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Should you stay at home to look after your child,or return to work?
Maybe you don’t have the option.Combining work and motherhood is an issue faced by increasing numbers of women every day.
New research for the Institute for Economic and Social Research could solve this quandary once and for all.In short,it concludes that going back to work after the birth of a child can have a negative impact on the child’s development—unless you have lots of money.
“Growing up in a family in which the mother chooses to work appears to have some adverse consequences for children’s welfare,” the research says.However,it adds that extra money brought in by both parents can reduce the negative effect.The negative effect is also less apparent in children of better?educated mothers.
The research by John Ermisch and Marco Francesconi is especially downbeat about welfare to work programmes,and especially,the prospects for the children of some single parents.
“It is hard to see anything but gloomy (阴暗的) prospects for the children of single parents (who are generally poor),” the researchers said.This is because in a common family where both parents work,extra money brought in by the mother’s working would compensate for less time spent with the children.
In contrast,the researchers said the effects of paternal (父亲的) employment were far more modest,but this did not mean that fathers had no role in shaping their children’s welfare.Money brought in by the father would be a major resource for helping children develop.
The research says,however,that before parents get too carried away by worrying about working,there are more important issues facing a child’s development.Parents’ personalities and emotional stability,parenting practices,and the friends and networks that children experience while growing up will be much bigger factors than whether their mothers work.
1.The extra money brought in by both parents________.
A.plays different roles in shaping a child’s welfare
B.can reduce the negative effect on a child
C.has negative effect on a child’s development
D.may damage the life of children
2.The researchers would agree that________.
A.mothers should keep a balance between work and family life
B.the more money mothers make,the worse their children will be
C.mothers should make as much money as they can
D.it would be better for mothers to be with children at home
3.We can conclude from the passage that________.
A.it doesn’t matter how? much money a father brings home
B.education is the only factor in shaping a child’s welfare
C.money made by mothers can also contribute to a child’s well?being
D.mothers’ income can have a deeper effect on a child’s development
4.What can we learn from the last paragraph?
A.Whether mothers work is not worth considering.
B.The research shows family stability is important.
C.Parents should stop worrying about working.
D.More important factors are involved in a child’s development.
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About six years ago,I was eating lunch in a restaurant in New York City 36 a woman and a young boy sat down at the next table.I couldn’t help overhearing parts of their conversation.At one point the woman asked:“So, 37 have you been?”And the boy,who 38 more than seven or eight years old, 39 ,”To tell you the truth,I’ve been feeling a little depressed( 忧郁)lately.”
His words 40 in my mind because it confirmed my growing belief that children are changing. 41 I can remember,my friends and I didn’t find out we were“depressed” 42 we were in high school.
The evidence of 43 in children has increased steadily in recent years.Children don’t seem 44 any more.Children speak,dress,and behave more like adults than they used to.
45 this is good or bad is difficult to say,but it certainly is different.Childhood 46 it once was no longer exists.Why?
Human development is based not only on born biological states,but 47 patterns of access to social knowledge. Movement from one social role from another usually involves learning the secrets of the new status.Children have always been taught adults’ 48 ,but slowly and in stages: traditionally,we tell the sixth graders things we keep 49 the fifth graders.
In the last thirty years, 50 ,a secret - disclosing machine called television 51 installed in 98 percent of American families.It passes information, and indiscriminately(不加区别地),to all viewers alike,without considering they are children or adults.Unable to resist the temptation,many children 52 their attention from printed texts to the less challenging,more vivid moving pictures.
Communication through print,as a matter of fact, 53 a great deal of control over the social information 54 children have access.Reading and writing involve a complex code of symbols that must be memorized and practiced.Children must read 55 books before reading complex materials.
36.A.while | B.until | C.when | D.as |
37.A.How | B.What | C.Where | D.When |
38.A.mustn’t have been | B.couldn’t have been | ||
C.needn’t have been | D.shouldn’t have been | ||
39.A.replying | B.to reply | C.replies | D.replied |
40.A.stuck | B.kept | C.brought | D.bore |
41.A.As long as | B.As far as | C.As much as | D.As though |
42.A.when | B.while | C.until | D.after |
43.A.changes | B.styles | C.personalities | D.signs |
44.A.childish | B.childlike | C.childhood | D.childless |
45.A.If | B.Be | C.Though | D.Whether |
46.A.what | B.as | C.that | D.like |
47.A.in | B.on | C.of | D.to |
48.A.ideas | B.matters | C.secrets | D.problems |
49.A.hiding from | B.hidden from | C.hiding away | D.hidden of |
50.A.therefore | B.thus | C.moreover | D.however |
51.A.was | B.is | C.has been | D.had been |
52.A.draw | B.turn | C.pay | D.attract |
53.A.allowing for | B.allowed for | C.allows for | D.being allowed |
54.A.for which | B.to which | C.from which | D.in which |
55.A.easy | B.difficult | C.simple | D.clear |
The moment I knew my mother had incurable lung cancer, I realized for the first time that time will one day run out for us all.
I have determined to be with my mother as much as I possibly can. This is not out of a sense of
1, but because I really want to be near her. But making the time to2with my mother has been my greatest3. I have a husband, a four-year-old son and a home to nm. I also hold down a(n)4job as a radio announcer at the BBC.
I arrived at work one day to be told we would be doing a radio series exploring “time poverty”. I’ve5been taken with the idea that we are time-poor. How can I - who have so many labor-saving machines and an only child – have6time than my mother who had six children and no7?
I put this8a professor. He pointed out that it is because I try to keep my home much cleaner than my mother did. I admit I like to9to my friends. My husband says10that I remove all traces (痕迹) of human life11anyone arrives.
The professor said12has become the new religion. We expect work to provide us with a sense of identity and a means to secure our future. And because we13so much time in our working lives, we like to reward ourselves with material things. Frequently, we spend our money before it’s earned.14is an annoying worry, keeping us15to the work treadmill (跑步机).
The same professor suggested we16a Buddhist concept -- to enjoy each moment and activity for its own sake,17try to do lots of things at once. Since then I have been18the art of “living in the moment” whenever I get the chance. I have cleared my schedule of nonessential tasks,19house and garden plans, and turned down some extra work.
It is my mother’s illness, a once-in-a-lifetime event, that sets me20on the fact that we forget that time is a limited resource.
- 1.
- A.duty
- B.guilt
- C.sorrow
- D.sympathy
- A.
- 2.
- A.live
- B.be
- C.chat
- D.go
- A.
- 3.
- A.concern
- B.challenge
- C.chance
- D.trouble
- A.
- 4.
- A.demanding
- B.critical
- C.boring
- D.amazing
- A.
- 5.
- A.almost
- B.seldom
- C.never
- D.often
- A.
- 6.
- A.better
- B.worse
- C.less
- D.more
- A.
- 7.
- A.tape-recorder
- B.washing machine
- C.air-conditioner
- D.television
- A.
- 8.
- A.with
- B.for
- C.in
- D.to
- A.
- 9.
- A.show off
- B.draw attention
- C.look forward
- D.get close
- A.
- 10.
- A.angrily
- B.surprisingly
- C.jokingly
- D.seriously
- A.
- 11.
- A.after
- B.when
- C.as
- D.before
- A.
- 12.
- A.time
- B.entertainment
- C.work
- D.family
- A.
- 13.
- A.invest
- B.contribute
- C.give
- D.devote
- A.
- 14.
- A.Pressure
- B.Expense
- C.Life
- D.Debt
- A.
- 15.
- A.led
- B.chained
- C.relied
- D.focused
- A.
- 16.
- A.adopt
- B.advocate
- C.adapt
- D.acquire
- A.
- 17.
- A.more than
- B.instead of
- C.rather than
- D.other than
- A.
- 18.
- A.exercising
- B.practicing
- C.believing
- D.holding
- A.
- 19.
- A.fixed
- B.conducted
- C.postponed
- D.made
- A.
- 20.
- A.reflecting
- B.thinking
- C.considering
- D.wondering
- A.
Substances will expand or contract ______ heated or cooled, but this is not the case with water.
- A.when they will be
- B.if they will be
- C.as they being
- D.when
six years of marriage.Then the news about Tom changed.His wife Betty came back; he earned a fine
position.One day he told me what had changed his life."I used to think, 'Nothing can undo what I have
done.' The thought of my guilt would stop me in the middle of a smile or a handshake.It put a wall
between my wife and me."
"Then I had an unexpected visit from the person I was most afraid to see-the mother of the college
classmate who died.'Years ago', she said, 'I found it in my heart, through prayer, to forgive you.Betty
forgave you.So did your friends and employers.'She paused, and then said seriously, 'You are the one
person who hasn't forgiven Tom Anderson.Who do you think you are to stand out against the people of
this town and the Lord Almighty?'I looked into her eyes and found there a_kind_of_permission_to_be
_the_person_I_might_have_been_if_her_boy_had_lived.For the first time in my adult life I felt worthy to
love and be loved."
It is only through forgiveness of our mistakes that we gain the freedom to learn from experience. But
forgiving our shortcomings doesn't mean denying that they exist.On the contrary, it means facing them
honestly, realistically.
Can a person be allforgiving and still be human?A scientist I know spent four years as a slave laborer
in Germany.His parents were killed by Nazi street bullies; his younger sister and older brother were sent
to the gas chambers.This is a man who has every reason to hate.Yet he is filled with a love of life that he
conveys to everyone who knows him.He explained it to me the other day:"In the beginning I was filled
with hatred.Then I realized that in hating I had become my own enemy.Unless you forgive, you cannot
love.And without love, life has no meaning."Forgiveness is truly the saving grace.
1. Tom Anderson and his wife separated after six years of marriage probably because________.
A. he had killed one of his classmates
B. he had cared more for his adventure than for his wife
C. his wife looked down upon his poor position
D. his life had been made in a great mess by his deep guilt
2. The key reason for which Tom's life changed back to normal may be that________.
A. his wife Betty came back to him
B. the mother of his college classmate asked Betty to forgive him for his guilt
C. he eventually learned to face his guilt honestly, realistically and forgave himself
D. he earned a fine position and finally made a lot of money
3. The underlined part in the second paragraph means that________.
A. the mother of my college classmate permitted me to be a real person
B. even my college classmate would permit me to be what I used to be
C. I wouldn't be a person unless my college classmate permitted me to
D. I might have been a successful person if my college classmate had lived
4. The best title for this passage could be________.
A. Forgiveness:the saving grace
B. Hatred:unrealistic way of living
C. Love:a meaningful worthy life
D. Guilt:unforgivable mistake