a busy corner across the street from our hotel. Bicycles and motorbikes rushed in front of me. As I hesitated on the sidewalk, I felt a hand on my elbow and looked down to see the smile of my small beggar friend looking up at me. She nodded her head toward the street, indicating that she would take me across. Together, we moved slowly into the chaos.
Then we moved on toward the sidewalk, where she pulled my face down to hers, kissed me on both cheeks, and then left, still smiling and waving back to me.
Traveling in poorer nations, I have witnessed a variety of ways to deal with beggars. The most common response of tourists faced with the poverty-stricken is to ignore them and focus their eyes elsewhere. I have seen people push away an outstretched hand in angry annoyance. A few may drop a few coins into the hand in a hurry, hoping that other ragged pursuers won’t immediately appear on the scene.
For many reasons, giving money is not the best response to an outstretched hand. Many world travelers have discovered that the greatest gift they can give is their time and respect. Everyone needs recognition, to be seen as worthy of being known, to feel appreciated and loved. And I believe that everyone is worthy and worth knowing.
【小题1】The woman beggars helped the author go across the busy street because __________.
A.the author gave her material assistance |
B.the author treated her kindly and friendly |
C.the author would help her as a reward |
D.the author was a foreigner |
A.equal | B.superior | C.lower | D.valuable |
A.pretending to see nothing |
B.handing out some money |
C.refusing them angrily |
D.greeting them normally |
A.mercy and pity | B.money and food |
C.smile and greeting | D.attention and respect |
A.show how poor the beggars are in Vietnam |
B.offer some advice on dealing with begging |
C.express what we should offer the beggars |
D.describe an experience with a beggar |