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You can help your teens to choose their friends, although it’s your teenagers who make the final decision. You can use teachable moments to talk about what makes a good friend. Here are some points to remember when you talk about friendships with your teenagers:
1) You are allowed to have many friends;
2) Honesty is important in a friendship;
3) Friends sometimes hurt each other, but they can say sorry and forgive(原谅);
4) Friends can influence each other, sometimes they will help you but sometimes they will hurt you, too.
5) Who you choose to be your friend is important, so choose wisely;
6) It takes many learned skills to make and keep a friendship, and it also takes many skills to end a friendship;
7) It is okay and even helpful to make friends with the opposite gender(异性);
8) It takes time to make a good friend, but it is worth the effort;
9) Spending time together will help you get to know your friends well and you will feel comfortable sharing feelings;
10) A good friendship will make you feel good about yourself.
小题1:What should their parents do when teenagers make friends?
A.Do nothing but give them all the freedom. |
B.Talk with them and give some help. |
C.Decide and choose friends for them. |
D.Stop them from making friends with opposite gender. |
A.Point 3. | B.Point 4. | C.Point 5. | D.Point 6. |
A.Honesty. | B.Effort. | C.Lies. | D.Skills. |
A.Teachers. | B.Parents. | C.Preteens. | D.Teens. |
A.Friends never hurt each other. |
B.There is no need to forgive friends. |
C.Teenagers are allowed to have many friends. |
D.Girls should never make friends with boys. |
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Punishments you set should be reasonable, without violence or threat (暴力或威胁). For example, if you find your son smoking, you may limit his social activities for two weeks. You should punish your kids only in ways you have discussed before the rule is broken. A study shows that the most popular punishment is to limit kids’ TV time.
It’s understandable that you’ll be angry when rules are broken. Punishment is a way to express your anger, but it’s not a very good one. Sharing your feelings of anger, disappointment or sadness with your kids can have a better effect (效果) on them. Try to do that. When your kids know what they have done has made you sad, they will feel compunctious. When they know their actions influence you greatly, they will obey rules better.
Rules are made to help your kids behave better. If your rules or ways of punishment make them unhappy or under a lot of pressure, are they helpful?
小题1:What’s the passage mainly about?
A.How to make rules. | B.Why to make rules. |
C.Why to punish kids. | D.How to educate kids. |
A.Beating them. |
B.Telling them empty threats. |
C.Limiting their TV time. |
D.Using punishments which are not mentioned in rules. |
A.Punishing them. |
B.Keeping silent. |
C.Asking them to do some housework. |
D.Telling them how disappointed you are. |
A.激动的 | B.无聊的 | C.刺激的 | D.内疚的 |
A.Punishment is the best way to educate kids. |
B.Breaking rules is common, so we don’t need to pay too much attention to it. |
C.Parents set ways of punishment in order to make kids know the price for breaking rules. |
D.More pressure should be given to kids. |
Many parents like setting family rules for their kids. When kids break rules, parents will give them some punishments, which aren’t included in rules. In fact, when you tell your kids about a new rule, you should talk with them about the price they should pay for breaking the rule — what the punishment will be.
Punishments you set should be reasonable, without violence or threat (暴力或威胁). For example, if you find your son smoking, you may limit his social activities for two weeks. You should punish your kids only in ways you have discussed before the rule is broken. A study shows that the most popular punishment is to limit kids’ TV time.
It’s understandable that you’ll be angry when rules are broken. Punishment is a way to express your anger, but it’s not a very good one. Sharing your feelings of anger, disappointment or sadness with your kids can have a better effect (效果) on them. Try to do that. When your kids know what they have done has made you sad, they will feel compunctious. When they know their actions influence you greatly, they will obey rules better.
Rules are made to help your kids behave better. If your rules or ways of punishment make them unhappy or under a lot of pressure, are they helpful?
【小题1】What’s the passage mainly about?
A.How to make rules. | B.Why to make rules. |
C.Why to punish kids. | D.How to educate kids. |
A.Beating them. |
B.Telling them empty threats. |
C.Limiting their TV time. |
D.Using punishments which are not mentioned in rules. |
A.Punishing them. |
B.Keeping silent. |
C.Asking them to do some housework. |
D.Telling them how disappointed you are. |
A.激动的 | B.无聊的 | C.刺激的 | D.内疚的 |
A.Punishment is the best way to educate kids. |
B.Breaking rules is common, so we don’t need to pay too much attention to it. |
C.Parents set ways of punishment in order to make kids know the price for breaking rules. |
D.More pressure should be given to kids. |