题目内容
Parents need to teach their children how to behave______.
A. in public B. in company C. in peace D. in trouble
B
解析:
考查介词短语。句意:父母应当教导孩子如何在公众场合举止得体。A项“当众”与句意有一定差距;B项“在大庭广众之下”符合句意。
Some kids start to drink alcohol (酒精) at a young age. They think it is part of becoming an adult.They also think drinking is not that bad because so many people do it.They feel it is not as bad as taking drugs (毒品). It is easy for kids to get liquor(酒精饮料)by using fake identification (伪造证件).
Parents may start to notice a change in their child’s behavior if the child starts drinking. Kids who drink sometimes stop doing things they normally liked to do.They may keep telephone calls and meetings a secret and not want anybody to touch their things.They act moody(喜怒无常) and do not have the same eating and sleeping habits.
Parents need to stay involved (牵涉) in their kids’ lives. They should talk to their children about their problems to be aware of any changes.
Parents can be the best protection. Children who get a lot of love can feel good about themselves. It helps them resist(抵抗) doing bad things even when other kids are doing them. Parents can also help set a good example by not drinking and driving. They can have firm rules in the home that everyone follows.
Give the children good ideas on how to say “no” to drinking, even when they are at a party. Try not to overreact or panic (惊慌) if the child tries alcohol. How you handle it can affect their attitude. It may be helpful to talk to other parents about setting up curfews (宵禁令) and rules about parties or other events.
【小题1】Which of the following is NOT the reason why some kids have an early start of drinking?
| A.They want to show their maturity (成熟) by drinking alcohol. |
| B.Drinking alcohol is much cooler than taking drugs. |
| C.They are affected by many other people around them. |
| D.They can get liquor easily. |
| A.Nothing serious will happen to them. |
| B.They keep the same eating and sleeping habits. |
| C.They can control their moods quite well. |
| D.Sometimes they act secretly. |
| A.punish them at once |
| B.ask the police for help |
| C.ask their children’s friends for help |
| D.set up curfews and rules about parties or other events with other parents |
| A.Teen health. | B.Teen education. |
| C.Teen drinking | D.Parents’ worries. |
For many years there's been a debate about rewarding our children. Does it work? Is it effective?
Some people think we should establish a standard with our kids and give them something for meeting this standard as a reward. Punishment is given out in much the same way, but it’s used when certain standards of performance, behavior, etc. have not been met. Kids will often become more dutiful when threatened with punishment, and work harder when promised a valuable reward. The problem is what happens when you aren’t around.
To develop responsible, self-disciplined kids, parents need to promote certain ideas. One of these ideas is that everyone pitches in and helps in your family. Another idea is that there can be enjoyment in doing any task if we choose to make it so. When a task is for a worthy cause (our family can enjoy the house more because I helped clean it), this message can have a big impact.
This is how we help our kids develop a sense of responsibility. When our children develop this responsibility, they’ll be more disciplined, and they’ll control their emotions better. When we give rewards to our kids, we reduce the sense of responsibility. We also create children who may temporarily perform to a certain standard, but who aren’t likely to continue the performance without the carrot hanging in front of them.
“Rewards and punishment can change behavior for a while, but they cannot change the person who engages in the behavior,” said Alfie Kohn, author of Punished by Rewards. “Good values have to be grown from the inside out.” Parents can help give their children a sense of shared responsibility and discipline which can last a life time. The real rewards that your children receive will be their readiness for the complex and demanding world that waits for them—a world that rewards those who have learned the secrets of discipline responsibility. So keep those shiny rewarding to yourself, and let your kids find their own rewards.
【小题1】According to the passage, when children are threatened with punishment, ______.
| A.they may lose interest in their work |
| B.the results will be worse than usual |
| C.they may change to another person |
| D.they may appear to be well-behaved |
| A.apologies | B.aims | C.rewards | D.doubts |
| A.never pay attention to the way their children do things |
| B.show their children how to behave by example |
| C.help their children establish good values |
| D.never punish their children |
| A.Should parents reward their children? |
| B.Do you often reward your children? |
| C.When should parents reward their children? |
| D.What can parents reward their children with? |
A major source of teen stress is school exams, and test anxiety is not uncommon. When you recognize your teen is under stress, how can parents help your teen stay calm before an exam?
Be involved. Parents need to be involved in their teen’s work. 1 . What they look for is your presence to talk, to cry, or simply to sit with them quietly. Communicate openly with your teen. Encourage your teen to express his worries and fears, but don’t let them focus on those fears.
Help them get organized. 2 Together, you and your teen can work out a time – table in which she can study for what she knows will be on the test.
Provide a calm setting. Help your teen set up a quiet place to study and protect his privacy. Give them a nutritious diet. It’s important for your teen to eat a healthy, balanced died during exam times to focus and do her best. 3 If this happens, encourage your teen to eat light meals or sandwiches. A healthy diet, rather than junk food, is best for reducing stress.
4 Persuade your teenager to get some sleep or do something active when she needs a real break from studying. Making time for relaxation, fun, and exercise are all important in reducing stress. Help your teen balance her time so that she will feel comfortable taking time out from studying to spend time with friends or rest.
Show a positive attitude. 5 Your panic, anxiety and blame contribute to your teen’s pressure. Make your teen feel accepted and valued for her efforts. Most importantly, reassure your teen that things will be all right, no matter what the results are.
| A.A parent’s attitude will dictate their teen’s emotions. |
| B.Exam stress can make some teens lose their appetite. |
| C.They will only make the situation worse. |
| D.Encourage your teen to relax. |
F.Help your teen think about what she has to study and plan accordingly.
G.Your teen may also make negative comments about themselves.