Many people do not know what to do in face of a decision(决定),big or small.Most decisions aren't life-changers.But often,the decision isn't between this or that, it's between acting or not. If this worries you, here are some tips.
Jog or ride a bike to nowhere.
Just start moving in hopes of leaving the familiar(熟悉).Walk down every street or path you can find until you lose your way.Then, see where you end up. Remember what it felt like to wonder(疑惑) where you were going?Try to lose yourself more often.It'll make you better at making a decision.
Sit outside with no technology for an hour.
Let yourself get bored.Can you hear the birds singing?The wind blowing?Yourself breathing?Try to do this once a week,then every other day,then every day.One of the reasons we find it hard to make better decisions is that we keep getting attracted(被吸引的) to new things.A break from the noise will lead you to the decision you need to make.
Do something that makes you afraid.
People who have trouble making decisions fear mistakes.Tell someone you love them.Laugh out loud in a public place.Give a speech to a stranger.And when you do this,remember how you feel When you're afraid of a risky situation the next time,tell yourself that you didn't lie.And try to trust the process in the future.
Some of these things may seem foolish,but the more you do them,the more you'll control(控制) yourself.It doesn't matter where you're going.Just go.Once you start moving,you can always change the direction.Do not worry about it.
The art of making 1. | ||
Introduction | People often have to decide whether(是否) they will 2. or not. | |
Some 3. for make a decision | Going for a jog or 4. a bike | *Start moving to leave the familiar and get 5.. *Do it more often and it will make you 6. at making a decision. |
Stay outside 7. technology | *Do something outside to get yourself bored. *have a break from the 8. for a while daily and you will make better decisions. | |
Do something that scares you | *Don't 9. your feelings when you're afraid of a risky situation. *Trust the process in the future. | |
Conclusion | *The more you do,the more in control you'll feel. *Stop 10. about the direction to go and just start moving. |
你们班本学期的英语老师是一位来自于美国的年轻女老师Linda White,为了进一步了解你们,她让你把你的最好的朋友Mary(女生)或Jack(男生)介绍给她听,并把你心目中理想的学校向她简单描述一番。
Mary/Jack情况见下表:
姓名 | Mary/Jack | 年龄 | 14 |
外貌 | 方脸,微笑明亮的眼睛; 1.65米高; | ||
个性 | 乐于助人(举1例);幽默(举1例);替朋友保守秘密,从不说他人坏话;有耐心 | ||
爱好 | 对打羽毛球感兴趣;喜欢做些阅读,长大想要成为一名杰出的作家 | ||
理想的学校 | ......(自由发挥,3-5句) |
要求:
1)表达清楚,语法正确,上下连贯;
2)必须包括所有相关信息,并作适当发挥;
3)词数:100词左右(开头和结尾已给出,不计入总词数);
4)不使用真实姓名和校名等。
First, let me introduce my best friend ________ to you.
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Now, I will say something about my ideal school. My ideal school__________________________________
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