题目内容
【题目】下列句子中，加点的成语使用不当的一项是
A．诗中描写了他在父母家里的忸怩不安和对大堰河感情上的依恋，反映了诗人叛逆性格和反抗精神的萌芽。
B．诗中，没有剑拔弩张之势，没有咄咄逼人之感，他对大堰河深厚的感情，都表现在娓娓动听的陈述之中。
C．全篇不断地使用排比和重复的修辞手法，在反复地吟咏中，更使诗人的感情凝重隽永，意犹未尽。
D．大堰河多么渴望能和她的乳儿、儿媳生活在一起，享受天伦之乐。
【答案】C
【解析】“意犹未尽”指还没有尽兴，词义与语境不合。
【题目】
When difficult people express themselves orally, they generally want at least two things: they’ve been heard and they’ve been understood. As a good communicator should be a good listener, five steps are advocated toward good listening.
The first step is cooperating( 合 作 ).How does a difficult person know that you’re listening and understanding? In fact, it’s through the way you look and sound while he is talking. You may help him to fully express his thoughts and feelings. You do this by nodding your head in agreement, making certain sounds of understanding.
When the person begins to repeat what’s been said, it’s a signal of step two: turning back. It means that you repeat some words he is using, sending a clear signal that you’re listening carefully and that you think what he is saying is important.
Having heard what he has to say, the next step is clarifying. At this point, you start to gather information about what is being communicated. Ask same open-ended questions, which will allow you to figure out what intention he is hoping to satisfy.
The fourth step is to summarize(概括)what you’ve heard. This allows you to make sure that both you and the difficult person the same page. When you do this, two things happen. First, if you’ve misses something, he can fill in the details(细 节).Second you’ ve shown that you’ re making an effort to understand completely. This increases possibility of gaining cooperation from him.
Having listened carefully, you’ve now arrived at the point of confirming with the person that he feels satisfied that this thoughts have been fully voiced. Ask if he feels understood.
Then enough sincere listening, questioning, and remembering are brought together, understanding is usually achieved and a difficult person becomes less difficult and more cooperative.
根据短文内容完成下列表格。
Topic | 【1】 to understand |
Reason | Difficult people hope they have been heard and【2】 when they express themselves. |
【3】 on listening | ◆【4】 in agreement and make some sounds of understanding while a difficult person is speaking. ◆Repeat some【5】 that you have heard. ◆Collect information about the person ’ s expressions and find his【6】 . ◆Give a【7】 of what the person has said. ◆Confirm that the person gains【8】 from speaking his thoughts. |
Result | A difficult person will be【9】 to cooperate with if understanding is achieved. |
Comment | You may unlock the doors to difficult people’ s【10】 after you listen and understand. |