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Dear SJ,
Losing a best friend is never easy.
Your problem is not just that you miss your best friend; it is that you feel empty and lost without her friendship.
It takes time to get over a lost, and during that time, your mind is getting used to a new way of being. This is usually a good thing, even if it feels like a bad thing.
Now that you are on your own, you are being forced to learn to be by yourself and to rely upon your own inner voice for guidance. I am sure that this feels strange for you, but if you can hang on for a bit longer, it may work to your advantage.
Best friends are cool, but it is important to know the difference between missing someone and being too dependent upon them.
At your age, girls do tend to stick together and having a good boyfriend may not yet be the better choice. Your friend is leaving you, her best friend, for a boyfriend. Boyfriends are completely different from best friends. The distinction is that boyfriends come and go, while girl friends often stay in your life throughout high school, and even afterwards. It is a completely different sort of bond.
I suggest that you take advantage of this period in your life to expand your horizons. Enjoy the freedom of having no best friend for a while, and hang with the group. By the time your former best friend breaks up with her boyfriend, you will be in a completely different place, a far better place.
And, by the way, next time you feel empty and lost, try to write about it in a diary. In several months, you will look back and read it with curiosity about yourself. “Who was I then, and what could I have been thinking?”
1．Judging from the letter, SJ’s problem was that she didn’t know .
A．whether to give up her best friend B．what to do without her best friend
C．whom to choose between two friends D．how to stop missing her former friend
2．The underlined part “a new way of being” (in Paragraph 3) refers to the situation in which SJ has to .
A．find a new friendship B．live without her boyfriend
C．learn to give up D．learn to be independent
3．The writer believes by the time SJ’s former friend loses her boyfriend, SJ will .
A．take revenge on her former friend
B．comfort her former friend
C．feel more independent and confident
D．continue friendship with her former friend
4．What does the last paragraph seem to suggest?
A．Unhappy experiences are easy to forget. B．Keeping a diary helps correct oneself.
C．SJ will get over her problem soon. D．One shouldn’t forget the past experiences.
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Dear SJ,
Losing a best friend is never easy．
Your problem is not just that you miss your best friend; it is that you feel empty and lost without her friendship．
It takes time to get over a lost, and during that time, your mind is getting used to a new way of being．This is usually a good thing, even if it feels like a bad thing．
Now that you are on your own, you are being forced to learn to be by yourself and to rely upon your own inner voice for guidance． I am sure that this feels strange for you, but if you can hang on for a bit longer, it may work to your advantage．
Best friends are cool, but it is important to know the difference between missing someone and being too dependent upon them．
At your age, girls do tend to stick together and having a good boyfriend may not yet be the better choice． Your friend is leaving you, her best friend, for a boyfriend． Boyfriends are completely different from best friends． The difference is that boyfriends come and go, while girl friends often stay in your life throughout high school, and even afterwards． It is a completely different sort of relationship．
I suggest that you take advantage of this period in your life to expand your horizons． Enjoy the freedom of having no best friend for a while, and hang with the group． By the time your former best friend breaks up with her boyfriend, you will be in a completely different place, a far better place．
And, by the way, next time you feel empty and lost, try to write about it in a diary． In several months, you will look back and read it with curiosity about yourself． “Who was I then, and what could I have been thinking?”
1．Judging from the letter, SJ’s problem was that she didn’t know ______．
A．whether to give up her best friend B．what to do without her best friend
C．whom to choose between two friends D．how to stop missing her former friend
2．The underlined part “a new way of being” （in Paragraph 3） refers to the situation in which SJ has to ________．
A．find a new friendship B．live without her boyfriend
C．learn to give up D．learn to be independent
3．The writer believes by the time SJ’s former friend loses her boyfriend, SJ will ______．
A．take revenge（报复） on her former friend
B．comfort her former friend
C．feel more independent and confident
D．continue friendship with her former friend
4．What does the last paragraph seem to suggest?
A．Unhappy experiences are easy to forget．
B．Keeping a diary helps correct oneself．
C．SJ will get over her problem soon．
D．One shouldn’t forget the past experiences．
查看习题详情和答案>>Dear SJ,
Losing a best friend is never easy．
Your problem is not just that you miss your best friend; it is that you feel empty and lost without her friendship．
It takes time to get over a lost, and during that time, your mind is getting used to a new way of being． This is usually a good thing, even if it feels like a bad thing．
Now that you are on your own, you are being forced to learn to be by yourself and to rely upon your own inner voice for guidance． I am sure that this feels strange for you, but if you can hang on for a bit longer, it may work to your advantage．
Best friends are cool, but it is important to know the difference between missing someone and being too dependent upon them．
At your age, girls do tend to stick together and having a good boyfriend may not yet be the better choice． Your friend is leaving you, her best friend, for a boyfriend． Boyfriends are completely different from best friends． The distinction is that boyfriends come and go, while girl friends often stay in your life throughout high school, and even afterwards． It is a completely different sort of bond．
I suggest that you take advantage of this period in your life to expand your horizons． Enjoy the freedom of having no best friend for a while, and hang with the group． By the time your former best friend breaks up with her boyfriend, you will be in a completely different place, a far better place．
And, by the way, next time you feel empty and lost, try to write about it in a diary． In several months, you will look back and read it with curiosity about yourself． “Who was I then, and what could I have been thinking?”
1．Judging from the letter, SJ’s problem was that she didn’t know ．
A．whether to give up her best friend B．what to do without her best friend
C．whom to choose between two friends D．how to stop missing her former friend
2．The underlined part “a new way of being” (in Paragraph 3) refers to the situation in which SJ has to ．
A．find a new friendship B．live without her boyfriend
C．learn to give up D．learn to be independent
3．The writer believes by the time SJ’s former friend loses her boyfriend, SJ will ．
A．take revenge on her former friend
B．comfort her former friend
C．feel more independent and confident
D．continue friendship with her former friend
4．What does the last paragraph seem to suggest?
A．Unhappy experiences are easy to forget．
B．Keeping a diary helps correct oneself．
C．SJ will get over her problem soon．
D．One shouldn’t forget the past experiences．
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Dear SJ,
Losing a best friend is never easy.
Your problem, is not just that you miss your best friend, it is that you feel empty and lost without her friendship.
It takes time to get over a lost, and during that time, your mind is getting used to a new way of being. This is usually a good thing, even if it feels like a bad thing.
Now that you are on your own, you are being forced to learn to be by yourself and to rely upon your own inner voice for guidance. I am sure that this feels strange for you, but if you can hang on for a bit longer, it may work to your advantage.
Best friends are cool, but it is important to know the difference between missing someone and being too independent upon them.
At your age, girls do tend to stick together and having a good boyfriend may not yet be the better choice. Your friend is leaving you, her best friend, for a boyfriend. Boyfriends are completely different from best friends. The distinction is that boyfriends come and go, while girl friends often stay in your life throughout high school, and even afterwards. It is a completely different sort of bond.
I suggest that you take advantage of this period in your life to expand your horizons. Enjoy the freedom of having no best friend for a while, and hang with the group. By the time your former best friend breaks up with her boyfriend, you will be in a completely different place, a far better place.
And, by the way, next time you feel empty and lost, try to write about it in a diary. In several months, you will look back and read it with curiosity about yourself. “Who was I then, and what could I have been thinking?”
67．Judging from the letter, SJ’s problem was that she didn’t know .
A．whether to give up her best friend B．what to do without her best friend
C．whom to choose between two friends D．how to stop missing her former friend
68．The underlined part “a new way of being” (in Paragraph 3) refers to the situation in which SJ has to .
A．find a new friendship B．live without her boyfriend
C．learn to give up D．learn to be independent
69．The writer believes by the time SJ’s former friend loses her boyfriend, SJ will .
A．take revenge on her former friend
B．comfort her former friend
C．feel more independent and confident
D．continue friendship with her former friend
70．What does the last paragraph seem to suggest?
A．Unhappy experiences are easy to forget. B．Keeping a diary helps correct oneself.
C．SJ will get over her problem soon. D．One shouldn’t forget the past experiences.
查看习题详情和答案>>very few people have deeply considered what it's really about.
When you ask people what it means to relax, most will answer in a way that suggests that relaxing is
something you plan to do later-you do it on vacation, when you retire, or when you get everything done. This
means, of course, that most other times (the other 95 percent of your life) should be spent nervous, restless,
rushed, and mad. Could this explain why so many of us perform as if life were one great big emergency
(紧急事件)? Most of us put off relaxation until our " in-basket (收文篮)" is empty. Of course it never is.
It is useful to think of relaxation as a quality of heart that you can own on a regular basis rather than
something left for some later time. You can relax now. It's helpful to remember that relaxed people can still be
super achievers and, in fact, that relaxation and creativity go hand in hand. When I'm feeling upright, for
example, I don't even try to write. But when I feel relaxed, my writing flows quickly and easily.
Being more relaxed includes training yourself to react differently to the dramas (戏剧) of life-turning your
melodrama (情节剧) into a sweet-drama. It comes, in part, from reminding yourself over and over again
(with loving kindness and patience) that you have a choice in how you respond to life. You can learn to relate
to your thinking as well as your situation in new ways. With practice, making these choices will translate into
a more relaxed self.
B. what realxation really means
C. when to relax
D. the ways to relax
B. emergency
C. relaxation
D. in-basket
B. something to be done now
C. something never to be done
D. something to be done like a dream
B. No one really understands what relaxation is.
C. relaxation is a good state of mind one should keep every day.
D. 95 percent of your life should be spent in a relaxed way.