题目内容
13."Sorry,but I don't agree with you…"This is usually followed by unbearable silence and angry tears.I've always found it difficult to disagree with someone because I don't want to lose a friend.I've found it even harder to accept it when someone disagrees with me,because my ego (自尊心) is hurt.Before the other person gets a chance to explain why she disagrees with me,my usual response would be,"If you aren't able to see my point of view,then what you think isn't worth my time or consideration,either."But now I've come to realize that when a friend disagrees with me,sometimes she is simply saying,"I don't agree with the way things are done."She still respects me as a person,and is only pointing out a better way to look at a matter.However,there may be times when my friend disagrees with me because I'm against the truth.That's when I need to listen to what she says.
I've learned that for me one way to help my friend is to be open and honest with the other to voice my thoughts and listen to the other carefully.While we can't control how a person will respond to our views,we must learn to disagree with our friends in love.We will never feel that we are better than the other person.And that will help us to be less emotional,and more objective in the way we express our opinions.In the same way,we can also stay open to feedback (反馈) from others,knowing that our friends may be correcting us in love.
Good friendships build each other up,sometimes through disagreements and honest opinions.Though I don't like being disagreed with,I'm starting to see the value of such disagreements.
32.The author has found it difficult to disagree with someone becauseB.
A.he is a friendly person
B.he wants to keep the friendship
C.he has no mind of his own
D.he usually hides his ideas
33.When a friend disagreed with him,the author used toA.
A.be unhappy
B.argue with the friend
C.break up with the friend
D.explain things calmly
34.The author will listen to a friend whenD.
A.he does things in the wrong way
B.he doesn't tell the truth
C.he is respected by the friend
D.he is against the truth
35.What does the author mainly talk about in the text?C
A.How to keep friendship.
B.How to avoid hurting a friend.
C.How to deal with disagreements.
D.How to express disagreements.
分析 短文主要讲了作者以前和现在分别是如何看待与朋友意见不一的,作者现在的看法是当与别人意见不一的时候,也能从其他人的看法学到东西.
解答 32.B,细节理解题,根据句子I've always found it difficult to disagree with someone because I don't want to lose a friend可知,作者觉得很难跟人意见不一致,因为他不想破坏这段友谊,故答案为B.
33.A,推理判断题,根据句子I've found it even harder to accept it when someone disagrees with me,because my ego (自尊心) is hurt.可以推断,以前当别人跟作者看法不一致时,作者应该是感到不开心的,故答案为A.
34.D,细节理解题,根据句子However,there may be times when my friend disagrees with me because I'm against the truth.That's when I need to listen to what she says.可知,当作者反对真相时,就会听朋友说了什么,故答案为D.
35.C,主旨大意题,短文主要讲了作者以前和现在分别是如何看待与朋友意见不一的,作者现在的看法是当与别人意见不一的时候,也能从其他人的看法学到东西,因此短文主要讲了如何处理意见不一,故答案为C.
点评 解答任务型阅读理解题,首先对原文材料迅速浏览,掌握全文的主旨大意.因为阅读理解题一般没有标题,所以,速读全文,抓住中心主旨很有必要,在速读的过程中,应尽可能多地捕获信息材料.其次,细读题材,各个击破.掌握全文的大意之后,细细阅读每篇材料后的问题,弄清每题要求后,带着问题,再回到原文中去寻找、捕获有关信息.最后,要善于抓住每段的主题句,阅读时,要有较强的针对性.对于捕获到的信息,要做认真分析,仔细推敲,理解透彻,只有这样,针对题目要求,才能做到稳、准.

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