A high school teacher once told us, "If you make one close friend in school, you will be most fortunate. A true friend is someone who stays with you for life. " 36 teaches that he was right. Good friendship is just not easily 37 .
It is possible that we simply do not stay in one place long enough to wait for 38 friendship to develop. However, there can be 39 disagreement for each of us to think carefully about the kind of friendship we want.
To most of us, friendships are considered very 40 We also need to understand 41 our minds the kinds of friendship we want. Are we to be close or 42 at arm's length? Do we want to 43 ourselves or do we want to walk on the surface? For some people, many friendships on the surface are quite enough and that's all right. 44 at some important points we need to 45 sure that our expectations are the 46 as our friends' expectations. The sharing of personal experience 47 our tears as well as our dark dreams 48 the surest way to deepen friendships. But it must be done slowly and carried on only if there are 49 of interest and action in return.
What are some of the 50 of friendship? The greatest is the attraction to expect too much too soon. To have deep relationships with each other will 51 time. Another "major difficulty" is the selfishness to think one "possesses" the other, including his time and attention. Similarly, friendships 52 actions in return. In 53 words, you must give as much as you take. Finally there is a question of taking care of the relationship. 54 you spend some time together, talking on the phone, writing letters, or doing things together, 55 will die away.
36. A. Knowledge | B. Money | C. Experience | D. Preparation |
37. A. understood | B. formed | C. realized | D. answered |
38. A. true | B. common | C. free | D. actual |
39. A. some | B. no | C. any | D. much |
40. A. important | B. interesting | C. funny | D. difficult |
41. A. from | B. on | C. at | D. in |
42. A. got | B. left | C. kept | D. stayed |
43. A. own | B. teach | C. share | D. spare |
44. A. And | B. But | C. Or | D. So |
45. A. make | B. think | C. get | D. keep |
46. A. work | B. thing | C. one | D. same |
47. A. includes | B. to include | C. including | D. included |
48. A. was | B. is | C. were | D. are |
49. A. marks | B. sights | C. scenes | D. signs |
50. A. difficulties | B. differences | C. advantages | D. things |
51. A. get | B. spend | C. ask | D. take |
52. A. require | B. suppose | C. depend | D. suggest |
53. A. some | B. many | C. other | D. different |
54. A. Unless | B. If | C. When | D. As |
55. A. things | B. friendships | C. expectations | D. difficulties |